What if you had a life partner like Maya? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Lilac_N_Maple

@ Bold, if someone loves me, showers me with wealth and money and is extremely caring - yes I will be flattered and sold for life. But will I be happy if that same person watches my every move like a hawk and tries to control every fibre of my body? Will I continue loving him if suffocates me so much that I forget that I am an individual? Will I be in peace if I know I don't even have basic privacy that every human deserves? Will I be pleased if I know my hubby is keeping a watch on me even when I am peeing? Will I be happy when my husband can be a potentially dangerous father to my future children?

Darling this is not love or care - this is just destructive and detrimental obsession which can lead to even more heinous crime.

As one member already said - if any of you have such a life partner - save yourself.

Originally posted by: bugsbunny12

I would love her unconditionally too

naturally if u have someone as attentive and caring and possessive like maya in ur life, admit it u will be flattered and pampered

so in return, i would shower her with love
also i would try to cure her of her obsessive behaviour...love and time heals everything...

Originally posted by: Actomyo

I don't know whether you are saying this because you love the actress playing or you really mean it. If it's the latter then I am really disturbed. You would be flattered and pampered if your partner puts CCTV everywhere around you and monitors your life? Isolates you from everyone and everything that would have his affection? Can you live with only one person's love without having any other human relations?
There is a difference between possessive love and toxic love. Mays's love is like owning and controlling the one she loves, she did that with Janvi before and now with Arjun.
It's exactly like how we keep a parrot in a cage, we pamper it, take care of it, decorate it's cage, may be buy a golden cage, very protective of it but still the parrot is caged. That's how is Mays's love, she can give her life for Arjun, that deep is her love but the meantime she wants Arjun's life all for only her literally. I don't think any human can feel pampered and flattered with this kind of love, when you are monitored 24x7, a human being loves freedom not being caged.

On a side note, I don't know if anyone here has watched the movie Agnisakshi starring Nana patekar, Manisha and Jackie shroff; Nana's love for Manisha is kind of similar to Maya's except for physical abuse.

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Absolutely! Somehow, Ashwin's extreme torture has permanently killed a part of Maaya,'s mind, which renders her incapable of a a healthy long term relationship..

Infact, I don't think it's Arjun's fault at all...His first n last fault was to stand up for her against Ashwin..That was when she fell for him, as he was the first person to do so...

It was Arjun's sheer bad luck that he bumped into Maaya during his journey of life...His ego didn't let him see that Maaya was giving him "promotions" way beyond his potential...She then "emotionally" bought him, n when they got married, Arjun truly loved her...N Arjun being the total Duffer that he is, he helped her along.

This love has turned into hate over 3 years because of the sheer toxicity of Maaya's obsessive n manipulative "love"...I don't even know if it can be called love...

I m waiting to see how Maaya has managed to make Arjun hang on to her n continues to do so...

Jhanvi's recovery will unfold many untold truths, I presume...

& Arjun will run as fast as he can then...😆...Poor guy...

Originally posted by: Actomyo

I don't know whether you are saying this because you love the actress playing or you really mean it. If it's the latter then I am really disturbed. You would be flattered and pampered if your partner puts CCTV everywhere around you and monitors your life? Isolates you from everyone and everything that would have his affection? Can you live with only one person's love without having any other human relations?
There is a difference between possessive love and toxic love. Mays's love is like owning and controlling the one she loves, she did that with Janvi before and now with Arjun.
It's exactly like how we keep a parrot in a cage, we pamper it, take care of it, decorate it's cage, may be buy a golden cage, very protective of it but still the parrot is caged. That's how is Mays's love, she can give her life for Arjun, that deep is her love but the meantime she wants Arjun's life all for only her literally. I don't think any human can feel pampered and flattered with this kind of love, when you are monitored 24x7, a human being loves freedom not being caged.

On a side note, I don't know if anyone here has watched the movie Agnisakshi starring Nana patekar, Manisha and Jackie shroff; Nana's love for Manisha is kind of similar to Maya's except for physical abuse.

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Absolutely! Somehow, Ashwin's extreme torture has permanently killed a part of Maaya,'s mind, which renders her incapable of a a healthy long term relationship..

Infact, I don't think it's Arjun's fault at all...His first n last fault was to stand up for her against Ashwin..That was when she fell for him, as he was the first person to do so... 😆 even I think so, Arjun's good deed of saving Maya from Ashwin was actually his fault. And also his immature behavior (Saanjh gave him a perfect name 'duffer' 👏) has put him in this position.

It was Arjun's sheer bad luck that he bumped into Maaya during his journey of life...His ego didn't let him see that Maaya was giving him "promotions" way beyond his potential...She then "emotionally" bought him, n when they got married, Arjun truly loved her...N Arjun being the total Duffer that he is, he helped her along. - Yes, Arjun truly loved her.

This love has turned into hate over 3 years because of the sheer toxicity of Maaya's obsessive n manipulative "love"...I don't even know if it can be called love...

I m waiting to see how Maaya has managed to make Arjun hang on to her n continues to do so...I am eagerly waiting to see what happened in these 3 years that made Arjun hate her so much.

Jhanvi's recovery will unfold many untold truths, I presume...

& Arjun will run as fast as he can then...😆...Poor guy...

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Exactly !! She didn't do it after marriage when she was in arjun house. But only from the day this saanjh had started being around arjun & arjun lying to maya abt his whereabouts she started checking on arjun.

Originally posted by: diyajiya

Arjun gave up family, BFF for her and also 3 years of his life too. That's patience & sacrifice enough. KT is unable to portray the pain & anguish of being stuck in such a relationship but I really see Arjun's POV.
These 3 years, he has been away from Saanjh and seeing how Maya is plenty pleased about the "pyaar" between them , I don't think he's done anything wrong in these 3 years as far as any other woman is concerned.