The Essence Is Still Realistic!!!

Ok so someone tell me that it was mere a coincidence and I am not a psychic😆😆 coz there was some most crucial things that Mishra sisters said today which I had put in my yesterday's post:😲

Navya : (to Amar Sir) My theme is about "Change"….not just in the articles but in the society….the surroundings and the general thots. Btw…I found that convo very significantly echoing Navya, the show's, main theme and its essence and also foreshadowing whats to unfold next in the show. My post yesterday was basically based on this "change"

Renu: (to navya on phone) No 2 houses will be alike…..there will be differences but its how u work ur way around it n adjust into ur new family. Again something I mentioned in my post yesterday.

Ne ways….coming to today's epi…..I am not going get into any nitty gritty bits of the execution or even logic coz afterall…..this is a serial and not every frame is going to be perfect! I rather watch or began watching this show for its realism….how closely we can relate to this show….whether or not I can draw/deduce the main essence of the epi…whether the story not the characters in particular are in flow n I must say….the current happenings….even tho many of u feel is bordering on the saas-bahu saga…..is in realistically something that actually happens….Families like Bajpayees do exist….a "CHILD-MAN" like Anant do exists…..the way sughandha yesterday n even today behaved with navya do happen and circumstances like wat navya is facing with everyone wanting her attention all at once do happen…..and sometimes even the most matured friend can act immaturely…..remember everyone is not perfect n lots of hovering factors can affect a person's sound judgement….Here I am specifically talking about Ritz….agreed she had always maintained her equilibrium but she too can get affected…..her constant let down by Navya (even tho it was unintentional on navya's part)….the slow but steady distance that's being created amongst the friends is affecting Ritz's otherwise composed mental state and she is not able to think straight…..Very natural….very human and even tho I wud agree that she shud stand a strong pillar of support during this tough times for Navya…..I able to understand her behavior. I hope n infact I feel…..she will come around soon!!

Coming to Anant….I know lots of us fans (and that includes me) are getting irked by Anant's recent behavior and I am not going to defend him either but I am going to try to see things from his perspective….(ignoring wat I know as a viewer). Here is Anant, a "CHILD-MAN" as I have stated, who is immature and mature both at the same time…..who is a man and a child….both at the same time….who is sensible and senseless….again both at the same time….U may ask how is that possible….but let me tell u…..its very possible….infact there are quite few guys like him that I personally have met when they were at the age that Anant is in. Anant is defo no alien….he is a human with a heart full of emotions and a mind that is capable of thinking and that's exactly where Anant divides himself into a child and a man. Anant is capable of deriving a sound conscience…..he knows….the right from the wrong and he has always stood tall n firm when n where situations have called for it. The man in him unleashes when the need arises while he remains the kid he is from the heart at all other times enjoying life as it welcomes him day in day out living to his heart's content. Today when he was vigorously trying to call navya not being able to get thru….is was simply being his ziddi child self who didn't wanna reason out anything but just talk to navya. No he is not behaving right….but he is behaving how man with minimal patience limit (which anant has) do behave in real a lot of the times. I myself m a witness of such man in the real world. Its not that Anant doesn't know he shudnt behave like that….he will know….and let me tell u….he will own up to his behavior soon when he realizes it as well….but its just that when a factor called "zidd" invades his mind….and he simply cannot rationalize anything. This is the 1 main reason why he is not even accommodating a platform of communication between him n navya n is rather busy cooking up assumptions in his mind…..Is he right??? Definitely not….but that's a CHILD-MAN for u. Will he mature n come around…..Ofcourse he will….afterall ……he does have that sensible factor n the maturity in him too…..n right now with Navya not openly communicating with Anant her fears/experiences/difficulties (which btw is also not so wrong to do considering she is still is trying to digest all of this happenings with her n have not reached the point where she can safely include his family's negative points as well….atleast that's wat I think her state of mind shud be at!) is making things all the more topsy turvy between them…I for 1 cannot expect him to just read navya's state of mind n heart to the bullseye coz that's not possible….esp when he has not really lived with Navya's family or experienced fully their way of lifestyles…..I mean yes he has been to their house umpteen times….but one cannot just analyse completely every detail just as navya cudnt know when she went to anant's house many times b4. Therefore for Anant to really know wat are the apprehensions Navya is facing…..she will have to talk to him….make him aware of things that she comes across as being different from her house and only then can he truly support her and that m sure will happen but not so early. However, when n where Anant comes to know/realizes the struggles that Navya is going thru in his house……he will stand right there with her as he has always been!!!

Coming to Sughanda….I think this woman who is a rather very soft hearted person has been constantly rubbed against the stone which is why she appears to be the stern …..the insensitive that time and again we have witnessed. But I really don't blame her. Living with the kind of family she has been living….life n experiences have just turned her the way she is. Today if I am to think of why she was harsh with Navya yesterday……I totally can sympathize with this woman rather than blaming her….afterall this woman have never been able to live life with her emotional quotient taken under consideration. She was never treated with love n affection at her in-laws but rather made into a robot like other woman of the household who are to be at their man's feet at all time….How can she not become the insensitive…..the blunt that she is!!!

Going on Sanjay Chacha…..much have been spoken about the beauty of this scene n I am not going to go into the beautiful convo he n navya had….but rather pick on that 1 line he spoke which I think forms the basic essence of being a good human being with a good balance of all aspects in life….be it emotions….material things….self pride/ego/esteem/confidence or mental stability. He said he finds his best of friends in the plants that he so loving takes care of and its because they do not get mingled with any of the calculative world that's out there…..but rather just does what it is suppose to….spread its beauty…..spread its shade….its fragrance. This I thot was a very beautiful line….If humans behaved the way plants did….if they only spread love n affection without being calculative about it….the world wud have been a much better n peaceful place to live in…..alas…..*sigh*

Finally….I wanna wrap this up saying that yes it's a torture to see so many negative/sad/drama factors CVs are throwing in at us….but I do think its important to show for them to show this…..How else do u think they will manage to then show the change that Navya will bring about turning them into positive/happy factors???😳😳😳

Rab Raakha,

Shilpa.🤗

PS. Once again...Ur views are most welcome and I strongly advocate healthy discussion.

Good take Shilpa 👏 👏 👏. I liked it 👍🏼. Ur takes are not only related to serial but u put forward the reality which i liked the most. Thanks dear

Nice post ya... Thanks for amazing post😃😃😃

Amazing post shilpa...loved ur takes...awesome dear...👏👏👏

Shilpa! I always love your takes, there is always a complete new angle that you bring out, that many of us don't see! I loved your optimistic approach to such an episode, and its making me anticipate the new changes that Navya is gonna bring into the Bajpaayee household. As you very aptly said, we're seeing all these issues now so that we'll truly be able to appreciate the changes that will come in the forthcoming episodes, and this fact alone has begun to send my mind into overdrive, thinking and rethinking about what's gonna happen! Once again, awesome post babes!

Amazing post.. 👏.I really love how you written this...I agree with you!:)

Hi Shilpa! Your post was amazingly insightful. Thank goodness we have this serial which gives us so many amazing aspects of human behaviour. You made me see things from a much wider perspective!

You always look at things from different angle .. and it always pacifies me, whem my bp is bumping between extremes after some episodes!

No worries yaar Shilpa! That's what the forum/adda is for, so people can post their varied views on the show, and we all get to see a lot of different opinions on one episode! I really liked your positive outlook, and while I still don't like the current track and Anant's/Rits'/MIL's character assassination, your post made me anticipate the changes that are soon to come (hopefully), so watching all this doesn't really seem THAT torturous anymore!