To Be, Or Not To Be! - Page 3

Originally posted by: JZephyr

Oh you can say that never be platonic thing all over again Reemz - sure they can't be. But it is vague how Gulaal tells him all his sins are undone (like Nur points) and there is neither conversational nor introspecting dialog from her, for us to understand why she's suddenly so relenting. Yes, he was going to set her free - but sure, she didn't forget just what he told her the night before that? Again, I say, I'm not sure what to make of that chapter being utterly ignored.

So the only way to explain it is by assuming Gulaal is still treating him in part a kid who was all wrong but has now found sense - and when the only times she's hesitant or apprehensive (because we established they can't be platonic) is when she sees tell tale signs of the grown up Kesar that she's just trying to dismiss while she can happily co-exist with the kid version as she's been used to for years.

BINGO...that's exactly what I was trying to say...you've put it much better👏...Gulaal basically gave a sense towards Kesar today as if he's an errant child who realized his mistake so like the "adult" that she is, she forgave him...the SINS undone line proves this even more...when she oh so magnanimously tells him that all his past sins are now forgotten cuz he did THIS for her today.

When he talks of stuff like not knowing what to do without her saath three months from now, the shutters come down again and she wants to pretend she didn't hear that...she is still only comfortable with the Kesar who she can consider a nasamajh kid.

*PHANGURL MOMENT*

Originally posted by: JZephyr

Len - my question is, Kesar has put it aside because he wants to make peace and happiness for Gulaal, no matter what. Why and how has Gulaal put it aside in the snap of a moment?! It's something to doubt. If she understands Kesar the adult, she sure knows the love is very much existing, and Kesar hasn't backed off on his emotion - and that should bother her to much to be as free and open with him, as she was today. She could 'forgive him' and 'be friends' but how has she let her guard down so far? I'm with Nur on doubting that - even if I wish not to - especially because it was obvious she was still bothered by his occasional signs of 'show he love he has proclaimed' in whatever form. And Gulaal missing Kesar telling PoonamBaa he still loves her is definitely not coincidental.

No it wasnt

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

As usual Gulaal is under this delusion that she can live in her lala land without any pressure.

Originally posted by: Lennie

No it wasnt

But only the future episodes will tell us what you and Nur are saying and asking i guess, today i can only go on the base how i am seeing it and what i saw, so i guess i will leave it till we see what we see in the future in the sense from Gulaal mostly, i am sure in each episode something will happen to make us gloss over it more and more and take us in a another route

Also somehow all this as we have seen and so on, will inter-connect somehow and later on, right now i am just gonna go with the starting point for Kes-Gul which was needed

I can futher speculate then what i have and what we all have i guess 😊

I leave it as that 😊

LOL Lennie, even we are speculating based on what we saw TODAY...that is the whole point of a discussion...who can really say what will be shown tomorrow? Just on that basis, we shouldn't express what we feel about today's epi? I will take tomorrow when it comes but in today's epi there WERE moments of oddness from Gulaal which I don't think can be totally discounted either...least of all on the basis that this will all tie back later...sure it might...but that doesn't mean that TODAY it won't look odd to us.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

*PHANGURL MOMENT*

I demand a shmexyyy intimate scene between GK so the Great Wall of Gulaal shatters and she never dreams of patronising him again.

*PHANGURL MOMENT...over*

Originally posted by: JZephyr

Exactly! And like Nur implied - what's Gulaal's lala land with Kesar? The one where she can baby him, run his life for him - because that's the only role she knows around him best. Oh I know what Nur was saying when she offered to zip up - trying not to burst my bubble *sheepish* I do give in. Gulaal was unnaturally comfortable around Kesar, and now, even more than Talli, that thought perturbs me about the future dynamic.

The good part is - Kesar truly has matured. He doesn't rise to Talli's bait of Gulaal will love you, and I'm certain he will/can se through Gulaal's current ease with him as purely, Gulaal the elder with Kesar the dependent. He's letting her - because he's this far this or nothing.

His words will come back to haunt Gulaal - but for now, she's turned her favorite blinds on them, like on a billion other things in the past.

And yes (for the nth thing) to you Nur - it doesn't settle well that Kesar should be the only one apologizing. She thanks him, because she's truly grateful - to kid and mature Kesar - but she's no where close to understanding where she went wrong... I still trust that will be a big revelation day for her in the future - like Kesar's yesterday, after Talli's master act.

LOL see I told you should have let me stay quiet only...everyone was so happy in here otherwise...now I'm feeling bad😆

Kesar's maturity and his behavior in the entire epi was a major highlight for me as well and shows big promise in the future as well.

And yes, let's hope that Gulaal also gets her big jhatka one day...maybe Talli can pull a double whammy and make GULAAL see the light one day as well😆


@bold: *sigh* So true...he LETS her...cuz that's what makes her comfortable and happy for now...

Originally posted by: nureat01

LOL Lennie, even we are speculating based on what we saw TODAY...that is the whole point of a discussion...who can really say what will be shown tomorrow? Just on that basis, we shouldn't express what we feel about today's epi? I will take tomorrow when it comes but in today's epi there WERE moments of oddness from Gulaal which I don't think can be totally discounted either...least of all on the basis that this will all tie back later...sure it might...but that doesn't mean that TODAY it won't look odd to us.

No no, what i mean is if Gulaal is being well fast i guess or however you are seeing her, then i need to see more of her in these episodes to see where the heck her mind is 😆 - the only reason i maintained that she is all izz well state is coz she got her reasurrace from Kesar and a huge burden off her chest thinks nothing will shake this 3 months time limit... coz what has she got to lose

Also like Reemz and i said, things will come back to haunt her and those little things will creep back in... and thats when it i guess changes all again, but i wondering whether we are going to see Gulaal's journey in a way somewhere esp in what Kesar has said to her, to make her feel it