Why are certain men so disgusting ?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I just came across this actor Karan Singh Grover who seems to have broken with his wife coz he has dated two more women in life !!! One is the choreographer and another co-star .

It may be a personal issue, but don't we have something to learn from it ?
Why can't certain men whose wives trust them the most CHEAT ? Isn't it unfair on women ?
Now just imagine the case of his wife ??

Women and men are equal today. But what can women do if they are cheated by their husbands this way ?


PS : NO TALKING ABOUT THE ACTOR HERE. Lets speak about such men in general who have extra marital affair and cheat on their wives.

Do they have any right to be celebs ? What kind of Fame and Respect would they have in society ?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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yes it's pretty general that guys do suspect their wives even if their wives are just friends with some male....and when they have tons of female friends or affairs....he expect the wife not to question at all....how is that fair enough.....

(Pika....scraps 😔)



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Posted: 16 years ago
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Ya, that is exploiting women right ?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaktheback

I just came across this actor Karan Singh Grover who seems to have broken with his wife coz he has dated two more women in life !!! One is the choreographer and another co-star .

It may be a personal issue, but don't we have something to learn from it ?
Why can't certain men whose wives trust them the most CHEAT ? Isn't it unfair on women ?
Now just imagine the case of his wife ??

Women and men are equal today. But what can women do if they are cheated by their husbands this way ?


PS : NO TALKING ABOUT THE ACTOR HERE. Lets speak about such men in general who have extra marital affair and cheat on their wives.

Do they have any right to be celebs ? What kind of Fame and Respect would they have in society ?

In IF itself how many girls love Mr. Karan....,.lots of girls mad abt his acting n his musculr body...they can do anything for him....Men are not the only ones who cheat. There are many women in this world who are guilty of it too. It is just as painful for a man to have to go through this process as it is for a woman....
If u see a beautiful man, or a beautiful woman.... you are attracted.... Nothing is wrong in it. You feel your heart beating faster. You would like to be with this woman or man, and the attraction is so tremendous that in that moment you think you would like to live with this woman forever.....Lovers don't deceive each other, thy r saying the truth .....bt that truth belongs to the moment. ....When lovers say to each other, "I cannot live without you," it is not that he is deceiving or she is deceiving, they mean it. ....😊

Tomorrow this same woman will nt look so beautiful..... As days pass, the man and the woman both will feel that they are imprisoned. They have know each other's geography completely. First it was an unknown territory to be discovered, now there is nothing to be discovered.....Thn after he/she start search new things in life.......Love is bound to turn into hate, and for the whole life the hate goes on accumulating.....😊

If I love a woman, and one day she says that she has fallen in love with somebody else and feels very happy, I will be happy. I love her, and I would like her to be happy -- where is the problem? 😊I will help her in every way so that she can be more happy. If she can be more happy with somebody else, what hurts me?😊

It is our ego that hurts...... she has found somebody else who is better than you.....It is not a question of better, it may be just your chauffeur ..... it is just a question of a little change. And if you give full freedom to each other, perhaps you can remain together for your whole life, or for the whole eternity, cos thre is no need to get rid of each other. .....Marriage creates the need to get rid of each other, bcos it means freedom is taken away -- and freedom is the highest value in human life. 😊
We cant blame a particuler gender.....theres deep hidden reason for all these relationships....Nobody will fall in love.... everybody will decide consciously that 'This is the one'😊society shuld nt live in a routine way, in a fixed way -- static, dormant -- it should be a moving flux. 😊and I believe love is no slavery, it is freedom. And they should move in the commune, tasting, enjoying different qualities of different people......😃Nobody takes note of the simple fact... why for centuries have there been prostitutes? Who created them? Who is responsible for these poor women? It is the institution of marriage. You are bored with your wife.... just for a change you go to a woman who is not going to be a bondage ...😊Life is so simple and so beautiful, just one thing is missing.... freedom😊



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Posted: 16 years ago
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Believe ji, why should a man get committed then ? Having such a trustworthy wife, why should have he played with two other women ??

I do agree beauty would get faded, then what is the case of the wife who trusted them the most ? Won't the wife get hurted by the acts of her husband ?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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depends on what one is looking for in a relationshp- thrill or stability. If each partners is looking for diffr things its bound to cause a conflict of interest
Edited by angie.4u - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am about to make one of the most generalised comments ever but believe me I only say this as a result of personal experience.
This is why I find that south east asian men in particular are the most disgusting and perverted! I find the FOBs are usually the worst! Man I have had some pretty aweful experiences with them. I have no ides why certain men are so disgusting but that's just the way they are and I don't see them changing at all.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaktheback

Believe ji, why should a man get committed then ? what to do people are in hurry😃people believe relationship has a certainty..or security....😊...Having such a trustworthy wife, why should have he played with two other women ??

You are in love with a woman or a man and immediately U start thinking of getting married..... Make it a legal contract. Why? 😳How does the law come into love? The law comes into love because love is not there😊It is only a fantasy, and you know the fantasy will disappear...but everybody ready to accpt that fantasy...😊I think their honey moon is over😃

I do agree beauty would get faded, then what is the case of the wife who trusted them the most ? Won't the wife get hurted by the acts of her husband ?

when you start demanding, "Be faithful to me!" .....you are creating a situation in which it will become impossible for the poor men/woman to be faithful to you.... Give him/her total freedom.... then she/he may be faithful to you.....no need to demand these things -- trust, faith. Live together joyously. .....Make as much out of your being together as possible. Rather than doing that, people create such problems, useless problems, and destroy all their joys.....😃If love cannot keep them together, nothing else can keep them together. ....😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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kya philosophy hai vinuji 👏 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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male want to scatter their oats widely thus ensuring propagation of ones progeny but females want to chain the man & ensure his participation in nurturing their progeny.

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