29th June - You cant force love... (Kes-Gul) - Page 3

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

Thanks Anj 😊

I am worried that i am not getting the grasp of Kesar, or that i am trying to mould him into something i want... but then again i feel what i am writing is what i am seeing and want him to be his best for Gulaal and if he just 'gets' thinking and understanding his way of going about things will change, not that i want him to change completely his love is what makes him Kesar and so on



Honestly speaking...your posts are very very neutral. Every time I read your posts, I don't see you leaning in any particular direction and yet I know that you want Gulaal Kesar as much as any of us...and that is what I really like about your posts. Whether Kes has been rude to Gulaal or the other way round, you don't take sides...because there IS a reason why they are acting the way they are. I feel sorry for Gulaal and then I feel equally bad for Kesar...and that is the way it is supposed to be. I think you get Kesar pretty well and you should because he wears his heart on his sleeves, seriously the character has been so well written...he really is pure of heart. Gulaal of course is a bit more complex and that comes from her past. If Vasant was still alive, she still would have been this bubbly, chirpy, lively girl but everything she has gone through has given her all these layers...which is what we are seeing right now...

So analyze away...😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjalg



Honestly speaking...your posts are very very neutral. Every time I read your posts, I don't see you leaning in any particular direction and yet I know that you want Gulaal Kesar as much as any of us...and that is what I really like about your posts. Whether Kes has been rude to Gulaal or the other way round, you don't take sides...because there IS a reason why they are acting the way they are. I feel sorry for Gulaal and then I feel equally bad for Kesar...and that is the way it is supposed to be. I think you get Kesar pretty well and you should because he wears his heart on his sleeves, seriously the character has been so well written...he really is pure of heart. Gulaal of course is a bit more complex and that comes from her past. If Vasant was still alive, she still would have been this bubbly, chirpy, lively girl but everything she has gone through has given her all these layers...which is what we are seeing right now...

So analyze away...😊

Thanks - means alot 😊😊, and like you say there is a reason why they are acting the way they are... for Gulaal she doesnt need to change just her barrier she holds whilst Kesar has a long journey in him to be the man, a man that a woman can stand beside and be support to each other and him to her, his love doesnt need to change, its just there - thats the beauty of it, that its fully there and its real and its deep, but he has to make it his strength and not to be dependent on and also Gulaal
You know if i didnt know Gulaal very well from her past and seeing how much she has overcome and what she was before, then i think maybe just maybe i would be leaning more into Kesar, but the fact is that i see her, i get how she is and that complexity (because even to this day i still say that back then she did what was right - i never doubted that, given what the situation it was and at the recent panchayant you saw that she didnt blame anyone, or that she was forced into it as such but said it was my choice, i was in my senses, and i dont regret it given she had her own reasons and we knew what they were and she was forced into the whole thing but in the end she made HER choice didnt she - we all saw, thats why i say you need to give Gulaal her choice for to make, its the only way she will react) she has and then also Kesar
But then again this show, shows both sides so well - and Gulaal is person that keeps her emotions closed off but its there and thats the beauty of Manasi's acting right there
And then there is Kesar, they are really highlighting that he just isnt getting it fully, and also that line by Revji baapji, that he has to take care of himself first... that line was telling, coz once he does that he can be better around Gulaal and taking care of her in his own way, and but frustration is what is getting to Kesar, coz he knows he didnt do wrong - but doesnt get why ppl say he went about it the wrong way
Edited by Lennie - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice episode .thanks for update.
Gulaal and her dad's conversation was so nice .precap is interesting😳😉.waiting for that .can not wait to see gulaal is taking care kesar .😳
it is very positive sign gulaal is little worried about kesar regarding his breakfast 😆.I loved sudha today when she stopped talli to take kesar's food .slowly slowly gulaal will melt but still it will take time ,gulaal to accept keasar as her pati .but 100% sure that the end of the day they will accept eachother .i have a faith on cts .Cts will show us a unique romantic story on G-K 😉.I am waiting for it .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lennie, I understand your point...we all agree that Kesar is still confused and not understanding some points about how his approach has been on this issue...but he will come around.


Meanwhile another thing I found interesting today in his scene with God was that he hasn't once said that he wants Gulaal to love him as he loves her...all he always asks for is UNDERSTANDING...today also he asked God to make Gulaal understand and believe that his love is true...THAT is his biggest anguish right now...He isn't expecting Gulaal to magically love him in the same way but he wants her to understand that HIS love is not an attachment, not a passing fancy, not lust, not sin...he wants her to believe in the genuineness of his love.

The irony ofcourse is that he doesn't know HOW to make her understand that...and at the same time, in many ways, her UNDERSTANDING only will help ease his own anguish and maybe give im the strength and understanding to approach the situation better too.

So I agree with you that they need some kind of starting point...but I guess that takes time...all this upheaval they are showing in the story right now had to be shown...but the story is moving as well...and it will move towards that evolution in Kesar's character as well as he sambhaloes himself as well as Gulaal eventually.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanks for the superb update
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks Arti, Lisa and Tanyaj for the reply 😊

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