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Posted: 4 years ago
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I guess we should keep telling this to dj production house .if they believe that there is still a audience who wants a season 2 maybe they can work around it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I would say makers messed up story big time... They should have introduced all of these tracks much much earlier than today!


It was so much needed and this was central to the show. DJs shouldn't have divulge completely into falling in love and then boom bring it back on track.. Rather it should have been parallel.. Where Anokhi would fall/falls deeper with every step Shaurya takes. And so does Shaurya who helps her grow.


With key tracks coming towards end, is not going to be more than rushed wrap up. I sincerely hope they do show Season 2 and given makers did consider shifting to OTT, but budget constraints couldn't be adjusted outright was an issue.. We will get it after hiatus or something.. Or show the show completely revamp dealing with major issues on different channel... Atleast real biases and focus will be addressed.

Thy messed up sometimes , while sometimes they managed to balance...my problem with the story was


Shaurya being a misogynist. He was called a modern day misogynist but I sincerely don't see that in his personality. He has anger issues and some insecurities which can be addressed and sorted out...I see that he majorly respects women , not just in his family, but he has been good to anokhis family (babli) as well as his students . Isn't it ironic that he is a professor ..his own sisters r studying economics frm him 😆 Why is he teaching them ? So that after marriage they are able to do dhobi ka hisaab properly and buy vegetables and manage the house ,probably teach their children further ? Obviously the whole purpose of educating the girls is to make them independent , so that they have equal opportunities as men and r able to choose for themselves. This is what makes everyone happy right ?



Infact the whole family crying out sabarwal khandan ki bahu aisi vaisi sounds so hypocrite and stupid, given their profession. Plus thy want shagun for shaurya , who is working too ..anything related to shagun is stupid



It's very simple logic why he was against working women...he faced some problems which he doesn't want his children to face.. His expectation of his wife being able to look after the children and being there for them is very much justified Imo. It's very personal but I believe if a working couple plans a child they must work out beforehand how they will manage the house , child and jobs. It's not necessary that women must sacrifice their career and job . Men can do it .they must be able to manage , not leave the kids to maids ..or not have the kids at all...in india we r lagging behind on the societal issues ...we must move ahead to giving freedom to our children to decide If they wannt marry or not and have kids or not..its sad we r still stuck onto "how to manage job with house / In laws " , how to deal with unsupportive in laws, how to adjust in joint families..I would never want my daughter to go through all this.



Love story was ok..love ka logic toh hota nai, nor is there any reason to fall for someone..their chemistry is cool....these r the real issues.post marriage .....I wish it was more between shaurya anokhi and not the sabarwals. Sabarwals se faltu ka saas bahu drama hi hota hai n the real topic is ignored.



There is a lot to be explored ,if they don't take the usual vamps creating nonsensical misunderstandings and shaurya mu anokhi and later Getting some proofs of her innocence..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: anuprem

Anokhi can manage her studies, job and other responsibilities if Shaurya supports and helps her. Shaurya has to understand this. He keeps talking as if it is only Anokhi's responsibility to balance everything. As her husband he is also responsible. That will be the actual support he would be giving to Anokhi for pursuing her dreams. First he has to understand that his BM is troubling Anokhi.

Shaurya had arranged this surprise marriage just before her final exams and then expecting her to manage everything. He is not happy with what is happening and his insecurities are building up. Hope Shaan or Aastha have a talk with him and make him realize what Anokhi is going through and how BM is troubling her.

Shaurya also needs to understand the actual reason for his parents marriage failure. He should know that if only Shaan had supported Aastha they could have lived together as a happy family. Initially Aastha gave up her career for her marriage but later when she had to work to support her parents she did not get any support from Shaan. That is the reason she had to walk out. Shaurya should understand this.

Once the issues with BM are solved or if ShaKhi move out they may not have any major problems. Actual clashes will start again when they have a child. I really hope we get a season 2 with a short leap where we can see Anokhi as a career woman and having a child and the problems that ShaKhi are facing.

This he can do only to a limit..let's be practical ..a man interfering in kitchen politics lead to more conflicts. He can take a stand for anokhi , but he has limited power over his bm and bade papa. Obviously the best solution is to move out ..but in that case also anokhi will be blamed for separating him with his family..when a man is so much into his family as shaurya , it won't be easy for him..anokhi wouldn't want that ..he doesn't see his bm and papa as we see them..



yesterday anokhi announced her teaching assistant job.. how can shaurya take a stand for her when he wasn't even consulted ? He can be there for her in most issues but not every minute..but yes , shauryas support is utmost important ,only then anokhi can fight the rest..I agree , he needs to learn why aastha left the house ..he needs to have more conversations with aastha and Shaan both..



Also, he needs some reality check ...he knew his family doesn't like anokhi yet he emotionally blackmailed them.. now if he expects they will love her , no..it may never happen. Let him face the heat ,I like it 😆

Edited by _charu_ - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZaaraBB

Res! So happy to see you here. Been loving your post since naitik akshara times!!


You've pinned every thing so nicely!! I have so much to say!!

Naitik Akshara was ages ago 😃Oh kya time tha wo bhi ❤️ but seriously..its a great compliment ..u remember me ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Balancing husband, children, family, career is one thing and dealing with toxic in-laws is another thing. Little adjustment problems crop up in every sasural but these Sabharwals try to deliberately create problems for Anokhi. They least care about Shaurya's happiness. Living with them is like inviting troubles for yourself. That is why Shaurya should at least realise that expecting Anokhi to survive in that toxic household will be too much of a burden for her. I want them to move out. One of the reasons is that I want Tejvi clan to pay for destroying Shaan's family.

Moving out doesn't mean breaking all ties. It also doesn't mean all the problems between the couple will be resolved. They will have problems because of their different personalities, different expectations.

Astha and Anokhi's situations are quite different. Her parents were involved and she didn't want to make any compromises in that matter. We have very little insight into what exactly happened in the past. We don't know the extent of Shaan's support if there was any support at all. Did he ever ask her to come back and they will together find a way out? I doubt. Because in the beginning itself he made her quit her job. Also, Aastha tries to avoid conflict especially in cases where Shaurya is involved. She can be quite strong and resilient in other matters. The reasons couples move apart can be many and not every time it means that they are quitting because they can't cope.

As for satisfaction, it is women who are conditioned in a way that if they are unable to do much for their own family and children, they are made to feel incomplete. There have been many examples of men, some famous ones who had to overlook their own family for a greater cause. I doubt they ended up feeling unsatisfied with the life they led. Like you have said, Anokhi wants both career and family. So she will have to make little bit of compromises in both the areas. Will she be able to shelter a girl who ran away from her family in her house and then drive her to the railway station in the middle of the night and risk her own reputation and that of Sabharwal family? Well, an ITV FL can do everything.

I don't want this show's message to be that where Aastha failed Anokhi will succeed because she is stronger but instead patriarchy can be harmful for both men and women and men should also take a stand against it. Shaurya should realise it and rebel against his deeply misogynistic family when he sees them coming in the way of Anokhi's dreams. He should see how he never had to struggle to have a career of his choice but Anokhi is having to because his family is holding her back.

😆Dealing with toxic in laws who hold the key to their son is a problem of lifetime...



I loved what u said ..moving out doesn't mean breaking ties..I hope they actually do it , shaurya has rhe courage to do it for anokhi...🥰



As for aastha ..aastha is my fav character.. I dont judge her for what she did..what I love abt her is that whatever choices she made , good or bad , right or wrong, she stood by it and never regretted it..she owns it..she left shaurya but she never became that emotional mother who would turn crazy ..(except for once when she disappeared ..there I felt disconnected to her ) , she knew there r lots of ppl there for shaurya n he will learn ....shaurya anokhi dynamics is diff from aastha Shaan. I would still like shaurya anokhi to move out , not anokhi alone ..



very right 👏

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

This he can do only to a limit..let's be practical ..a man interfering in kitchen politics lead to more conflicts. He can take a stand for anokhi , but he has limited power over his bm and bade papa. Obviously the best solution is to move out ..but in that case also anokhi will be blamed for separating him with his family..when a man is so much into his family as shaurya , it won't be easy for him..anokhi wouldn't want that ..he doesn't see his bm and papa and we see them..



yesterday anokhi announced her teaching assistant job.. how can shaurya take a stand for her when he wasn't even consulted ? He can be there for her in most issues but not every minute..but yes , shauryas support is utmost important ,only then anokhi can fight the rest..I agree , he needs to learn why aastha left the house ..he needs to have more conversations with aastha and Shaan both..



Also, he needs some reality check ...he knew his family doesn't like anokhi yet he emotionally blackmailed them.. now if he expects they will love her , no..it may never happen. Let him face the heat ,I like it 😆

For a woman to balance both home and career she needs help either from her in laws or her husband. It is practically not possible for any woman to manage everything on her own. And I personally didn't like Shaurya talking about Anokhi managing all responsibilities. Responsibilities need to be shared. This is my personal opinion. They both need to sit and discuss about how things can be worked out. When I am talking about help it is not only the kitchen work that I am talking about.

And Anokhi is also at fault. In one of my posts yesterday I had mentioned that Anokhi was wrong to make the announcement to BM directly. Even if she had applied for the job before marriage she should have had a discussion with Shaurya before announcing. Shaurya's reaction would have been different if she had discussed with him first. And today morning Anokhi should have politely refused to BM for doing the extra work and left the house when it was getting late for her meeting.

This is what I expected to happen after their wedding. I am sure soon both will learn the real intention of their toxic family and will handle them or best leave the Saberwal house along with Shaan.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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After everything I just hope that the makers keep some ends loose so that there is a scope for season 2 .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why only women are made to feel like they have to choose between a career and a family?

Also how is Aastha wrong? Personal dignity and self-respect lies above everything. Why would one want to live where there is no respect for them?

I am glad she left and lived a better life than living like kanchan or gayatri.

No woman should be guilted to tolerate awful behaviour ffs

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Posted: 4 years ago
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i think star plus pressurised them into changing the storyline way too much ....the falling in love phase from anokhi's side was rushed and they just rushed into confession..and then the goa track was a nightmare

khalid and kv getting COVID also affected the story...

still it will remain the best ITV show i ever watched❤️ i wish it comes back with season 2

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anokhi should stop harping about her dreams all the time. First build a good relationship with your husband whom she knows has had a difficult childhood and has a toxic family.

Shaurya should come out of this dream state that everything is fine at SM. He seems to forget that during the rasoi rasam, the elders pointed that she does not have the qualities of a Sabherwal bahu.

He seems to forget that BM blackmailed him to get engaged to Shagun.

Shaurya has never supported Anokhi when faced with his family.

During the birthday he stayed mum when BM announced his engagement. What type of a man is that?

For him Anokhi is a junoon.

He needs to lose Anokhi and then see how his family react, by forcing him to marry Shagun.

Marriage requires compromise and support from both side.

Saying Anokhi is eligible for a job, is not support, it is common sense. The true support comes when your wife of a few days is being forced to be the servant of the house the day she has an orientation, and you leave her at home, when you should have brought her along.

Shaurya is doing full justice to his character, I must say.

Anokhi is starting to grate on my nerves.

My take on today's episode.

But I will watch it to see how they tackle all these issues!😉

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