Jhanak's struggles

J has lived life of continuos mudslinging where no effort ever gave her and her mother a respite. Raising voice as well as keeping quite, both were punished. There is no place in her life for dreaming. It is about thinking how to avoid the next blame coming her way. Hence, most of J's action are very short sighted, almost dumb. She is just sick and tired of the insults thrown at her. Hence, instead of ignoring current insults for future bigger goals, she focuses on reacting with anger, tears to current ones. Her life has made her belive that she is born for a life of misery, hence she is quick to lose hope in case she ever feels hopeful. J is a very straight thinking person and thinks that she should succeed in life with honesty. World does not work that way. Even though you need not bluff the world, you should have enough smartness to not get bluffed.Ani knows this and hence, wants to protect J.

The struggles that J might have while openly accepting her relationship with Ani is:(a) Her mother's societal image. She just like her mother is perceived as men influencer. Even if her love for Ani is pure, accepting it will mean vindicating what society thinks about her and her mother (b) J always was clear that she does not want to be third angle between Ani and Arshi. Hence, how much ever she loves Ani, she will put all her might pushing Ani away (c) For J, it is about choosing between Ani and self- respect. If she stays in Bose house, for sake of Ani, will mean that accepting life of servility. One day when her love for Ani will give her the strangth to negate the insults coming her way, she will accept the relationship.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

J has lived life of continuos mudslinging where no effort ever gave her and her mother a respite. Raising voice as well as keeping quite, both were punished. There is no place in her life for dreaming. It is about thinking how to avoid the next blame coming her way. Hence, most of J's action are very short sighted, almost dumb. She is just sick and tired of the insults thrown at her. Hence, instead of ignoring current insults for future bigger goals, she focuses on reacting with anger, tears to current ones. Her life has made her belive that she is born for a life of misery, hence she is quick to lose hope in case she ever feels hopeful. J is a very straight thinking person and thinks that she should succeed in life with honesty. World does not work that way. Even though you need not bluff the world, you should have enough smartness to not get bluffed.Ani knows this and hence, wants to protect J.

The struggles that J might have while openly accepting her relationship with Ani is:(a) Her mother's societal image. She just like her mother is perceived as men influencer. Even if her love for Ani is pure, accepting it will mean vindicating what society thinks about her and her mother (b) J always was clear that she does not want to be third angle between Ani and Arshi. Hence, how much ever she loves Ani, she will put all her might pushing Ani away (c) For J, it is about choosing between Ani and self- respect. If she stays in Bose house, for sake of Ani, will mean that accepting life of servility. One day when her love for Ani will give her the strangth to negate the insults coming her way, she will accept the relationship.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

J has lived life of continuos mudslinging where no effort ever gave her and her mother a respite. Raising voice as well as keeping quite, both were punished. There is no place in her life for dreaming. It is about thinking how to avoid the next blame coming her way. Hence, most of J's action are very short sighted, almost dumb. She is just sick and tired of the insults thrown at her. Hence, instead of ignoring current insults for future bigger goals, she focuses on reacting with anger, tears to current ones. Her life has made her belive that she is born for a life of misery, hence she is quick to lose hope in case she ever feels hopeful. J is a very straight thinking person and thinks that she should succeed in life with honesty. World does not work that way. Even though you need not bluff the world, you should have enough smartness to not get bluffed.Ani knows this and hence, wants to protect J.

The struggles that J might have while openly accepting her relationship with Ani is:(a) Her mother's societal image. She just like her mother is perceived as men influencer. Even if her love for Ani is pure, accepting it will mean vindicating what society thinks about her and her mother (b) J always was clear that she does not want to be third angle between Ani and Arshi. Hence, how much ever she loves Ani, she will put all her might pushing Ani away (c) For J, it is about choosing between Ani and self- respect. If she stays in Bose house, for sake of Ani, will mean that accepting life of servility. One day when her love for Ani will give her the strangth to negate the insults coming her way, she will accept the relationship.

Yeah. It's pretty much a given at this point and she also kept reiterating I stayed for you to Ani in so many ways both verbally and otherwise. There is only so much she could take without being called Homewrecker. I think the last incident was the nail on the coffin after the entire Ad shoot fiasco which prompted her to leave.

Originally posted by: Anusha16

I think the last incident was the nail on the coffin after the entire Ad shoot fiasco which prompted her to leave.

Didn't get this Anusha Ji

Can you elaborate a bit on this

Do you mean that Ani's birthday date will be last nail or was it her foot injury incident or was the Ad shoot anger of Ani?

Bcz after that Ad shoot incident she didn't actually have intention to leave IMO, it was one of her non serious verbal talks (she also left shoot so Ani realises stardom and all don't matter for her) she anyways returned To Bose house after shoot.

I think you meant Ad shoot incident was spark and foot injury incident was fire

(Birthday date reaction isn't out anyways and she already made mind to leave)

Originally posted by: Rancho12345

Didn't get this Anusha Ji

Can you elaborate a bit on this

Do you mean that Ani's birthday date will be last nail or was it her foot injury incident or was the Ad shoot anger of Ani?

Bcz after that Ad shoot incident she didn't actually have intention to leave IMO, it was one of her non serious verbal talks (she also left shoot so Ani realises stardom and all don't matter for her) she anyways returned To Bose house after shoot.

I think you meant Ad shoot incident was spark and foot injury incident was fire

(Birthday date reaction isn't out anyways and she already made mind to leave)

Yes, the last bold. When she realized they won't spare even Ani I think something snapped in her