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Posted: 16 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*



Anyways, let's not lose hope - I'm sure there is a guy out there who's not like that. And if he's there, then he's mine, so back off. 😆



if you really find one that would be really good 😆 but are you sure he will be straight and clean like a white sheet of paper 😉 no one is perfect na 😳

but yea we will back off if not you will give us death glare yea 😛 j/k
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Posted: 16 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Now a days, more and more women are cheating too. Today's woman is more independent financially and stepping outside her home more often than before. She has the exact same opportunities that her male counterpart has had in the past. Today's woman also considers herself at par with her man. If she is not satisfied in her marriage, chances are either she is going to say something about it or she is going to do something about it - just like the man has been doing all along.
This change in mindset along with the financial and emotional freedom is the main reason for more women cheating these days than before. Hence, we can't go on claiming that only guys cheat or only guys are disgusting.
That said; I still feel that MOST women cheat because they are lacking emotional connection with their current spouse where as MOST men cheat because of the thirlls of physical relatonship. This doesn't make one form of cheating superior to another or vice versa. This is just an observation.

😕 Im confused .
where do u live
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Posted: 16 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: _DrEaM_



if you really find one that would be really good 😆 but are you sure he will be straight and clean like a white sheet of paper 😉 no one is perfect na 😳

but yea we will back off if not you will give us death glare yea 😛 j/k



If he's not clean like a white sheet of paper, I'm going to give him a death glare. 😆 Perhaps I expect too much from life, and forget that sometimes perfection is unattainable, but I do certainly believe in hope. Maybe it is naive of me to do so, but I certainly expect the guy that I end up with to be pure, in every sense of the word. He doesn't have to be perfect, I think purity will suffice. As it is, perfection is overrated. And I'll cut him some slack - poor guy's going to have to deal with me for a whole lifetime. Even I have trouble doing that some days. 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*



If he's not clean like a white sheet of paper, I'm going to give him a death glare. 😆 Perhaps I expect too much from life, and forget that sometimes perfection is unattainable, but I do certainly believe in hope. Maybe it is naive of me to do so, but I certainly expect the guy that I end up with to be pure, in every sense of the word. He doesn't have to be perfect, I think purity will suffice. As it is, perfection is overrated. And I'll cut him some slack - poor guy's going to have to deal with me for a whole lifetime. Even I have trouble doing that some days. 😆



Hmm I think expectation and hope are two different things. You expect and when you do not get you get upset a big time as the expected usually turns out to be unexpected😆 I do not like to keep any expectation about anything, yet I still keep hope about certain things is life. I just hope for achieving or getting something but getting it or not is never certain so it depends on my hard work, life and luck too. I too hope for a perfect guy even if i know there is perfection in this world. You are right about purity, if he is pure from mind that is already a big compliment 😳

I sometimes wonder how will a guy stay with me all his life with my weird nature lol 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#35
What does being pure mean?
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Posted: 16 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: return_to_hades



What wussies if they don't know where to get their fix. Truly unworthy to be noted as men. 😡Its called the internets and a magnificent technology called bit torrent. 😆



😛 aah you know the ropes I see 😛
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Posted: 16 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: sonur15

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😕 Im confused .
where do u live

I live in the REAL world instead of the la la land some here prefer over stark reality.
Posted: 16 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

I am about to make one of the most generalised comments ever but believe me I only say this as a result of personal experience.

This is why I find that south east asian men in particular are the most disgusting and perverted! I find the FOBs are usually the worst! Man I have had some pretty aweful experiences with them. I have no ides why certain men are so disgusting but that's just the way they are and I don't see them changing at all.



Maybe bc some ppl (in my view) come from a different culture where men dominate?
and women are looked at differently so they feel they can do what ever they want?

It can also be the government, many asian countries dont have strong womens rights laws etc.. Also poor police structure and followup?

In my view, everyone should have respect, and if you cant control your senses, you should face the law..

As far as cheating on your spouse, i dont think its right, bc it breaks a bond and creates disharmony...its even worse when you have kids...

i have seen the ugly sides of this in marriage from my family and friends, its really painful for the person who was cheated on..

you lose more than that person, you lose faith and trust...



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Posted: 16 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Believe

In IF itself how many girls love Mr. Karan....,.lots of girls mad abt his acting n his musculr body...they can do anything for him....Men are not the only ones who cheat. There are many women in this world who are guilty of it too. It is just as painful for a man to have to go through this process as it is for a woman....
If u see a beautiful man, or a beautiful woman.... you are attracted.... Nothing is wrong in it. You feel your heart beating faster. You would like to be with this woman or man, and the attraction is so tremendous that in that moment you think you would like to live with this woman forever.....Lovers don't deceive each other, thy r saying the truth .....bt that truth belongs to the moment. ....When lovers say to each other, "I cannot live without you," it is not that he is deceiving or she is deceiving, they mean it. ....😊

Tomorrow this same woman will nt look so beautiful..... As days pass, the man and the woman both will feel that they are imprisoned. They have know each other's geography completely. First it was an unknown territory to be discovered, now there is nothing to be discovered.....Thn after he/she start search new things in life.......Love is bound to turn into hate, and for the whole life the hate goes on accumulating.....😊

If I love a woman, and one day she says that she has fallen in love with somebody else and feels very happy, I will be happy. I love her, and I would like her to be happy -- where is the problem? 😊I will help her in every way so that she can be more happy. If she can be more happy with somebody else, what hurts me?😊

It is our ego that hurts...... she has found somebody else who is better than you.....It is not a question of better, it may be just your chauffeur ..... it is just a question of a little change. And if you give full freedom to each other, perhaps you can remain together for your whole life, or for the whole eternity, cos thre is no need to get rid of each other. .....Marriage creates the need to get rid of each other, bcos it means freedom is taken away -- and freedom is the highest value in human life. 😊
We cant blame a particuler gender.....theres deep hidden reason for all these relationships....Nobody will fall in love.... everybody will decide consciously that 'This is the one'😊society shuld nt live in a routine way, in a fixed way -- static, dormant -- it should be a moving flux. 😊and I believe love is no slavery, it is freedom. And they should move in the commune, tasting, enjoying different qualities of different people......😃Nobody takes note of the simple fact... why for centuries have there been prostitutes? Who created them? Who is responsible for these poor women? It is the institution of marriage. You are bored with your wife.... just for a change you go to a woman who is not going to be a bondage ...😊Life is so simple and so beautiful, just one thing is missing.... freedom😊



Very well said.👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
#40
Relationships create expectations
Expectations create obligations and
Obligations create complications.
And Complications break hearts

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