Sept 14th: Kyunki...pata nahin

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm starting to get a little deja vu of those epis before the jungle scenes when there was this longgg stretch of Abhi ka latka hua face in like every epi...matlab arsaa ho gaya bechaare ko smile kare...wohi waali feeling aa rahi hai phir se😆...and doesn't seem like he's going to get a respite any time soon...current pace seems to indicate that the rest of the week will go in ceremonies and Aman discussions.


Anyways, coming to the actual episode...overall it was sort of somber despite the Abhi-Meera scene.


Babli ka sherni mode returned somewhat but as usual she couldn't really prevail much other than showing her displeasure to Amma.


The award for most W*F dialogue today goes to Amma..."Suraj ko dusro ko roshni dene ke liye jalna hi padta hai"...waah Amma, Waah👏👏...what a convenient justification for destroying the life of your "suraj" grandson😕...Immensely disappointed in this dialogue today...couldn't even feel any empathy for the blatant selfishness from Amma here.


Yograj ka b.s. continued for most of the episode...the kaamchor, nikamme brothers drinking together and Abhi just getting happy at the visual of his family all together...*sigh*...felt like a depressing turn of events overall somehow.


Glad to see that Meera's mom told her about Aman's sifaarish and Meera stated the obvious fact that this is like dahej...*slow claps* for Riya displaying her brainlessness as usual and trying to brush this under the carpet👏😆


Meera's oblivious yet determined nature made for the most noteworthy moments of the epi...her continuing to voice the fact that she feels like something bad is happening but she can't quite put a finger on it...


She sneaks over to Abhi's room without a thought...lol I'm wondering how she climbed over to his balcony...itna easy tha toh how did she not manage to do it before?😆...such a role reversal it was since Abhi was the one all frazzled about the MUs that can come out of people seeing her in his room this late at night and Meera didn't give two hoots😆...urging him to take a deep breath and just listen to her...


I just feel more and more sorry for Abhi...it's getting depressing now again...the way he pulls himself back from blatantly telling her that she shouldn't marry Aman to then having to excruciatingly force himself to justify Aman's bullshit behavior...I wish they wouldn't make him that pathetically majboor...I get that he is doing this cuz of what Meera's dad said to him but even then.


I liked how Meera directly stated that he is the only one she can trust right now...and then pauses at the "kyunki..."...unable to finish the thought, not really knowing herself just why she trusts him so implicitly...why she needed to seek out only him to talk.


My fav. part of this scene was the Delhi v/s Devpur debate😆...Abhi trying to dissuade her from wanting to stay in Devpur and Meera going on and on praising the positives of being in this place...lol in between she maaroed some line about neela aasmaan that she tells Abhi to remind her of later cuz "achhi line thi"😆.


Meera's faith in him to never give her the wrong guidance seemed to give Abhi some pause...and it seemed to like he was about to bluntly tell her that Aman isn't right for her if Amma hadn't interrupted them.


Seems like the show is on the track to play out these MUs of Amma and Meera's dad about Abhi-Meera being in each other's rooms😕


Precap and the sangeet BTS now make sense...Abhi's gonna constantly keep urging Meera's mom to tell her that Aman isn't right for Meera😆


Show waalon, aur kitne din Abhi ko itna depressed dikhaaoge?😕 Give the guy (and us) a break, man.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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" the way he pulls himself back from blatantly telling her that she shouldn't marry Aman to then having to excruciatingly force himself to justify Aman's bullshit behavior" bechaara abhi 😭
Aaj toh paas paas mei gaana bhi aadhey mann se hi bajaya baground music waalo ne 😆

Yeh dono sneak out sneak in in the middle of the night game mei kitney achey lagg rahey they..kaash. Inka affair chal padey ... Kitney cute hain yeh donosaath saath ...😳

Meera ko jab realise hoga..her love... Cvs must bbreaking their heads writing that scene..it wud bsooo diiferent frm other shows..it wud be sooo meeraistic ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jay_tapori

" the way he pulls himself back from blatantly telling her that she shouldn't marry Aman to then having to excruciatingly force himself to justify Aman's bullshit behavior" bechaara abhi 😭

Aaj toh paas paas mei gaana bhi aadhey mann se hi bajaya baground music waalo ne 😆

Yeh dono sneak out sneak in in the middle of the night game mei kitney achey lagg rahey they..kaash. Inka affair chal padey ... Kitney cute hain yeh donosaath saath ...😳

Meera ko jab realise hoga..her love... Cvs must bbreaking their heads writing that scene..it wud bsooo diiferent frm other shows..it wud be sooo meeraistic ...



LOL I agree...even the "dil ki bhaasha" bg score couldn't lift the scene...Abhi ki depressed shakal was omnipresent no matter what😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar


I'm starting to get a little deja vu of those epis before the jungle scenes when there was this longgg stretch of Abhi ka latka hua face in like every epi...matlab arsaa ho gaya bechaare ko smile kare...wohi waali feeling aa rahi hai phir se😆...and doesn't seem like he's going to get a respite any time soon...current pace seems to indicate that the rest of the week will go in ceremonies and Aman discussions.


Anyways, coming to the actual episode...overall it was sort of somber despite the Abhi-Meera scene.

I was about to go and prepare dinner, but saw your early post and thought I had to reply back...haha, your general tone suggests that you are dissatisifed with the epi..lol, I on the other hand found it very wholesome after a long, long time. Yes, the fact that abhi is becoming depressed is there, but thats a given, considering that he is about to get into a seemingly lifeless shaadi and loves a woman who considers him as merely a friend, who will get married in front of his eyes, in fact its a miracle he even smiles the little bit that he does 😆


Babli ka sherni mode returned somewhat but as usual she couldn't really prevail much other than showing her displeasure to Amma.


The award for most W*F dialogue today goes to Amma..."Suraj ko dusro ko roshni dene ke liye jalna hi padta hai"...waah Amma, Waah👏👏...what a convenient justification for destroying the life of your "suraj" grandson😕...Immensely disappointed in this dialogue today...couldn't even feel any empathy for the blatant selfishness from Amma here.

I actually would take this babli anytime over the mere looks that she delivers from the first floor and Abhi consoling her from below. Atleast, we know she is stubborn and will never accept anything that she KNOWS makes his child unhappy. She gets all of my brownie points for not relenting to Amma and in fact questioning her that the only reason they are getting Abhi married in a rush is because they are afraid he will fall deeper for Meera. Loved the bit where she admonished Amma for punishing Abhi for whatever yuvraj did. Love the tiny moment betn Abhi-Babli where Abhi asks her not to confirm Amma's suspicions about his love for Meera. Amma taking Abhi for granted, but then, she always has: what will calling him a bhagwan first, where babli had a better come-back than here. Very characteristic of her - it doesnt surprise me anymore, ofcourse she deserves no empathy whatsoever. These Pants all be taking him for granted, the only people who dont are cousin gang and babli- baki sab ke liye toh he takes turns in being 'bade bhaiyya', / 'bhagwan' / 'sooraj' etc etc.


Yograj ka b.s. continued for most of the episode...the kaamchor, nikamme brothers drinking together and Abhi just getting happy at the visual of his family all together...*sigh*...felt like a depressing turn of events overall somehow.

this is definitely going to take a depressing turn, Abhi is starting to warm up to his ada again, ugh.

Glad to see that Meera's mom told her about Aman's sifaarish and Meera stated the obvious fact that this is like dahej...*slow claps* for Riya displaying her brainlessness as usual and trying to brush this under the carpet👏😆


Meera's oblivious yet determined nature made for the most noteworthy moments of the epi...her continuing to voice the fact that she feels like something bad is happening but she can't quite put a finger on it...

LOVED Meera here and slight hope from Mommy raizada. I always felt that amongst the two parents, if there was a chance for someone to be slightly perceptiove and reasonable it was her. Right from the beginning she had been asking her daughter and now hearing it from her, definitely something rings in her head. Hope they follow up on this, though precap suggests that they will. Loved the way Meera showed us an insight into Papa raizada by saying that he never even attempted to get his daughter graudtaed- it is a huge thing, considering just how easy it might have been for him. You begin to see why the girl dotes on her father- he is everything ideal to her and not being able to give him that one ray of happiness must surely kill her inside. Riya, toh Riya hai...I'd thought she wouldnt sink lower after dismissing Aman's very obvious abuse as "woh ghusse mein tha", but here toh she lowered the bar for stupidity even more. All I can say is all the best to Sanjay, feel the worst for him at this point- kya dekha hai usne Riya mein? Her character is going haywire, no balance whatsoever.

She sneaks over to Abhi's room without a thought...lol I'm wondering how she climbed over to his balcony...itna easy tha toh how did she not manage to do it before?😆...such a role reversal it was since Abhi was the one all frazzled about the MUs that can come out of people seeing her in his room this late at night and Meera didn't give two hoots😆...urging him to take a deep breath and just listen to her...


I just feel more and more sorry for Abhi...it's getting depressing now again...the way he pulls himself back from blatantly telling her that she shouldn't marry Aman to then having to excruciatingly force himself to justify Aman's bullshit behavior...I wish they wouldn't make him that pathetically majboor...I get that he is doing this cuz of what Meera's dad said to him but even then.


I liked how Meera directly stated that he is the only one she can trust right now...and then pauses at the "kyunki..."...unable to finish the thought, not really knowing herself just why she trusts him so implicitly...why she needed to seek out only him to talk.

I loved their talk, loved it so much I wouldnt even be able to express it. especially these lines about how he is the only one she can trust, that she needs no reason to do that and that she is sure that of all the people in the world, he is the only one who always tells her to do the right thing, regardless of what it means for her. Bascially, she just gave an entire speech of why she loves him without actually realising it😆 but chalo, this amount of perception works well on me...for now.


My fav. part of this scene was the Delhi v/s Devpur debate😆...Abhi trying to dissuade her from wanting to stay in Devpur and Meera going on and on praising the positives of being in this place...lol in between she maaroed some line about neela aasmaan that she tells Abhi to remind her of later cuz "achhi line thi"😆.

haha oh, Meera😆 Abhi's very slight, but obvious eye roll at her "acchi line thi, mujhe baad mein batana haan" is representative of the comfort level they share...aise waqt mein bhi he can go W*F at her antics, while at the same time understand what she is talking about. Loved the whole debate there- Abhi trying to convince her (and himself) why she shouldnt be in devpur and Meera trying to convince him why she should😆😳, lol...just get them married, yaar! I actually loved the scene where they were hiding, somehow the narration and tone of that scene was such that their fears and anxiety were palpable...also, was thankful about the fact that they didnt use thi moment to initiate a staring contest between them due to the obvous closeness and proximity, only Abhi seemed to notice that, much much later...while Meera was clueless as usual 😆. It was such a simple and real scene, transitioned so nicely into an exasperated Abhi telling her to switch off the torch 😆

Meera's faith in him to never give her the wrong guidance seemed to give Abhi some pause...and it seemed to like he was about to bluntly tell her that Aman isn't right for her if Amma hadn't interrupted them.

He definitely would have, but phir drama kahan se aayega😆 and now, he has delegated that task to Mommy raizada because daddy taizada se promise jo kiya hain, Meera se na milne ka...😳 see, this sets him apart from other self-sacrificng heroes.


Seems like the show is on the track to play out these MUs of Amma and Meera's dad about Abhi-Meera being in each other's rooms😕

Ab toh khullam khulla discussion hoga, lol...I will love it 😆 its funny coz at this point they arent even actually together...lol. It gives me sadistic pleasure to watch amma and daddy raizada trying so hard to get their very obedient kids do the right thing, but yeh dono still find a way to get together with each other...😳


Precap and the sangeet BTS now make sense...Abhi's gonna constantly keep urging Meera's mom to tell her that Aman isn't right for Meera😆


Show waalon, aur kitne din Abhi ko itna depressed dikhaaoge?😕 Give the guy (and us) a break, man.

I'm guessing this will drag on till the end of next week, at the very least


Edited by mads - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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That Devpur vs Delhi wali arguement was best 😆 the way she kept dissuading each n every reason of Abhi and Abhi was again in awe 😆
How I wished Ke abhi ne sentence complete kar diya hota but I am glad that atleast he is trying his bit by persuading her mom

Yograj-he dont deserve my tym 🤬
Amma- i am just waiting to see how she will react in knowing yogi ke gande plans. I dont want to be harsh but how can she blindly trust him? Jo ek bar chod kar gaya kya guarantee phirse nhi karegi how highly she was speaking of him "sab sambhal liya yogi ne" ab sach pata chala toh dekhte hai wat she will do...huh
I absolutely hated that sooraj wala dialogue. How can she be so so insensitive towards Abhi 💔
I was expecting Bubbly to answer back like she did in Bhagwan's dialogue

Bubbly- i love fierce Bubbly who takes stand for her son and his happiness, she did wat she cud. I guess she cannot do beyond that
Wen Abhi was saying k Rohan subah tak thik hojayega and Babli asks aur tu 💔

Riya- what irks me most is she is shown as IAS officer yet ignores the things which shld not be ignored . I wish Sanjay ko pata chale
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Random thought: If Meera considers Abhi such a true friend that she can rely on him for advice about Aman, how come the reverse doesn't hold true for her?

She's never shied about giving gyaan to Abhi before or knowing when there isn't a genuine smile on his face...but in the case of Radhika, her mind is on a total vacation...since that one random time that she asked him about the lipstick mark and presumed it was from Radhika, Meera hasn't been shown to have any opinion on the subject.


She urged Abhi one time to just marry Radhika for the heck of it and he took off to chadho suli on Madam's orders...but Meera herself looked so disgusted by Radhika's antics yesterday, it's odd to not show her pondering even one bit.


I feel there's a bit of a continuity hiccup in the scenes...I get that Meera's own impending marriage to Aman weighs on her minds but even then I'd expect her to have a viewpoint on Radhika and state it to Abhi...if she really considers this a deep friendship, how do they justify her backing off and being non-committal about Abhi-Radhika?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm glad that Meera has aptly labelled Aman's demand as a form of dowry-demand!! And Meera goes to Abhi to ask whether this is right or not... but unfortunately, Abhi is hesitant to give the right answer fearing that his answer might be biased.

Good thing is... no matter whatever Meera is confused about or not, one thing that she is completely sure about is that she has no issues reg staying in Devpur... 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

Random thought: If Meera considers Abhi such a true friend that she can rely on him for advice about Aman, how come the reverse doesn't hold true for her?

She's never shied about giving gyaan to Abhi before or knowing when there isn't a genuine smile on his face...but in the case of Radhika, her mind is on a total vacation...since that one random time that she asked him about the lipstick mark and presumed it was from Radhika, Meera hasn't been shown to have any opinion on the subject.


She urged Abhi one time to just marry Radhika for the heck of it and he took off to chadho suli on Madam's orders...but Meera herself looked so disgusted by Radhika's antics yesterday, it's odd to not show her pondering even one bit.


I feel there's a bit of a continuity hiccup in the scenes...I get that Meera's own impending marriage to Aman weighs on her minds but even then I'd expect her to have a viewpoint on Radhika and state it to Abhi...if she really considers this a deep friendship, how do they justify her backing off and being non-committal about Abhi-Radhika?


@bold...because, right now, she isnt all that perceptive, ahs no reason to. In fact, the only reason she became perceptive about Aman was after she saw him talking to her dad and then ofcourse, tiny feeling have been cropping up since she saw Abhi with Radhika, but as far as she is concerned Abhi getting married to Radhika is as practical as her getting married to Aman, so she has no opinion about Abhi-Radhika as of now. Also, she has no reason to doubt Radhika's character, for her that girl has brough yogi and abhi together, lol...something even she couldnt do😆 she did look disgusted at radhika's antics, but then, it is more about, woh khush hai toh its okay...Meera has never been shown to be possesive about any thing in ehr life, that is not one of her character trait. Even when she saw Radhika dancing around Abhi she didnt go like "girl, back off you are in my territory", it was more like "why do I feel so bad seeing him with someone else" ... the jealousy part and her being perceptive about them both will come in later as she processes her own feelings.

But yes...Right now, she is all over regarding her own shaadi to think about whether or not Abhi is happy with his.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Mads: lol I got to watch the epi early. today...was hoping it would be one I'd love and could gush about but found it just theek thaak today😆

We usually tend to have opposite opinions on the epis so not surprised that you loved it oh so much😆


I think a passive Abhi starts to get to me after a point...it's happened pehle bhi...haha...I like it when there's a better balance between his bechaargi and assertiveness...these days he's much more in bechara mode in general...too much sometimes.



The Abhi-Meera scene had good conversation today, but again Abhi's mega majboori filled face starts getting to me after a point...even "Dil ki bhaasha" can't save it then😆...also it just really bothered me to see him in such a sorry state having to justify and praise Aman's intentions to Meera😕...and why make him reach a point where he's like, "Just tell me what you want to hear and I'll tell it to you"...I wish the writers wouldn't make him that sorry a figure.


But I guess I should resign myself...unless Meera realizes and puts a stop to this bechaargi, yeh toh aise hi chalta rahega😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

Random thought: If Meera considers Abhi such a true friend that she can rely on him for advice about Aman, how come the reverse doesn't hold true for her?

She's never shied about giving gyaan to Abhi before or knowing when there isn't a genuine smile on his face...but in the case of Radhika, her mind is on a total vacation...since that one random time that she asked him about the lipstick mark and presumed it was from Radhika, Meera hasn't been shown to have any opinion on the subject.


She urged Abhi one time to just marry Radhika for the heck of it and he took off to chadho suli on Madam's orders...but Meera herself looked so disgusted by Radhika's antics yesterday, it's odd to not show her pondering even one bit.


I feel there's a bit of a continuity hiccup in the scenes...I get that Meera's own impending marriage to Aman weighs on her minds but even then I'd expect her to have a viewpoint on Radhika and state it to Abhi...if she really considers this a deep friendship, how do they justify her backing off and being non-committal about Abhi-Radhika?

she is just happy ki radhika jhat se ek hi move mei baap betey ko same side par le aai... Mayb bonding with dad whether its her nher dad ...or abhi with his dad overshadows all priorities for her .. But still i agree her non commital view onthewhole thing doesent go with theirequation... Esp evenafter being disgusted in gal meethimeethi incident ... Shehas never voiced...like merra beingmeera ... Kuch toh kehna banta tha uska ki ... Radhika thodi substandard hai...tumhaarey liye u need a more dignified kudi ... To match u or something ..

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