Well, I must say...the CVs have been able to some extent bring out some very tremendously applaudable scenes to the plate with utter sincererity and without making it OTT.
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Originally posted by: anantanant
Hi Shilpa
I think you've echoed what I have been thinking ever since today's precap came out. I am a bit disappointed that neither Anant did nor said anything interesting to his elders in this issue.
My theory is that this engagement track has started losing viewership so cvs have taken the "least messy" way out of the problem. It is a bit lame to get Shagun to make an unforced error and thus get Anya romance back on, but I am ok with this as long as the cvs confront this issue (convincing your parents about choosing your own partner) at some point in the show. I feel that Anant's engagement was a bad script move, artificially thrust into the storyline and I'm glad to move on to more realism (hopefully).
You ask what real life AnYa should do - my (boring?) answer would be to get a degree first and stand on their own feet! So that even if they have to take a drastic step they are financially capable of going it alone (if it comes to that). What do you think?
Originally posted by: piya2025
I cant describe in words how much I loved your post..
& Thanks for bringing it on-The issue here..thanks sweetz for such warming words
You are right & Let me write up a lil before I hit on to the exact point..
I just write somewhere that I have noticed a strange change in All character in the show as i actually cant say they are the same character what Cv's had been shown in the 1st promos-
Anant- Had been shown like a totally level headed,mature nomatter if he's 19 or s'thing,Totally a obedient child of their parents-"Apke bhi kuch sansnkar honghe,hai na" That voice was s'thing but this Anant conveys s'thing else-
Yeah We did saw promo wala Anant in first few epis n Trust me i were really on for a natural,well maintained lovestory,where the guy is quite but expressive,He doesnt laugh like a mad but does smile which can melt heart very easily..Who is a deep thinking not a impulsive.Of late,Anant has been presented as the most impulsive guy,Totally Im impressed how CV"s gave an excellent explanation to make things believeable,n not cheap. but still the question is there,Did we really get to see that level-headed guy which we have seen in the promos & in first few epis?
WORD to the underlined esp those lines in pink, totally gave an entire different picture of soft, mellow but strong willed and level headed guy who is totally balanced between modernity and age old customs n traditions and truly that was the impressive part and prolly reason why today I am failing to grasp the conclusion of this engagement track. Fine...he was young...it was all new and he reacted impulsively in his new found feelings...I can even digest that he got confused and was torn between his family n his life as well but then wat happened after he makes a firm decision??? Someone else...that too a side character takes the cake of solving the entire issue??? From wat I depicted in those lines in pink...I truly had hoped for Anant to stand for wat he believed in, in front of his family and without offending anyone of them...make his way thru this situation shining like a true hero convincing them that he is still very much their same son who respects the values instilled in him...but alas!!We leted it go..
Navya- She has been presented way,way too much shy n in darpolk ,where in promos..She was such a bindaas girl..She knows what she likes but yet she known her parents are not wrong "unhone duniya dekhi hai"still she loves to be in her world..She was n't afraid voicing her opinion but in the actual show we hardly see her opening her mouth properly..Yeah,She speaks but she rather speaks out of her fear,Fear to lossing her familly-The point is if one is so afraid leting her familly get hurt then how & why she leted her fall in love with Anant? She knew her feelings,didn't she?
Yes All these situations,What she has said,her explanations to Anant are real & I really believe what She says but why she is here in all these when she knew these were all on the way.Again...u echo my feelings...True...Navya's character is totally a coin reverse from wat was sketched out in the promos and there seemed so much promising behavior from her which all failed I really had not expected her to go forth with her feelings for Anant even tho she realized them...I mean if u look at those dialogues in red...then she comes across as a person who will never do anything that she knows her parents will not approve of and despite having strong feelings for Anant...I saw her as a person who will not lead on but here she actually kept flowing with wateva Anant was enforcing her with...
I'd have rather liked along with Familly she would have thought about her & Anant a bit more..As before falling & after knowing that the person she loves he loves her as well,She cant really force him to stay away n marry someone else as it'll make things worse.For her & for Anant more as with him another life 'll be attached.Dont u think this shud have been a given away seeing the Navya who was shown to be an intelligent student ...I mean...Its quite simple to know that now that they have entered into a relationship...just by having Anant shoved away in the name of the family is going to do no good to anyone...I really didnt expect Anant to be mouthing those lines at all...it wud have been rather more realistic if she wud have given Anant options on how to avoid this engagement while not hurting the family members as well and even without having to tell them their budding love story..Honestly,Those creepy sister freak me out..Characters like them do exits but probably in more cruel way. & Here u go-I dont think any girl 'd do such dumb thing what Shagun 'll be doing.In a way she's making is easy for Anant.. & Thats the worst part..
I mean in real life we r not so lucky that some Shagun 'll come,do a stupid thing n the engagement or shadi 'd be broken..
It made Anant do nothing,Keeping his fail attempts of telling baba dat he's not ready to engage wid Shagun.Totally agree...yes and that wat I meant to say...when I said gals dont do such dumb things...I mean...firstly...not everyone is lucky like u said to have a "shagun" in such situations to save them and if there is ...then these kinda ppl are rather very creepy and I really dont see them doing things that will harm their own luck...infact they ensure that they make every possible move to ensure they get wat they want...but here they are making Shagun the center stage...and taking a easy way out of this mess...
We,Do belong to 21st century..
-Some are lucky or stubborn enough to make things go the way we want,Nomatter if our parents are happy or not..Nomatter how conservative our famillies are.
-Some just go with what their parents want them to do..Like Mohan,They dont really even try to think what they actually want coz they fear so much that they just let things go..
-Some try to balance between familly,friends/love/their own world..& Its normal that s'time we even get into argument wid out parents-That doesnt make us bad but its real,We want what we want,We may dont get it but we can fight for it..then its pure luck.
So much i loved the show,equally i have problem with it.. If you dont go by the 1st promos..its all well till Anant goes missing epis.. I like the way CV's gave the explanation of Anant's impulsive behaviors..Navya's fear..but they did make it funny by making Shagun do the thing with Bua-dadi this way we didn't get to see Anant in action.& taking a stand for himself n navya.For their love.Now thats exactly where my problem lies...is they are making the leads weaker in their characterisations and failing to deliever their "nayi soch ..nayi dhadkan"
The parents-Navya's are much realistic..Even Anant's familly so much people says its weird actually they are not..in small city such famillies does exits..Where elders try to marry off their kids @ the age of 17/18/19,where parents have the beliefe that 18is the best age to get marry esp its a girl n they want a well settled guy,nomatter if he's 26/27..Its sad,really sad :(Which Cv's had brought as an issue..But I wish they would have enlighten us more on it.BANG ON!!!!...I have never argued with the type of family Anant has coz personally I have seen n experienced such families and I exactly know the type of thot processes that runs in these types of family and therefore I was more intrigued to see how this new generation takes upon in bringing about the much needed change in this thot process without taking drastic measures...
They cant show all tracks in one go & what have been done,its done they cant change it but I want them to show us in upcoming epis how early marriage can be a harm,Renuka's track is on a hold so they can charge it up.Thats 1 thing even I am really waiting to see...Her story had so much potential much has gotten side tracked and I guess we can safely blame it on TRPs again đđ& as for Anant navya-I want them to be shown as normal kids.No shadi bussiness as of now..Let them do projects together.more college activity.Bit romance where navya should learn along with her familly Anant too is now a IMP part of her life widout whom she cant live..& Anant should learn to speak up widout any fear.Honestly I want to see Anant n Navya truly understanding wat they have between them...and work their way around it along with their families ...Basically be the new age youth who believe in themselves and in their values at the same time...
More interaction with Navya & her familly...
This way it'd be real..They can show this Shadi things which is also a issue in real life wid teenagers can be shown much more real & intense way.Where I can see The leads taking stand for their rights..đđđ Very well Said and totally concur with u
Thanks.
PS_Didn't realize it went this long :P