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Posted: 14 years ago

#51

I is curious because I want to know why you think it was heavy duty. Like Nur said, it relaxed me more than yesterdays episode.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#52

Nuriaaa! Heavy duty is a 'curious' word 😈 (okay phrase).

ps: Your avi proposal is 🤣 and I don't even watch this stuff!

Now shush, don't distract me! 😆 I have important work to do (read: yes, obviously, re-watch GK) ☺️

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-Fivr-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#53

*sigh* I've been wanting to reply for the longest time but work's been.. well WORK.. 😆 So finally, I've put my stubborn foot down and decided k I'll POST this before I head back to being productive at my job! *determined muh* 😆

Originally posted by: JZephyr
I think what really did go down well with me all through the episode - and still sits as a satisfied duck - is Kesar calling a spade a spade. He's given up on the aggression to make his point, but at no moment in the episode does he lie to her or himself, or anyone. When he's apologizing it's not to simply win back her good side and certainly not to offer her the half way grounds to make peace - but truly in repentance of his old unknowing tactics. When she accepts his apology and hand of friendship - he knows exactly what he's stepping into, but he does it because 'Gulaal's happiness is primary'. He realizes this is not the real happiness he wants to give her, but he's also come to realize this is the only way he can take a shot at its inception. When he tells Gulaal it maybe 3 months for him to get over being used to her, or more, or (never) - he's candid as hell. No doubt he can see the closing walls in her face - but he doesn't lie. He's stopped screaming his lungs off it - and he's not rubbing the 'love' in her face - but he's not masking himself as another person like she is either.

*nods fervently* I. absolutely. agree. *nods some more*

Originally posted by: JZephyr
I thought the kitchen scene in the start was particularly double edged. She tells him that he must still believe that if MB is upset with them , it hasn't affected his love for them - and it's almost like she's speaking her mind - and even though she may not know or realize, Kesar does. When he asks her, hum mana lenge na... - It's almost in double meaning, like MB is not the only person he talks of.

Ooo Jzee! That's quite an interesting perspective! I had totally missed that but now that you point it out, I have to agree! There was SOMETHING about that conversation that I couldn't put my finger on.. But why fear when you're here, eh?! 😆 It really was a pretty double edged conversation with both of them being candid, but not quite, in the comments that they were making.. Donon ne MB k kandhey pe bandook rakh k goli chala hi di! 😆

Originally posted by: JZephyr
Interestingly, Gulaal's approach to MB's topic is exactly reflective of her nature - of how she truly does care for people in her life, but how innate it is within her, this sense of I can convince anyone to finally fall in line with me. In some ways she's like a young teen - who cannot comprehend or appreciate the fact that she can be wrong ... because she's always been taken as more mature of teens, and because conveniently within her own own head she has translated that to imply she is know it all and know it best and that no one understands everything like she does.

Exactly! I love how you've worded this Jzee.. She really COMPLETELY believes that she is always right and that is in part fueled by the fact that whatever she does for anyone else (no matter how wrong her methods - even though SHE never finds them wrong) she does it with the cleanest of heart and the most sincere of intentions. So to her she's NEVER wrong.. She's been treated maturely, her wishes have always been given credit and in someways she had been given too much responsibility from an early age.. Which has helped build her self confidence in terms of her decision making skills - she is usually very steadfast in her decisions and very confident about them.. But then when she actually DOES make a mistake, I don't think she's able to admit to it or even SEE it to begin with.. Because, like you said in her mind, she cannot be wrong..

Edited by -Fivr- - 14 years ago