Why are certain men so disgusting ? - Page 2

To cheat or deceive someone is such a disgusting thing.When a man cheats on a woman she is completely shatterd inside.She lost trust.She looses the interest to live .The man cheating on their wives is obnoxious,wild,phyco .......They are just yuckkkkkkkkkkkkk😡.

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

I am about to make one of the most generalised comments ever but believe me I only say this as a result of personal experience.

This is why I find that south east asian men in particular are the most disgusting and perverted! I find the FOBs are usually the worst! Man I have had some pretty aweful experiences with them. I have no ides why certain men are so disgusting but that's just the way they are and I don't see them changing at all.

hehe im south asian and yes i agree with you.. the guys in my college kaap asking if i know where to get blue films

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

hehe im south asian and yes i agree with you.. the guys in my college kaap asking if i know where to get blue films

What wussies if they don't know where to get their fix. Truly unworthy to be noted as men. 😡Its called the internets and a magnificent technology called bit torrent. 😆

Women can be equally disgusting.

Believe explained it really well.

These things happen everyday in every common man's life. Us humans are never satisfied with ourselves we want more and more to satisfy our hunger, our thirst and our desires. That desire is different in everyone, for some its money others lust/career. Having said that, its not correct to accuse only the men of being disgusting, being a women myself i can proudly say..yeah i am equally hungry for certain things in life..not an affair, or physical attraction..but something else.

For some this hunger destroys them and for others it feeds them and satisfies them, makes their life better. Depends on your dose. Dont over do it, self control is a must in order to succeed without failing and being disgusting 😆

Xoxo

I am going to play devil's advocate here a bit.

Why do some men cheat and indulge in such promiscuous behavior. One primary reason is because they know they can get away with it. The only reason they know they can get away with this is because women are prone to irrational behavior. It is a fact that good looking men and women get lot of admiration, adulation and undue attention. However, women tend to be illogical in their admiration. They literally will place the objects of their affection on a pedestal and deem them flawless, even if they happen to fancy a manho, he gets put on the pedestal. Men on the other hand may be smitten by a woman, and may even place women they admire on a pedestal - but its not irrational - and they tend to be really choose in distinguishing between women they respect and those they perceive as hos.

So it is clearly evident why men might want to take advantage of this irrational behavior. You can clearly see it by the vehement denial in women who are in love with such men.

In general society too is structured in an imbalanced manner. A man who has an affair will not be judged as harshly, but a woman who cheats will be looked down upon severely and put through social rebuke and ostracize - even if there is a compellingly good reason for cheating on her end.

However, before one passes judgment on any man - you have to think twice. How well do you really now him? Other than the relationship front you saw put before you, did you know how the couple was in private. Have you talked to him heart to heart to know why he did what he did. Do you know for sure he is acting out of pure lust, and has no other reason to cheat. Do you even know for sure he is cheating. Do you genuinely know all the people involved as human beings, as people you can talk to and know whats going on. Can you really be so sure that a third party account, a scandalous report, is going to paint an honest picture - especially in the case of celebrities. Can you really judge anyone in a positive or negative light just because of the media or the shows and interviews they do?

Another aspect I want to touch on is that I personally think women expect way too much out of their significant others. According to them even flirting or looking is cheating. When you are so harshly judgmental you put too much pressure on people - and can drive them over the edge even if they do not mean to. Some people are naturally flirtatious and touchy feely in their interactions, that does not mean they do not care for the people they committed too. The definition of cheating can be really hard to define.

Finally as some have pointed out - women too can be equally disgusting. Women too cheat and have affairs and emotionally destroy men who love them very much. Women too have strong desires not just physical and can drain and hurt men with their unending demands and expectations.

If anyone watches Glee, you can tell why Will Schuester feels so weighed down by his wife Terri Schuester and what a terrible woman she is that you are actually rooting for Will to cheat on her for his happiness.

being disgusting comes naturally...since its instintual as well......

Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

kya philosophy hai vinuji 👏 😆

Originally posted by: souro

And the man wasn't having an affair with another man. So, ain't the other women similarly disgusting.

I was confused at first. But I agree - an affair is never one sided. There was a similar topic - affair with married people.