MyThoughts- Epi 979

BP and his AbhiM delusions: When MJ said AbhiM- AK- Abhir are perfect family, BP said, AbhiM can never think like that. What BP does not know is the son whom he loves more than KV has thought about it, before MJ. Then even Abhir was not part of his perfect family (tab woh blood- pendant- soul connection nahi tha). He wanted AK to abandon her little son.

Even yesterday, BP said, AbhiM would agree but MJ will not. Again he is hugely mistaken. AbhiM's obsession is the real motivation behind MJ's vile acts. MJ just wants her son to be happy. If AbhiM would have found his happiness with AR and Ruhi, there were less chances that she would hv gone to this extent for Abhir's custody. MJ said in the court, 'Jabse abhirke bare mei pata chala hai, mera beta tadap raha hai'. So, AbhiM's obsessive tadapana is the moivation. I so much want AbhiM's temple and hospital confession to get revealed to everyone who think AbhiM is a saint who gets manipulated by MJ, as both these things he did against MJ's wish then. BP compared AK- AbhiN' s agnipariksha, with AbhiM- Abhir agnipariska. How one can compare the two? AbhiM is himself the destructibe fire, who burnt the innocent Abhir's heart to ashes.

Beautiful scenes:

1. When Abhir leaves the room, he imagines AK- AbhiN coming to stop him and pleading him not to go. Please watch this scene keenly. AK- AbhiN act a little kid- like and not as mature adults, as they are doing it in Abhir, the kid's imagination.

2. AbhiN's pain while waving goodbye to Abhir were also beautifully executed by JS.

AbhiN vs AK: I was right. AbhiN let go of his father's rights in just one go. He gave it to AbhiM.TBH, I was very disappointed with AbhiN's "Aaj se aap Abhirke pita hue' dialogue. Who he is to give the right? Abhir has the right to decide who his father is. Abhir had chosen you. It was Abhir calming in your arms that made AK take the decision that she did. For me you just disrespected the little soul.

However, I am happy atleast he aknowledged that he was good father. Else, he is good at nothing as per him.

Unlike him, AK told AbhiM, 'Baap ho, Papa bananeki koshish karna'. That is what right attitude is. AbhiM has to earn it and not given.

I felt bad for AK to some extent. Yes, unlike before, she now has a partner, who is standing by her side, sharing her grief, and that is wonderful, but will he be able to share her burden in future with this letting go attitude? Yeh banda toh apani Biwi tak AbhiMko dede saying ' Mei ek mamuli driver hoon...' Can you please grow some spine for son and wife's sake please?

If you do not fight back in upcoming track, I would like you to go back to Kasauli alone, drive the only taxi that you have and do the "Mei toh ek driver hoon" jaap for rest of your life.

Fixed mindset vs growth mindset: AbhiN has a fixed mindset. Once a driver, always driver. Once a badnaseeb, always a badnadseb. Once undeserving, always undeserving. Once AbhiN had said to Surekha, I wll do the work I m good at, I am comfrtabl with.Now, it does not evoke any sympathy but it is getting irritating.

Even after loosing the most precious thing of his life, he did not reflect on it as of yet. He did not realize that him doing good to people, not taking money from them did not help him win Abhir's case. There is a thin line between being good and being dumb. There are many occasions where AbhiN has shown that he is not dumb. He can play smart if required. He got AK out of police station due a smart act, then why not use it for your son's sake?

Agar AK bachhe ke liye lawyer ban sakati hai, than why AbhiN can't think in similar ways? I do not want him to become rich. I am not irked by his condition either, but by his attitude. Him letting go AK was the right thing as she showed signs that she has not moved on and that was right thing to do. But, now letting go Abhir when he does not want to, not working on financial condition when court said that it is primary reason for loosing custody, will be outright looser attitude. He will also be breaking the promise that he has made to his son Abhir that he will never leave him.

I want AK/AR/Surekha chachi or Abhir to sunaofy him someday. Now, AK considers herself his wife, so she is no more in a gratitudewala relationship with him. She has all the haq to tell him that due to his attitude he will fail fulfilling the promises that he has made to her and Abhir. His attitude will show that he did not love Abhir as much as he said as he will contribute to Abhir's pain.

AbhiM: The way AbhiM left Birla house, he looked more kiddish that Abhir. Ab pata chalega, father hona alag baat hai or Papa banana alag. The story can go either way. Abhir redeeming AbhiM or Abhir hating AbhiM. I always wished redemption of AbhiM, but after the custody track, the pain AbhiM has caused to three pure souls, I want Abhir to hate him to the core. I want AK to move to Birla house. Then I want Abhir to witness how his RWP treats his Mamma.

Hamare mamuli driver sahab toh bhej hi denge use Birla house.

Ruhi: Ruhi has completely moved on from AbhiM. I anticipate she saying to AbhiM that you are Abhir's papa, so no need to be my papa. I am more happy being Abhir's sister and his well- wisher.

MJ: AR is just few steps away from becoming AK. Looking at MJ's anger, I see her being kicked out of Birla house pretty soon, by AbhiM.

Abhir, tufaan: Birla house mei tehelka macha dena. Some people are saying they want this separation track to end soon. I don't want that. I want my Kasauli waala Maradona footballer Abhir back. Making everyone's life hell. It will be so much fun to watch MJ, AbhiM running pillar to post while managing him. AbhiMko एक बार police station भेजा था , अब भेजेगा तो फिर 'तेरी दिदाका खुनी प्यार देखानेको मिलेगा. AK had said, ' Jaise tufani rat mei mere pas aya tha, waise tufaan macha dena'

I don’t think abhiN gave up on abhir or his rights. He just accepted the courts decision. Let’s wait for a few episodes on what his POV is. It looks like it all happened in a day

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

BP and his AbhiM delusions: When MJ said AbhiM- AK- Abhir are perfect family, BP said, AbhiM can never think like that. What BP does not know is the son whom he loves more than KV has thought about it, before MJ. Then even Abhir was not part of his perfect family (tab woh blood- pendant- soul connection nahi tha). He wanted AK to abandon her 6 year old son.

Even yesterday, BP said, AbhiM would agree but MJ will not. Again he is hugely mistaken. AbhiM's obsession is the real motivation behind MJ's vile acts. MJ just wants her son to be happy. If AbhiM would have found his happiness with AR and Ruhi, there were less chances that she would hv gone to this extent for Abhir's custody. MJ said in the court, 'Jabse abhirke bare mei pata chala hai, mera beta tadap raha hai'. So, AbhiM's obsessive tadapana is the moivation. I so much want AbhiM's temple and hospital confession to get revealed to everyone who think AbhiM is a saint who gets manipulated by MJ, as both these things he did against MJ's wish then. BP compared AK- AbhiN' s agnipariksha, with AbhiM- Abhir agnipariska. How one can compare the two? AbhiM is himself the destructibe fire, who burnt the innocent Abhir's heart to ashes.

Beautiful scenes:

1. When Abhir leaves the room, he imagines AK- AbhiN coming to stop him and pleading him not to go. Please watch this scene keenly. AK- AbhiN act a little kid- like and not as mature adults, as they are doing it in Abhir, the kid's imagination.

2. AbhiN's pain while waving goodbye to Abhir were also beautifully executed by JS.

AbhiN vs AK: I was right. AbhiN let go of his father's rights in just one go. He gave it to AbhiM.TBH, I was very disappointed with AbhiN's "Aaj se aap Abhirke pita hue' dialogue. Who he is to give the right? Abhir has the right to decide who his father is. Abhir had chosen you. It was Abhir calming in your arms that made AK take the decision that she did. For me you just disrespected the little soul.

However, I am happy atleast he aknowledged that he was good father. Else, he is good at nothing as per him.

Unlike him, AK told AbhiM, 'Baap ho, Papa bananeki koshish karna'. That is what right attitude is. AbhiM has to earn it and not given.

I felt bad for AK to some extent. Yes, unlike before, she now has a partner, who is standing by her side, sharing her grief, and that is wonderful, but will he be able to share her burden in future with this letting go attitude? Yeh banda toh apani Biwi tak AbhiMko dede saying ' Mei ek mamuli driver hoon...' Can you please grow some spine for son and wife's sake please?

If you do not fight back in upcoming track, I would like you to go back to Kasauli alone, drive the only taxi that you have and do the "Mei toh ek driver hoon" jaap for rest of your life.

Fixed mindset vs growth mindset: AbhiN has a fixed mindset. Once a driver, always driver. Once a badnaseeb, always a badnadseb. Once undeserving, always undeserving. Once AbhiN had said to Surekha, I wll do the work I m good at, I am comfrtabl with.Now, it does not evoke any sympathy but it is getting irritating.

Even after loosing the most precious thing of his life, he did not reflect on it as of yet. He did not realize that him doing good to people, not taking money from them did not help him win Abhir's case. There is a thin line between being good and being dumb. There are many occasions where AbhiN has shown that he is not dumb. He can play smart if required. He got AK out of police station due a smart act, then why not use it for your son's sake?

Agar AK bachhe ke liye lawyer ban sakati hai, than why AbhiN can't think in similar ways? I do not want him to become rich. I am not irked by his condition either, but by his attitude. Him letting go AK was the right thing as she showed signs that she has not moved on and that was right thing to do. But, now letting go Abhir when he does not want to, not working on financial condition when court said that it is primary reason for loosing custody, will be outright looser attitude. He will also be breaking the promise that he has made to his son Abhir that he will never leave him.

I want AK/AR/Surekha chachi or Abhir to sunaofy him someday. Now, AK considers herself his wife, so she is no more in a gratitudewala relationship with him. She has all the haq to tell him that due to his attitude he will fail fulfilling the promises that he has made to her and Abhir. His attitude will show that he did not love Abhir as much as he said as he will contribute to Abhir's pain.

AbhiM: The way AbhiM left Birla house, he looked more kiddish that Abhir. It was so immature for a 40 year old. Ab pata chalega, sperm donor hona alag baat hai or Papa banana alag. The story can go either way. Abhir redeeming AbhiM or Abhir hating AbhiM. I always wished redemption of AbhiM, but after the custody track, the pain AbhiM has caused to three pure souls, I want Abhir to hate him to the core. I want AK to move to Birla house. Then I want Abhir to witness how his RWP treats his Mamma.

Hamare mamuli driver sahab toh bhej hi denge use Birla house.

Ruhi: Ruhi has completely moved on from AbhiM. I anticipate she saying to AbhiM that you are Abhir's papa, so no need to be my papa. I am more happy being Abhir's sister and his well- wisher.

MJ: AR is just few steps away from becoming AK. Looking at MJ's anger, I see her being kicked out of Birla house pretty soon, by AbhiM.

Abhir, tufaan: Birla house mei tehelka macha dena. Some people are saying they want this separation track to end soon. I don't want that. I want my Kasauli waala Maradona footballer Abhir back. Making everyone's life hell. It will be so much fun to watch MJ, AbhiM running pillar to post while managing him. AbhiMko एक बार police station भेजा था , अब भेजेगा तो फिर 'तेरी दिदाका खुनी प्यार देखानेको मिलेगा. AK had said, ' Jaise tufani rat mei mere pas aya tha, waise tufaan macha dena'

When Abhinav let go his father's right? As far as i know, Court gave Abhimanyu the father's right and everyone have to accept.. Abhinav still cannot behave like he's the father and Abhimanyu is not..woh kuch bhi kare uska problem.. insecure hona ya insecurity chorke backseat lena.. nobody gives him a break..

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

When Abhinav let go his father's right? As far as i know, Court gave Abhimanyu the father's right and everyone have to accept.. Abhinav still cannot behave like he's the father and Abhimanyu is not..woh kuch bhi kare uska problem.. insecure hona ya insecurity chorke backseat lena.. nobody gives him a break..

It must be so painful for him too, to lose especially due to financial reasons. I am surprised he is happy go lucky in general, given his background.

I didn’t like them lying to abhir and breaking his heart. Instead they could have stated facts saying if he doesn’t go they will be arrested, and tell him they will fight for him but until them please support us by bing hapoy and healthy with your docman and family.

I just hate Abhinav for his mindset. Most of audience just dislike for this. Why he is so like this? Are bhai jub tumhare paas kuch nahi tha tab nahi tha par ab toh hai na aur jo hai jitna hai utna sambhalo. Aur aage badho. Because of his idea Abhir will think ki his mumma papa do not love him. He is some kind of bojh. What a heartbreaking thing is? I really want some growth in his Ckt. Main driver hun, gareeb hun, anath hun itna depression wali chizen kon baar baar repeat karta hai.

Just because Abhir is kid I don't want he will hate anyone. But Abhimanyu & Manjri deserve his hate. They are not bothering about him. Meri khushiyan, mera beta, mera haq, Mera khoon, Mera waris. Maa toh fir abhi apne bete ki khushiyan dekh rahi hai but Abhimanyu ko apne bete ka dard nahi dikhta. I would hate writer if Abhir do not from them that why his father not living with him? Just let him know all stories. Jis tarah apne mama ko nikal diya waise mujhe bhi nikal do.

AK ki bhi galti usko bata Dena chahiye tha jub abhir ko pata chal gaya ki Abhinav uska real father nahi hai.

These three people have failed. One has inferiority complex, one is insecure and one is in haq mode. I am just surprised with Ruhi. She understand Abhir this much ki bhavishyavani bhi kar di.

Has docman realised ki Abhir still call him docman even after truth. And u can never be his Papa.

Originally posted by: focus7

It must be so painful for him too, to lose especially due to financial reasons. I am surprised he is happy go lucky in general, given his background.

I didn’t like them lying to abhir and breaking his heart. Instead they could have stated facts saying if he doesn’t go they will be arrested, and tell him they will fight for him but until them please support us by bing hapoy and healthy with your docman and family.

Abhimanyu and Akshara - their ways were not right. Why create so much stress for a young kid. Hope this track ends soon. If they do not change this rona dhona track, TRP will go below 2 soon.

They start building on changing status of Akshnav - Akshara as lawyer and Abhinav moving up the financial ladder. Change is the only possible way to save the show.

Thx 🤗

100% agree about abhim..post the court case he was growling that now nobody can stop him from gifting to abhir , nobody will tell him when to meet and not , ma ne kaha haq ke ladai karo and yahi sahi hai. So is there any doubt that he want it ? He has no consideration of abhir or akshara whatsoever ...it was his ego talking.

Abhinav ..I feel they should give him a graceful exit....else give him equal footage ..we don't want pitiful characters anymore ...Just loving akshara and abhir isn't enuf right ? Bhai tum gareeb ho toh ameer banne ki koshish karo. Kamzor ho toh strong banne ki koshish karo ..ye rona dhona kya laga rakha hai

Same goes for akshara . If something is lacking just do it instead of bragging or crying..get the degree and fight your case..tell abhir the truth , don't make him hate you . Thoda akal lagao

I still don't get why aren't akshara and abhin open to the idea of sharing abhir with abhimanyu . Their perfect family will stay intact with abhim as abhirs father ..they can do that kind of arrangement or they r lacking this much brains also ?

People need to cut some slack for Abhinav. Since Muskaan's wedding he's going through multiple concerns that are coming at him one after another. He's a happy go lucky man despite not having any family of his own since beginning..But his fear and insecurities started growing once he got to know AbhiM is Abhir's biological father. Yes he did know Abhir's father is someone else but knowing the truth and experiencing it are two different things. He feels inferior infront of Manyu because of his education, financial status and big family name. He mustered up courage somehow for Abhir and tried to fight for him but his insecurities became true and Akshnav lost custody. He lost most precious relationship of his life. To be precise he lost the purpose of his life. Still he's trying to be strong as he needs to handle his wife who is emotionally broken and also be a responsible father for Abhir as court decided his future will be safe and secured with AbhiM.

Amidst all this he didn't even get time to express his own sorrow for losing Abhir. I hope makers will show his pov too on losing Abhir as they focused more on Navir bonding since leap. Even AK said Abhir can sleep without her but not without AbhiN. So all problems and pain at once is too much to handle. I hope makers focus on Abhinav mustering up courage and confidence to grow financially atleast for Abhir's sake. Don't know what they are cooking.

Anyways I'm checking this forum here and then and it's too much of negativity around here. I knew this forum is not for Abhinav admirers. So posting my opinion for 1st and last time.

Originally posted by: pranurosid

People need to cut some slack for Abhinav. Since Muskaan's wedding he's going through multiple concerns that are coming at him one after another. He's a happy go lucky man despite not having any family of his own since beginning..But his fear and insecurities started growing once he got to know AbhiM is Abhir's biological father. Yes he did know Abhir's father is someone else but knowing the truth and experiencing it are two different things. He feels inferior infront of Manyu because of his education, financial status and big family name. He mustered up courage somehow for Abhir and tried to fight for him but his insecurities became true and Akshnav lost custody. He lost most precious relationship of his life. To be precise he lost the purpose of his life. Still he's trying to be strong as he needs to handle his wife who is emotionally broken and also be a responsible father for Abhir as court decided his future will be safe and secured with AbhiM.

Amidst all this he didn't even get time to express his own sorrow for losing Abhir. I hope makers will show his pov too on losing Abhir as they focused more on Navir bonding since leap. Even AK said Abhir can sleep without her but not without AbhiN. So all problems and pain at once is too much to handle. I hope makers focus on Abhinav mustering up courage and confidence to grow financially atleast for Abhir's sake. Don't know what they are cooking.

Anyways I'm checking this forum here and then and it's too much of negativity around here. I knew this forum is not for Abhinav admirers. So posting my opinion for 1st and last time.

Who said so????

You have every right to express your opinion...this is an open public forum....not anyone 's personal property

Sometimes people are biased can't respect anyone's opinion....but that's their problem ...you need not stop posting for that ...I think many will agree with this ...right??