What if you had a life partner like Maya?

I know I would have run in the opposite direction as fast as i could. 😆 It's one of the worst kind of relationship one can think of. That's why I actually understand where Arjun is coming from. A suffocating, overtly dominating relationship is just toxic.

Well, that is a very good question. I think I would be able to handle her much better than Arjun. Just be nice and sensitive towards her and love her unconditionally. She will do anything for you and even listen to you.

Originally posted by: Lilac_N_Maple

I know I would have run in the opposite direction as fast as i could. 😆 It's one of the worst kind of relationship one can think of. That's why I actually undertand where Arjun is coming from. A suffocating. overtly dominating relationship is just toxic.

U know each one of us is different and the reaction to each one of us is bound to be different.Firstly if i was in Arjun's shoes than i would be very patient,which actually I'm and would go to the root cause of why my husband is behaving the way he is behaving.secondly I'm not saying it as it's forum but i would genuinely go to the lengths to cure him to make him understand and would understand his fears as well.I would understand that my husband loves me but is too scared to loose me so firstly i would definitely take all the measures to not make him feel insecure.U know 3 things are highly needed to cure a person like this Love, Patience and Understanding

Originally posted by: kavsy

Well, that is a very good question. I think I would be able to handle her much better than Arjun. Just be nice and sensitive towards her and love her unconditionally. She will do anything for you and even listen to you.

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

U know each one of us is different and the reaction to each one of us is bound to be different.Firstly if i was in Arjun's shoes than i would be very patient,which actually I'm and would go to the root cause of why my husband is behaving the way he is behaving.secondly I'm not saying it as it's forum but i would genuinely go to the lengths to cure him to make him understand and would understand his fears as well.I would understand that my husband loves me but is too scared to loose me so firstly i would definitely take all the measures to not make him feel insecure.U know 3 things are highly needed to cure a person like this Love, Patience and Understanding

Hmm if you think one can cure her with patience and care , then good on you! But I am sure Maya's issue is not insecurity - she needs long term treatment coz her issue is not regarding Arjun, it's a deep rooted cause and any man in the place of Arjun would have faced the wrath.
She can't stand anyone - not even,mother, father, brother anyone close to Arjun. That;'s not insecurity, that's downright a mental issue. She feels she needs to control Arjun and his life as if he's a doll at her hands - that's, again, far from insecurity.

Originally posted by: diyajiya

If everyone was like you then there wouldnt be so many divorce cases... even normal couples have divorce over small issue but here is soo many issues with maya!!!

N most of the ppl r not kind like you to handle a husband or wife like maya ... & this is the reality of the society.. n if they doesnt like a life partner like him its not their fault

That's the reason I have mentioned in first sentence itself we all are different so our reaction is going to be different.To each their own i just said what would i do...And i respect your opinion equally

Originally posted by: Lilac_N_Maple

Hmm if you think one can cure her with patience and care , then good on you! But I am sure Maya's issue is not insecurity - she needs long term treatment coz her issue is not regarding Arjun, it's a deep rooted cause and any man in the place of Arjun would have faced the wrath.
She can't stand anyone - not even,mother, father, brother anyone close to Arjun. That;'s not insecurity, that's downright a mental issue. She feels she needs to control Arjun and his life as if he's a doll at her hands - that's, again, far from insecurity.

She needs a proper counseling and treatment definitely but she equally needs love and understanding and to cure any mental problem anyday u have to be patient.This is strictly my point of view yours may differ completely and i totally respect your views as well ,i just replied what would i do if i was in Arjun's place

cant even think myself on his place !! Poor guy .. he loved her then became her prisoner and didn't even know where was the problem

I wouldn't have been able to survive as long as Arjun did. Probably would have been dead long ago.