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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Why only women are made to feel like they have to choose between a career and a family?

Also how is Aastha wrong? Personal dignity and self-respect lies above everything. Why would one want to live where there is no respect for them?

I am glad she left and lived a better life than living like kanchan or gayatri.

No woman should be guilted to tolerate awful behaviour ffs

Fully agree, especially when you think she did that 25 years ago, with all the taboo of women who are separated from their husband. I like her dignity. She can care for Shaan, but Shaan is too weak a character for her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80

Why only women are made to feel like they have to choose between a career and a family?

Also how is Aastha wrong? Personal dignity and self-respect lies above everything. Why would one want to live where there is no respect for them?

I am glad she left and lived a better life than living like kanchan or gayatri.

No woman should be guilted to tolerate awful behaviour ffs


Writers made Astha wrong by making her say that she never had 'courage' like Anokhi to face Saberwals. They have been highlighting difference between ShaKhi and Shaan Astha for long time to prove why ShaKhi will survive and ShaStha couldn't 😆


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly as per todays epi and the way the track is going they can leave some ends loose so that they can get season 2 🙄😝 if they bring season 2 I am ok with seperation track

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahsb_26


Writers made Astha wrong by making her say that she never had 'courage' like Anokhi to face Saberwals. They have been highlighting difference between ShaKhi and Shaan Astha for long time to prove why ShaKhi will survive and ShaStha couldn't 😆


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Ha ha. That is my biggest dukh. If they showed her weak from the beginning then it was fine. But starting me itna strong dikhaya. How she went all out for Anokhi, never ever giving in to the threats and pressure of Bhallas. Even tackled Sabharwals and Vineet. Goli bhi ka li. She was the one who encouraged Anokhi when the latter fell weak. She managed all the challenges she faced as a single separated woman for twenty five years on her own, never ever asking Shaan for any help. She is such an admirable inspiring character. Now when they made her say she didn't have the himmat to face the phattu Sabharwals, it really disappointed me. Is tackling toxic in-laws the biggest goal of a woman's life? Specially when the husband is so unsupportive. It is good that she didn't waste her time on them and rather used it in contributing to the country's GDP 😆 and helping her students grow.

Yes, she made some wrong decisions because of which Shaurya had to suffer. She could have appealed for a joint custody and if not that, at least visiting rights. But Shaan and Sabharwals played a bigger role in ruining his childhood. He could not support Aastha because of his loyalty to Tej but at least he could have tried to become a good father, given him more time and explained why his mother had to leave. He let the Devi poison him against his mother. And the Sabharwals, they snatched away Shaurya from his mother for their own selfish ego and made him feel indebted for that. If they show them changing by the end, it would be difficult to digest. They should be shown to suffer for their misdeeds. Shaurya leaving them would be the best punishment for them. When Anokhi can stay away from her family, why can't Shaurya? Usko kya BM ke haat ke khaane ke alawa aur kuch hajam nahi hota?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Ha ha. That is my biggest dukh. If they showed her weak from the beginning then it was fine. But starting me itna strong dikhaya. How she went all out for Anokhi, never ever giving in to the threats and pressure of Bhallas. Even tackled Sabharwals and Vineet. Goli bhi ka li. She was the one who encouraged Anokhi when the latter fell weak. She managed all the challenges she faced as a single separated woman for twenty five years on her own, never ever asking Shaan for any help. She is such an admirable inspiring character. Now when they made her say she didn't have the himmat to face the phattu Sabharwals, it really disappointed me. Is tackling toxic in-laws the biggest goal of a woman's life? Specially when the husband is so unsupportive. It is good that she didn't waste her time on them and rather used it in contributing to the country's GDP 😆 and helping her students grow.

Yes, she made some wrong decisions because of which Shaurya had to suffer. She could have appealed for a joint custody and if not that, at least visiting rights. But Shaan and Sabharwals played a bigger role in ruining his childhood. He could not support Aastha because of his loyalty to Tej but at least he could have tried to become a good father, given him more time and explained why his mother had to leave. He let the Devi poison him against his mother. And the Sabharwals, they snatched away Shaurya from his mother for their own selfish ego and made him feel indebted for that. If they show them changing by the end, it would be difficult to digest. They should be shown to suffer for their misdeeds. Shaurya leaving them would be the best punishment for them. When Anokhi can stay away from her family, why can't Shaurya? Usko kya BM ke haat ke khaane ke alawa aur kuch hajam nahi hota?


Astha being one of the best characters when show had begin. She was strong, she was directed and knew what she was doing.


I still wonder if they will ever bring this in front of Shaurya that Saberwals have been main toxic because somewhere makers too have started showing Astha was at fault... She claimed she tried to meet Shaurya even when Saberwals did not make that happen had suddenly changed to mere paas himmat nai thi usse milne ki... In Goa..


They totally ruined Astha's character from the time Raja had almost killed her... It was sad that while falling all she thought of was Shaurya and Shaan.. And from that point on they made her weaker one... She could have word fight with Devi but couldn't do anything more..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Ha ha. That is my biggest dukh. If they showed her weak from the beginning then it was fine. But starting me itna strong dikhaya. How she went all out for Anokhi, never ever giving in to the threats and pressure of Bhallas. Even tackled Sabharwals and Vineet. Goli bhi ka li. She was the one who encouraged Anokhi when the latter fell weak. She managed all the challenges she faced as a single separated woman for twenty five years on her own, never ever asking Shaan for any help. She is such an admirable inspiring character. Now when they made her say she didn't have the himmat to face the phattu Sabharwals, it really disappointed me. Is tackling toxic in-laws the biggest goal of a woman's life? Specially when the husband is so unsupportive. It is good that she didn't waste her time on them and rather used it in contributing to the country's GDP 😆 and helping her students grow.

Yes, she made some wrong decisions because of which Shaurya had to suffer. She could have appealed for a joint custody and if not that, at least visiting rights. But Shaan and Sabharwals played a bigger role in ruining his childhood. He could not support Aastha because of his loyalty to Tej but at least he could have tried to become a good father, given him more time and explained why his mother had to leave. He let the Devi poison him against his mother. And the Sabharwals, they snatched away Shaurya from his mother for their own selfish ego and made him feel indebted for that. If they show them changing by the end, it would be difficult to digest. They should be shown to suffer for their misdeeds. Shaurya leaving them would be the best punishment for them. When Anokhi can stay away from her family, why can't Shaurya? Usko kya BM ke haat ke khaane ke alawa aur kuch hajam nahi hota?

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Well said.

Concerning the point of Asthaa, I believed she meant she admires the patience that Anokhi has and maybe she said that keeping in mind she was not strong enough to fight for Shaurya.

Other than that, I love her independence, and today's episode was very good to watch, how Anokhi manage to make Shaurya see her point. He does support her if he is given the assurance she will be there for him. Shaurya is a broken man/child who needs love and a sense of belonging. He may be feeling that Anokhi does not love him enough as compared to his love. Some people need constant reassurance especially someone who has been denied unconditional love of one's mother.

Kanchan was top today. I admire her courage to come and support Anokhi. She was the one who managed to make Shaurya understand.

Now what is this new drama of sleeping on the sofa. Shaurya is now behaving like a spoilt brat. Does he even realise that this girl has left everyone dear to her to live with him and his family?

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