MyThoughts- Epi 979 - Page 2

Totally loved what u said about Abhinav! Ignore the negativity and keep posting !
Yes , he is a happy go lucky man who tries to understand and take everything with spirit!

He became papa knowing Ak will not give rights as wife,just for the sake of Abhir ! He kept Abhir’s happiness and necessities above everything ,even his basic needs.Though they both r married he never crossed any limits or even try to express his feelings until Akshara herself took the step towards him!

Once AbM entered into their lives he started crating ruckus in their lives! He demanding AbN to leave Ak and him shamelessly proposing Ak in the temple and then Abhir’s truth! He let AbM to stay in their house to spend time with Abhir! Then Mj shamelessly begging him to give Ak for her son! Then Ak,AbM hiding Abhir’s half truth! He still never blamed anyone except his kismat! If AbM is in his place he would scream ,cry and jump in anger! But AbN tried to understand and accept it as his fate!But then Ak and Abhir’s acceptance gave him the strength and hope ,he decided to never let go his happy family!

The funniest part AbM feeling connections with Abhir which he never had from last 6yrs! I don’t know what makers are trying to convey by this but looking fake n artificial! AbN is controlling his emotions and staying strong in front of Ak as it might break her further! I wish they stop this faux soul connections and make AbM try hard for Abhir’s acceptance! And also show Abhinav’s POV and his breakdown!

Originally posted by: pranurosid

People need to cut some slack for Abhinav. Since Muskaan's wedding he's going through multiple concerns that are coming at him one after another. He's a happy go lucky man despite not having any family of his own since beginning..But his fear and insecurities started growing once he got to know AbhiM is Abhir's biological father. Yes he did know Abhir's father is someone else but knowing the truth and experiencing it are two different things. He feels inferior infront of Manyu because of his education, financial status and big family name. He mustered up courage somehow for Abhir and tried to fight for him but his insecurities became true and Akshnav lost custody. He lost most precious relationship of his life. To be precise he lost the purpose of his life. Still he's trying to be strong as he needs to handle his wife who is emotionally broken and also be a responsible father for Abhir as court decided his future will be safe and secured with AbhiM.

Amidst all this he didn't even get time to express his own sorrow for losing Abhir. I hope makers will show his pov too on losing Abhir as they focused more on Navir bonding since leap. Even AK said Abhir can sleep without her but not without AbhiN. So all problems and pain at once is too much to handle. I hope makers focus on Abhinav mustering up courage and confidence to grow financially atleast for Abhir's sake. Don't know what they are cooking.

Anyways I'm checking this forum here and then and it's too much of negativity around here. I knew this forum is not for Abhinav admirers. So posting my opinion for 1st and last time.

There r so many Abhinav, Akshnav admirer. Aise hi thode na ladte hain. But I want my favorite ckt be strong. But the makers r not dealing rightly.

Entire episode I loved Ruhi was the best

Her little angelic eyes saw what no one else can see a vision of future

Abhir will not be happy without uncle and aunty and he will run away "

I think that is what going to happen@ poor child going to run away , hopefully Ruhi won't follow him too

Let the adults learn a lesson which will chaotic scenes another round of blame game will start both on screen and in the forum 🤣

Jokes apart Abhir look really sad , hope Msnjari is happy half of the mission accomplished

You are right , AbhiN must come out of the ever crying mode and do some thing more to earn better 🤣

Love alone is not enough either , there some thing called economy and finance too

Akshu gave the cold treatment to AbhiM, giving all Abhir's needs and she wrote down more about Abhir. It is actually as good as a tight slap , her son wi be always her son nothing in the world can change it , Eudipus complex is strong psychological trait , where son's connected Mom more and the moment some one reveals actually what happened to his Mom , he is going to dislike the people caused it,

It is a matter of time ...

I am strictly talking about characters not about actors they are doing their job. All actors are good the actress playing Manju Maa excels 🤣she really drives me mad , really doing fantastic acting

Originally posted by: pranurosid

People need to cut some slack for Abhinav. Since Muskaan's wedding he's going through multiple concerns that are coming at him one after another. He's a happy go lucky man despite not having any family of his own since beginning..But his fear and insecurities started growing once he got to know AbhiM is Abhir's biological father. Yes he did know Abhir's father is someone else but knowing the truth and experiencing it are two different things. He feels inferior infront of Manyu because of his education, financial status and big family name. He mustered up courage somehow for Abhir and tried to fight for him but his insecurities became true and Akshnav lost custody. He lost most precious relationship of his life. To be precise he lost the purpose of his life. Still he's trying to be strong as he needs to handle his wife who is emotionally broken and also be a responsible father for Abhir as court decided his future will be safe and secured with AbhiM.

Amidst all this he didn't even get time to express his own sorrow for losing Abhir. I hope makers will show his pov too on losing Abhir as they focused more on Navir bonding since leap. Even AK said Abhir can sleep without her but not without AbhiN. So all problems and pain at once is too much to handle. I hope makers focus on Abhinav mustering up courage and confidence to grow financially atleast for Abhir's sake. Don't know what they are cooking.

Anyways I'm checking this forum here and then and it's too much of negativity around here. I knew this forum is not for Abhinav admirers. So posting my opinion for 1st and last time.

I support Abhimanyu but I have enjoyed Abhinav too. I do not understand why one has to be shown weak to show the other’s strength. He was kind, stayed in his limits and remained grounded - he was proud of Abhir and felt happy on Abhir’s success because he never had any of that growing up but could do for him. Since he had been shown so down to earth and simple I didn’t like Abhinav feeling insecure because of Abhimanyu’s wealth.

I would have rather liked it if they had shown him just thinking that maybe Abhimanyu can provide a more comfortable life for Abhir because realistically he may not be acquire have that much wealth- so he is trying to step back thinking for Abhir’s future n comfort - and the judge’s words on same hit him hard. But the way his insecurities are shown don’t make sense because he hasn’t been shown to before to ever get jealous and has always accepted his own reality (also evident from how Abhir handles the other kids bullying him in camp n acknowledges that Abhinav taught him this). I agree with you that for Abhinav everything is getting too much to handle - it is Abhir because of whom he got a family, purpose and then love. I would have wanted to see both Abhimanyu and Abhinav’s insecurities as parents - like Abhimanyu felt that he may not have been able to explain things as nicely as Abhinav and similarly Abhinav feeling that I wouldn’t be able to give Abhir the education or material comforts which Abhimanyu can.. But showing him going into that self-pity mode, competing to prove himself better than Abhimanyu - in my view that was not in line with his character shown till then. But I have been disappointed with the way things are depicted for either of them and character arcs not maintained well! There were so many better ways to handle this track..

We liked Abhinav and still like him. But we are not blind, if his character needs to grow we have no problem in saying that. We need a change and twist and turn. It is the writers onus to take this forward. May be they are doing this purposely so that viewers start disliking and then he can make an exit.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

We liked Abhinav and still like him. But we are not blind, if his character needs to grow we have no problem in saying that. We need a change and twist and turn. It is the writers onus to take this forward. May be they are doing this purposely so that viewers start disliking and then he can make an exit.

Abhinav is great father it is not the money it is the love and being there for the child is needed he exces in it

Any one , even the most cruel person will love their on children , but to love some else's child as a part of your soul need a Great heart ,... that is what he has " A GOLDEN Heart " ...

He loves Abhir more than himself , for him Akshu and Abhir are his universe ! I admire the character a lot , we can't find people who selflessly love others easily!

I can make topics about that kind of love but lazy , it the " most precious kind of love"

Biological father and son are automatically connected but to love another person's child more than your self totally selfless , His love for Abhir is purest because he is connected to him with threads of most pious form of pure love ❤️

Yes that is it " most precious and pure love" 💖

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

We liked Abhinav and still like him. But we are not blind, if his character needs to grow we have no problem in saying that. We need a change and twist and turn. It is the writers onus to take this forward. May be they are doing this purposely so that viewers start disliking and then he can make an exit.

Yes. Pl we don't want to watch the same jaap over and over . Self victimization, self pity ..arre if he has a realization, work on it and try to be a better version of yourself ...abhir doesn't love him bec he is rich or poor. A child needs love and support which he has provided in plenty so why is he guilty ? A better scene would be that they accept abhimanyu as abhir father as he will also do his best ..he's the father after all.. they should've done it long ago but mummy ne beech mei aake vomit kardi ke akshara bhi do abhir ke saath

Abhinav is idiot to give up so easily

Akshara is dumb to not reveal entire truth to Abhir and break his heart.

But look at mahapurush Abhimanyu ji and his Mata ji, how they are proving daily how selfish one can be. He plays victim card but never takes responsibility for his own actions.

If only Akshnav are little strong and selfish like santh Abhimanyu ji and Manajari ji , this situation will not arise

While I agree with a lot of the points about AbhiN needs to come out of rona dhona mode and set some goals for himself, I also think it’s a little early to expect a change in him. We haven’t been shown his POV yet. AKs pain and AbHiMs happiness has taken the priority over AbhiNs pov. Im hoping that it will hit him soon and he’ll realize that he has lost the most precious person in his life too. Right now he just wants to be there for Ak and support her as much as he can. I think Ak in her pain hasn’t realized that AbhiN is also going through the same pain. Same loss. I’m hoping that she will and they both will have a moment to completely let each other fall apart and then rise up again. I’m hoping they will have a meaningful conversation about all this and motivate each other towards their growth and fight back to get their son back! 🤞🏼

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

BP and his AbhiM delusions: When MJ said AbhiM- AK- Abhir are perfect family, BP said, AbhiM can never think like that. What BP does not know is the son whom he loves more than KV has thought about it, before MJ. Then even Abhir was not part of his perfect family (tab woh blood- pendant- soul connection nahi tha). He wanted AK to abandon her little son.

Even yesterday, BP said, AbhiM would agree but MJ will not. Again he is hugely mistaken. AbhiM's obsession is the real motivation behind MJ's vile acts. MJ just wants her son to be happy. If AbhiM would have found his happiness with AR and Ruhi, there were less chances that she would hv gone to this extent for Abhir's custody. MJ said in the court, 'Jabse abhirke bare mei pata chala hai, mera beta tadap raha hai'. So, AbhiM's obsessive tadapana is the moivation. I so much want AbhiM's temple and hospital confession to get revealed to everyone who think AbhiM is a saint who gets manipulated by MJ, as both these things he did against MJ's wish then. BP compared AK- AbhiN' s agnipariksha, with AbhiM- Abhir agnipariska. How one can compare the two? AbhiM is himself the destructibe fire, who burnt the innocent Abhir's heart to ashes.

Beautiful scenes:

1. When Abhir leaves the room, he imagines AK- AbhiN coming to stop him and pleading him not to go. Please watch this scene keenly. AK- AbhiN act a little kid- like and not as mature adults, as they are doing it in Abhir, the kid's imagination.

2. AbhiN's pain while waving goodbye to Abhir were also beautifully executed by JS.

AbhiN vs AK: I was right. AbhiN let go of his father's rights in just one go. He gave it to AbhiM.TBH, I was very disappointed with AbhiN's "Aaj se aap Abhirke pita hue' dialogue. Who he is to give the right? Abhir has the right to decide who his father is. Abhir had chosen you. It was Abhir calming in your arms that made AK take the decision that she did. For me you just disrespected the little soul.

However, I am happy atleast he aknowledged that he was good father. Else, he is good at nothing as per him.

Unlike him, AK told AbhiM, 'Baap ho, Papa bananeki koshish karna'. That is what right attitude is. AbhiM has to earn it and not given.

I felt bad for AK to some extent. Yes, unlike before, she now has a partner, who is standing by her side, sharing her grief, and that is wonderful, but will he be able to share her burden in future with this letting go attitude? Yeh banda toh apani Biwi tak AbhiMko dede saying ' Mei ek mamuli driver hoon...' Can you please grow some spine for son and wife's sake please?

If you do not fight back in upcoming track, I would like you to go back to Kasauli alone, drive the only taxi that you have and do the "Mei toh ek driver hoon" jaap for rest of your life.

Fixed mindset vs growth mindset: AbhiN has a fixed mindset. Once a driver, always driver. Once a badnaseeb, always a badnadseb. Once undeserving, always undeserving. Once AbhiN had said to Surekha, I wll do the work I m good at, I am comfrtabl with.Now, it does not evoke any sympathy but it is getting irritating.

Even after loosing the most precious thing of his life, he did not reflect on it as of yet. He did not realize that him doing good to people, not taking money from them did not help him win Abhir's case. There is a thin line between being good and being dumb. There are many occasions where AbhiN has shown that he is not dumb. He can play smart if required. He got AK out of police station due a smart act, then why not use it for your son's sake?

Agar AK bachhe ke liye lawyer ban sakati hai, than why AbhiN can't think in similar ways? I do not want him to become rich. I am not irked by his condition either, but by his attitude. Him letting go AK was the right thing as she showed signs that she has not moved on and that was right thing to do. But, now letting go Abhir when he does not want to, not working on financial condition when court said that it is primary reason for loosing custody, will be outright looser attitude. He will also be breaking the promise that he has made to his son Abhir that he will never leave him.

I want AK/AR/Surekha chachi or Abhir to sunaofy him someday. Now, AK considers herself his wife, so she is no more in a gratitudewala relationship with him. She has all the haq to tell him that due to his attitude he will fail fulfilling the promises that he has made to her and Abhir. His attitude will show that he did not love Abhir as much as he said as he will contribute to Abhir's pain.

AbhiM: The way AbhiM left Birla house, he looked more kiddish that Abhir. Ab pata chalega, sperm donor hona alag baat hai or Papa banana alag. The story can go either way. Abhir redeeming AbhiM or Abhir hating AbhiM. I always wished redemption of AbhiM, but after the custody track, the pain AbhiM has caused to three pure souls, I want Abhir to hate him to the core. I want AK to move to Birla house. Then I want Abhir to witness how his RWP treats his Mamma.

Hamare mamuli driver sahab toh bhej hi denge use Birla house.

Ruhi: Ruhi has completely moved on from AbhiM. I anticipate she saying to AbhiM that you are Abhir's papa, so no need to be my papa. I am more happy being Abhir's sister and his well- wisher.

MJ: AR is just few steps away from becoming AK. Looking at MJ's anger, I see her being kicked out of Birla house pretty soon, by AbhiM.

Abhir, tufaan: Birla house mei tehelka macha dena. Some people are saying they want this separation track to end soon. I don't want that. I want my Kasauli waala Maradona footballer Abhir back. Making everyone's life hell. It will be so much fun to watch MJ, AbhiM running pillar to post while managing him. AbhiMko एक बार police station भेजा था , अब भेजेगा तो फिर 'तेरी दिदाका खुनी प्यार देखानेको मिलेगा. AK had said, ' Jaise tufani rat mei mere pas aya tha, waise tufaan macha dena'

Abhir k samne ak ko buri tarah se treat koi nhi kar sakta hei if they does then abhir won't leave.