Originally posted by: Anjalg
Honestly speaking...your posts are very very neutral. Every time I read your posts, I don't see you leaning in any particular direction and yet I know that you want Gulaal Kesar as much as any of us...and that is what I really like about your posts. Whether Kes has been rude to Gulaal or the other way round, you don't take sides...because there IS a reason why they are acting the way they are. I feel sorry for Gulaal and then I feel equally bad for Kesar...and that is the way it is supposed to be. I think you get Kesar pretty well and you should because he wears his heart on his sleeves, seriously the character has been so well written...he really is pure of heart. Gulaal of course is a bit more complex and that comes from her past. If Vasant was still alive, she still would have been this bubbly, chirpy, lively girl but everything she has gone through has given her all these layers...which is what we are seeing right now...
So analyze away...😊
Thanks - means alot 😊😊, and like you say there is a reason why they are acting the way they are... for Gulaal she doesnt need to change just her barrier she holds whilst Kesar has a long journey in him to be the man, a man that a woman can stand beside and be support to each other and him to her, his love doesnt need to change, its just there - thats the beauty of it, that its fully there and its real and its deep, but he has to make it his strength and not to be dependent on and also Gulaal
You know if i didnt know Gulaal very well from her past and seeing how much she has overcome and what she was before, then i think maybe just maybe i would be leaning more into Kesar, but the fact is that i see her, i get how she is and that complexity (because even to this day i still say that back then she did what was right - i never doubted that, given what the situation it was and at the recent panchayant you saw that she didnt blame anyone, or that she was forced into it as such but said it was my choice, i was in my senses, and i dont regret it given she had her own reasons and we knew what they were and she was forced into the whole thing but in the end she made HER choice didnt she - we all saw, thats why i say you need to give Gulaal her choice for to make, its the only way she will react) she has and then also Kesar
But then again this show, shows both sides so well - and Gulaal is person that keeps her emotions closed off but its there and thats the beauty of Manasi's acting right there
And then there is Kesar, they are really highlighting that he just isnt getting it fully, and also that line by Revji baapji, that he has to take care of himself first... that line was telling, coz once he does that he can be better around Gulaal and taking care of her in his own way, and but frustration is what is getting to Kesar, coz he knows he didnt do wrong - but doesnt get why ppl say he went about it the wrong way
Edited by Lennie - 14 years ago