A strong woman threatens the hypocrites - Page 3

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yep! Sai is not only constantly having to fend herself against insults and accusations, but she's also dealing with her own confusion over her importance in virat's life. There's far more on her plate, especially considering she's also trying to complete her education whilst managing all this emotional turmoil. Her every actions and words scream insecure, but virat toh is only concerned that sai no matter what admits that she loves him else he will ignore her and move away, he doesn't seems to care that she's confused or insecure, just he needs her admission. No matter what a third person says, for a married person it is always the words from their spouse's mouth only that can given them the assurance about what position they hold in their spouse's life. Yes I wish sai would at least doubt that maybe virat does have feelings for her, but given her already existing doubts and insecurities now coupled with virat's distant and indifferent behaviour with her, she is all the more full of doubt that he considers her as his wife.

Why should she believe the third person when he lets a particular third person interfere in his marriage to Sai and also abuse her... I dont think any wife would be fine with being attacked by husband's ex with husband being quiet or sometimes even supporting her.. Infact Sai initially tried to put Pakhi in her place by asking her to not interfere but she was hardly supported by her husband and in case they were having a fight she was rather gaslighted...

Originally posted by: sammy17

The fact that virat knows sai questions his friendship with pakhi and wants so desperately to know what he and pakhi talked about is because she doesn't like his closeness with pakhi, yet refuses to clear her doubts by just being honest makes it stupid for virat to complain why sai doesn't admit her feelings for him. Dude, why will she admit to her feelings when you know she herself is so full of doubts about your relationship with your bestie/ ex and that you avoid answering her questions properly that could clear those doubts of hers? He himself calls sai bachchi and immature, but why does he acts so naive and innocent himself as if he can't see why sai keeps questioning him about pakhi? Then again when he can't even seem to see pakhi's hatred for sai when pakhi's behaviour towards sai is out in the open, how can we even expect him to acknowledge sai's insecurities even if sai's questions scream insecure and jealous.

When Virat was the one who told Sai that she can move out of marriage after completing her studies if she wants, why can't he say it openly and crystal clealy now what he wants? Let Sai decide when the ball is in her court, but why she is expected to snatch the ball and decide it?

Coming to why she returns back to his house, she was stopped each time from moving out. Now this time she clearly stated, she can't go when she requested Samrat to stay back. Moreover Virat disclosed that he said the cafe incident just that she won't leave the house. Why he want her to stay back and give send off for him?

Moreover I don't like the ways of Shivani and Sunny literally preaching Sai. Shivani learned nothing from Amey track and even flirted AJ. No understanding for her and she teaching Sai🤪

Coming to Sunny, really is Virat satellite and Sunny monitoring from control room. Always says where Virat's heart moves each time. First, he told you love Pakhi, Virat said yes, then he said, you love Sai he again said yes. What if he says you love someone else layer, will Virat say yes again? How can Sai trust Sunny words in such scenario?

Now each episode seems to be standalone with no connectivity in their thought process. Sadly, none of our points crosses the so-called creative heads

OMG, is it me who wrote this much. I don't know why I have a strong make and break bond with ghum🤪

Originally posted by: vimeo

EHT was another show which I liked. That was one strong willed woman. I loved both the protagonist and the antagonist. Both women. In fact I loved the antagonist more. Sakshi Goenka was one hell of a sophisticated lady. I loved her character, her acting, her persona her everything. I call her a strategist! Not Sai. She is just rude, brash and arrogant. I am actually ok with women being manipulative. I have come to realise (though lately, even in real life) that you need to manipulate - be it ur husband or in-laws in order to survive. You can call it politics, manipulation or strategy. All the same. Just sophisticated words. But Sais no where there..

Thx 🤗

There r plenty of examples ..sonakshi..Akshara..every girl endures indifference , dislike by her in laws at some stage of Marriage ..but having a sense of right and wrong is imp..I can't recall all names right now. Girls are allowed to be impulsive, egoistic , manipulative , arrogant , brash, selfish too. Whats wrong with that ? Every person is different..everyone is flawed..

Of late , this web series by ekta k..kehne ko humsafar hai defined today's women perfectly . the other woman, The wife, the mother,the daughters ..the portrayal was very realistic.. I just saw 2 seasons n I believe they defined strong women ..

This doesn't mean i don't appreciate sai.. I love her character with her flaws...virat is far worse. But it's not a one sided story here..

What I don't understand is even if a person loves the other but feels there is no future due to their own reasons and decides not to pursue it then their partner should respect it.

Maybe Sai feels that she does not want to be with a man who does not respect her deserves her love.

Life needs respect and communication apart from love

It is still Sai right to decide not what others think and feel.

Love and respect is earned .

Again above is my perspective

Originally posted by: Ramyalaxmi

Well said. 👍🏼

When Virat was the one who told Sai that she can move out of marriage after completing her studies if she wants, why can't he say it openly and crystal clealy now what he wants? Let Sai decide when the ball is in her court, but why she is expected to snatch the ball and decide it?

Coming to why she returns back to his house, she was stopped each time from moving out. Now this time she clearly stated, she can't go when she requested Samrat to stay back. Moreover Virat disclosed that he said the cafe incident just that she won't leave the house. Why he want her to stay back and give send off for him?

Moreover I don't like the ways of Shivani and Sunny literally preaching Sai. Shivani learned nothing from Amey track and even flirted AJ. No understanding for her and she teaching Sai🤪

Coming to Sunny, really is Virat satellite and Sunny monitoring from control room. Always says where Virat's heart moves each time. First, he told you love Pakhi, Virat said yes, then he said, you love Sai he again said yes. What if he says you love someone else layer, will Virat say yes again? How can Sai trust Sunny words in such scenario?

Now each episode seems to be standalone with no connectivity in their thought process. Sadly, none of our points crosses the so-called creative heads

OMG, is it me who wrote this much. I don't know why I have a strong make and break bond with ghum🤪

@Bold- Nah! I've written essays in comparison 😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Why should she believe the third person when he lets a particular third person interfere in his marriage to Sai and also abuse her... I dont think any wife would be fine with being attacked by husband's ex with husband being quiet or sometimes even supporting her.. Infact Sai initially tried to put Pakhi in her place by asking her to not interfere but she was hardly supported by her husband and in case they were having a fight she was rather gaslighted...

Yeah! Pakhi too like rest of chavans started attacking sai the moment they realised this girl is not one to keep quiet and put up with their attitude, that's why pakhi started becoming malicious towards sai after sai started calling out pakhi for her repetitive habit of running into her and virat's bedroom without knocking and interfering whenever virat and sai were talking or arguing.

Originally posted by: sammy17

It's not really hypocrisy on sai's part. It's pure confusion. Girl know she doesn't like seeing pakhi with virat. I'm damn sure somewhere she knows why, but she fears to admit it to herself. The moment she admits to herself that virat-pakhi do bother her instead of her current denial then she'll be forced to question her feelings for virat. But I'm starting to give up, because these writers seem only interested in dragging out sai's realisation, that's why they are prolonging it by showing sai keep repeating the same dialogues about deal marriage in every episode. There's no natural progression that writers want to show, instead just one random episode they'll finally show sai confessing to him she loves him, without there being no prior episodes where sai to herself realises she is in love with virat but scared of rejection.

This post was about Sai and her strengths ..if we wanna do virat murdabad, which I didn't wanna do as we will be digressing , ok I will do it but just once.. lemme tell you I have zero sympathy for virat. Call him whatever , it doesn't affect me. I like sai so I judge her..

This isn't convincing to me as a viewer ...her confusion etc ..let me tell you , I am not waiting for her confession either...I give two hoots.. I want clarity on why sai acts like virats wife when she pleases and becomes like a deal wife as per convenience ..as a bahu ,anyways her actions never make sense to me...forcefully getting the family to watch her function...forcefully taking care of virat ..I won't go there..

If as virats wife she stopped his transfer its OK. But not as someone who wanted virat to be with his family..she had no right..if she was confused just let him go , let him have his space..

If as virats wife and his love, she wants clarity on pakhi and virat relation, I am fine with it..but as a deal wife who is indecisive about whether or not to love her husband , based on whether she can trust virat , I find it stupid...she is sitting on the edge waiting for something or someone to tell her that pakhi virat is over and it's virat sai now.. this is not love.

If as a wife she felt angry, frustrated and jealous in the Cafe when she saw virat holding hands , fine..but if she is his deal wife, she shouldn't be affected by it. virat also acted crazily but at least there was clarity in his actions. Sai wants to know the reason why virat was holding pakhis hand ? What for? Either she can choose to trust virat or not trust him. if she trusts him, she shouldn't ask this questions, if she doesn't, no amount of reasoning would be enuf ..If she loves him, pakhi ho ya khakhi, it shouldn't matter. Waiting to confess? Arre pyar toh ho hi gaya na , woh kaise hua with a guy who in her mind loves another woman?

Everyone has a choice to take it or leave it. They can't have it both ways.

Originally posted by: _charu_

This is not convincing enuf to me as a viewer. This post was about Sai and her strengths ..if we wanna do virat murdabad, which I didn't wanna do as we will be digressing , ok I will do it but just once.. lemme tell you I have zero sympathy for virat. Call him whatever , it doesn't affect me. I like sai so I judge her..

This isn't convincing to me ...her confusion etc ..let me tell you , I am not waiting for her confession either...I give two hoots.. I want clarity on why sai acts like virats wife when she pleases and becomes like a deal wife as per convenience ..as a bahu ,anyways her actions never make sense to me...forcefully getting the family to watch her function...forcefully taking care of virat ..I won't go there..

If as virats wife she stopped his transfer its OK. But not as someone who wanted virat to be with his family..she had no right..if she was confused just let him go , let him have his space..

If as virats wife and his love, she wants clarity on pakhi and virat relation, I am fine with it..but as a deal wife who is indecisive about whether or not to love her husband , based on whether she can trust virat , I find it stupid...she is sitting on the edge waiting for something or someone to tell her that pakhi virat is over and it's virat sai now.. this is not love.

If as a wife she felt angry, frustrated and jealous in the Cafe when she saw virat holding hands , fine..but if she is his deal wife, she shouldn't be affected by it. virat also acted crazily but at least there was clarity in his actions. Sai wants to know the reason why virat was holding pakhis hand ? What for? Either she can choose to trust virat or not trust him. if she trusts him, she shouldn't ask this questions, if she doesn't, no amount of reasoning would be enuf ..If she loves him, pakhi ho ya khakhi, it shouldn't matter.

Everyone has a choice to take it or leave it. They can't have it both ways.

It is her subconscious mind which is making her do these. Virat took the oath during the wedding and also informed Sai that he did give all the vaadas but he can only take her responsibility. That was because subconsciously he knew that he can’t take fake oaths and was respecting their marriage. The next minute, he was telling Pakhi that she was very special to him and he loves her.

He could see Pakhi at the start of the wedding but only Sai while filling the maang. The subconscious mind kept making him do the right things.

He kept clarifying to Pakhi about Sai later too but he didn’t want to let go of Sai when she said she wanted to move to hostel. He kept calling her zimmedari but didn’t want her to go GC to get money from her Dad’s account. He couldn’t name it love but instead thought that he had got habituated to her. He didn’t know why he acted crazy when Sai spoke to Amay or Aniket but even on the Alta day when Sai was asleep and he was about to wake her up, he was wondering why should it matter to him if she admires Aniket. He had warned the guy in college and grew mad at Sai but couldn’t even accept that he was jealous. He was even then trying to deny that it doesn’t matter to him or doesn’t affect him. But the same day, he wanted to know if Sai loves him while applying medicine on her feet.

This is exactly what Sai has also been doing. She acts like a wife, a lover, a jealous woman but also is confused, in denial, doesn’t want to accept that it affects her when he goes on transfer or when he is with Pakhi but the truth is not that.

She has also wanted to know from him why he does a certain things, she has also told him that he confuses her. Just like how he wanted to hear from her if she cannot or doesn’t love him, she also wants to hear that. Virat didn’t even have an obstacle of another person in between them, in fact it was him who had made this deal and asked her not to expect anything from him as a husband and yet he couldn’t accept that he had feelings for her for a long time.

Sai was told not to expect anything from him and also there is someone named Pakhi between her, which is why it is going to be an even more difficult thing for Sai to accept or admit to herself that she loves Virat. Her denial will be even more stronger than his. But at the same time, she will be acting like his wife subconsciously.

Originally posted by: sammy17

@Bold- Nah! I've written essays in comparison 😆

Originally posted by: oblivious_soul

She is strong for me irrespective of what she decides to do. She has endured and stood strong all this while at a tender age. I hold the opinion she should leave as soon as possible. That alone doesn't define the criteria of being strong.

Sorry I didn't understand what were we cheering sai for..becoming ashwini part 2 ? Coz in the case of sai, if quitting isn't the best option then she is choosing to live her life exactly like ashwini. Criterias r too many. ..for me ashwini is also a strong woman.