NO CONNECTS 14.5 - Page 4

Originally posted by: itsShonali

I am very conflicted right now

I feel like hitting trashmaan but I also think he deserves all the praise for letting trashbheera feel the pain that Ruhi felt back then.

Then they used to say that trashbheera is true mother to Daksh and not Ruhi, now trashmaan is showing how Ruhi is the mother to panauti pookie and not trashbheera

Is there anyone who thinks Dadisa has ulterior motives in precap ya main hi zaroorat se zyaada soch rahi hoon.. coz asking clown to go away serves zero purpose .. delulu full psycho ho chukha who isn’t seeing anyone except Panauti pookie. Ese mein clown agar use chod ke chali bhi gayi toh use kese galti ka ehsaas hoga🤷‍♀️.. math isn’t mathing..

I didn't even feel bad when Armaan said those hurtful things to Abheera..she DESERVES it. She and the entire Poddar family shamed Ruhi after snatching Daksh from her , kept preaching that Abheera is the best mother ever, bullied Ruhi to give mother's darja to this clown etc. And later treated Ruhi as a bag carrying pookie rather than an actual human being, forced her to follow nonsense routines etc. Badi jagatmata ban rahi thi, ab khud ki bachi nahi sambhal rahi Abheera se 😏.

Also, Armaan is right in a way, so was Dadisa. This pookie baby doesn't know technically Abheera is her mother , she grew in Ruhi's womb, recognises her heartbeat, and clearly wants her warmth and breastmilk. It's as simple as that. Maternity leave lene se koi maa nahi ban jaate, if Abheera is as large hearted as she proclaims herself to be , she wouldn't have called Ruhi, the child's birth mother, as Maasi while she herself enjoys being called Maate of Dakshu. Usi mein uski selfishness aur hypocrisy nazar aati hai.

Even though I'm glad Ruhi escaped these clowns and is getting recovery and rest away from them, this pookie would've fared better if she was with Ruhi atleast till she was weaned off. Because Abheera is clearly incapable. And Armaan's craziness isn't helping things.

P.S This is also karma of the great Akshu denying Abhimanyu his own son, mouthing horrible words like " tum uske mausa ya docman ban sakte ho, papa nahi"..and now her daughter is getting taunted by her jamai that she's a stranger to her kid. Ab jaake Akshu 's cruelties are being redirected back to her precious Abheera.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Stress started for me from the time doctor told Csection.my inlaws mocked me as I had c. Section. What's their pain there I took the pain. They commented my mother is doing it purposely for me.Which mother will be sooo mean to make her beti suffer. Next my own nani mocked me as I can't get breast milk. Everyday it's torture for me and total depression types. I can't heal properly nor sit in nights with my chakkars always. On top of it kid is not managed by me properly those who ever came to see commented bottle milk Csection and masi nani rising kid . I used to cry a lot as I had to stay in my mil house for 2 weeks. Torture was more In front I had no help except I am the best mother I handled my kids blah blah blah. When I gave bath to kid my fil stood behind so I didn't lift my nightie and give bath to my kid on legs. It's minimum common sense to go aside but she didn't tell him.Both were looking movie. Later commented isko kuch nahi atha.Formula bottle my fil got 1 dabba in 15 days.my son used to drink a bottle in 3 days.My father came in between to see my son got 2 dabbas.My fil never wanted vaccination for kid.Just because kid is eating cerelac and little chubby they didn't give annaprasan till 10th month. If kid has cold cough fever they tortured more.My hubby is good father always chose kids and did justice. Today I got all past in front seeing the taunts.

Woh koi joint family mai bhi kabhi meri help ke liye aage nahi ayega yeh baat muje bahot acche se pata thi Uper se judge ki chair par baith kar muje dekhege woh alag isiliye maine pehle he planning kar li thi ki baby ke birth ke baad maayke mai i will take paid training from malishwali aunty before going to sasural

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

There’s a part of me that wants to feel sad for Gadheera’s pitiful state but then I remember how everyone esp Gadheera behaved with Ruhi post her miscarriage so I can’t feel bad for her.. karma is a b*tch..

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Haina it’s complicated.. I want to slap ghatiyamaan but also low key happy that he is thrashing clown.. I can never forget how everyone made Ruhi feel incompetent.. esp chachundari, Har waqt clown ki jay jay kar karti thi as if she’s best mother in the world.. ab bhukto..

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Stress started for me from the time doctor told Csection.my inlaws mocked me as I had c. Section. What's their pain there I took the pain. They commented my mother is doing it purposely for me.Which mother will be sooo mean to make her beti suffer. Next my own nani mocked me as I can't get breast milk. Everyday it's torture for me and total depression types. I can't heal properly nor sit in nights with my chakkars always. On top of it kid is not managed by me properly those who ever came to see commented bottle milk Csection and masi nani rising kid . I used to cry a lot as I had to stay in my mil house for 2 weeks. Torture was more In front I had no help except I am the best mother I handled my kids blah blah blah. When I gave bath to kid my fil stood behind so I didn't lift my nightie and give bath to my kid on legs. It's minimum common sense to go aside but she didn't tell him.Both were looking movie. Later commented isko kuch nahi atha.Formula bottle my fil got 1 dabba in 15 days.my son used to drink a bottle in 3 days.My father came in between to see my son got 2 dabbas.My fil never wanted vaccination for kid.Just because kid is eating cerelac and little chubby they didn't give annaprasan till 10th month. If kid has cold cough fever they tortured more.My hubby is good father always chose kids and did justice. Today I got all past in front seeing the taunts.

Hugs much love

I had c section too coz kid was big and could tear me ..I did feed her for one year but she did need top bottle feeding too coz it was not enf ..she used to cluster feed ..night 12 to morning 4 ..

So yea i feel u 🥴..bath until 5 months i was in amma place ..amma used to stand behind or bhabhi so I used to wear burmudas..once moved back ..I had to manage alone..but it was ok ..as long as she was full stomach she would cry less

Until 4 months she had colic , but rubbing ghee on belly button helped..

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Meri mother in law and father in law used to judge me a lot before I got pregnant and during my pregnancy too ki yeh kya he baccha sabhalegi din ka 8-9 hours office jati hai, typical gharelu ladki bhi nahi hai etc etc . They thought bina unki help ke mai kuch nahi kar paugi lekin maine toh mere son ke birth ke baad jo maalishwali aati thi usse baby malish , baby bath , colic massage , burping massage sab kuch c-section ke baad 1 month mai he sikh kiya . She trained me in just 1 month so jab mai 4 month ka baby le kar wapas mere sasural gayi tab unki aakhe fatti reh gayi jab unhone dekha ki mai kaise khud he uski malish kar ke baby bath de rahi thi

Woh koi joint family mai bhi kabhi meri help ke liye aage nahi ayega yeh baat muje bahot acche se pata thi Uper se judge ki chair par baith kar muje dekhege woh alag isiliye maine pehle he planning kar li thi ki baby ke birth ke baad maayke mai i will take paid training from malishwali aunty before going to sasural

I feel u yaar ..I have heard stories from cousins and friends

I guess here though I was ambitious and working...they have seen me manage my SIL fussy kids 😂 so they think..she can cook well and manage kids ..only taunt was I am sacred of driving 🙈

My nephew now is 10 ..does not stay away from SIL or bhava ..but is ok with me 😂 ..he says he feels safe and comfy with mami 🫶

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Is there anyone who thinks Dadisa has ulterior motives in precap ya main hi zaroorat se zyaada soch rahi hoon.. coz asking clown to go away serves zero purpose .. delulu full psycho ho chukha who isn’t seeing anyone except Panauti pookie. Ese mein clown agar use chod ke chali bhi gayi toh use kese galti ka ehsaas hoga🤷‍♀️.. math isn’t mathing..

Since abhira ne na goenka's ko inform kiya and na poddars ko people will assume she ran away because she was scared of responsibilities. Armaan will think instead of correcting him she left her child like this. So he finding motherji will be justified from his pov.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I feel u yaar ..I have heard stories from cousins and friends

I guess here though I was ambitious and working...they have seen me manage my SIL fussy kids 😂 so they think..she can cook well and manage kids ..only taunt was I am sacred of driving 🙈

My nephew now is 10 ..does not stay away from SIL or bhava ..but is ok with me 😂 ..he says he feels safe and comfy with mami 🫶

Unka yeh plan tha ki woh baby hone ke baad muje baby ke matter mai woh kuch bhi support nahi karegi so mai thak kar apne job ko chod dugi baccha sambhalne ke liye lekin maine work from home le liya tha company se

Unko itna mirchi laga tha na ki mai work from home kar ke bacche ka bhi sab khud he karti thi and helper rakh kar kitchen mai bhi unka help nahi leti thi.