Have u ever ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Cookies..

I'm content❤️ I live on my own terms and there is no better feeling.

That's the best thing ever 🤗 I m so happy for u ❤️

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

Boring Long read alert

Its an unsaid incomplete story. I know I'll never be able to even speak to him, too much of bad blood but....💔.

In my school days this most popular (notorious) boy dated my closest friend. He then very conveniently dumped her n she went all sad. I came into the picture when I shared a class with him. As my very old habit I formed an opinion about him n hated him with all my guts. Basically it then became a live match everyday about our fights where I've physically attacked him twice 🙈. Now I understand that he didn't retaliate ever. I was half his size n thought myself to be this WWE boxer who he should be scared of 😂. He in turn embarrassed me in front of teachers 🙄#cruelguy.

Cut to few months later when he apologized to me we slowly started speaking sane towards each other n became true buddies. It has been one of my most precious friendship.

People close to me thought it was something more. Definitely there was something more, I hope we got to explore. They insulted him in front of my friends, confiscated my phone and before I could communicate with him so called friends carried the words along with extra garnishing. Things blew off out of proportion. I never got to clarify things to him.

We coincidentally met again but I being the egoistic human never accepted things or tried to talk to him. He being his egoistic self didn't either.

Its been long long years, there's not a single day that I haven't thought of this human or this incident. What pinched the most was the broken friendship, not the new boyfriend. He has moved on and I don't know but I'm still struck somewhere on an afternoon those years ago. I've done stupid things to get back at him today I realise they weren't required.

He once told me he on our early days used to taunt me, n fight with me because my eyes become bigger when I'm angry n I'm like a tomato when fought with, all red in anger. 😆

It's not really a love story but a Friendship story. I'm a little sad today and remembered him a lot. Thank you for this topic on this day 💞

@bold awwwwwwww♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Even I once hurt my friend physically while trying to catch him up 🤣 everyone told me that he will complain to our principal ,I even cried coz of that but he didn't 😛😆

U know your ego is your biggest enemy 🥺 so ever u ever get a chance to clarify things with him ,don't just hold in , tell him everything . You 2 might or not become good friends again but atleast u won't have that regret ki kash ek baar usse baat clarify kar pati 👍🏼

@italics thanks for sharing your story here 🤗🤗

Happened to me once cos I was deep in closet and in denial and I lost them but atleast that experience helped me figure out myself so I would say it was worth it even though it hurt at that time

Originally posted by: fitoori_kudi

1st love is always hard to forget 😔

But then you must expect the unexpected 👍🏼

I don't have an unrequited love story as such cause love is quite a heavy feeling I tend to reserve only for very few in my life. But I do have a crush story

I was in class 8 then and during every break my friends and I used sit on benches available around the field and I would set my eyes on this gorgeous senior playing some great football with his friends. Tall, buff, pretty with incredible hair and dimpled smile. Class 10. It was swoon at first sight!

There's this thing we did though. His friends were jackasses who would kick the ball towards my bench and then we would make unnecessary eye contact while he retrieved it

This went on for the next two years till he graduated school. My friends and other seniors wanted to introduce us for so long but I was like nah. I had no inclination of meeting him or talking to him outside our sacred football break space. Not because I was shy or anything. But I just didn't want the illusion to break. First boyfriend happened soon after so I forgot about him.

Cut to college fest second year, and there I was dancing to one of my favourite indie Bong bands and who do I see across the concert ground Still pretty, still gorgeous as ever. Even taller than I remembered. And that smile! It was a trip cruising past all our drunk friends to finally meet in the middle. The first hi's were just giggles

We stuck to each other like glue the rest of the night much to the annoyance of our friends and talked so much about school! He was here with his friends on tickets arranged last minute. Fate! Nothing happened though cause I think both of us wanted it to be an untainted space. He knew I had refused to initiate even a talk during high school and told me he was kinda heartbroken over it All said in smiles and giggles. He was so darn cute!

Eventually I had to leave and he gave me his number. But again, I never called. The illusion is still exists and he's still the dreamiest mf my eyes have ever seen

oh yes I was super shy and didn't talk to nobody, I still consider myself shy in real life too and anti social. But yes there was this boy when I was 16 years old, he was cute and I only talked to him once because I had a phone that I didn't even know how to record voicemail and my cousin know the boy so he was fixing my phone and telling me how to record the voice. Sadly that was the last time i talked to him, it was in different state. I live in another state, I was just visiting my cousin at that time. But years later I remember that boy he was so cute, I still keep thinking what if I was not shy and talked to him. But I think he has a child now with another woman so in life you gotta move on.

YES.

But in my case , it never needed to be said. When i am crushing on someone , the crush always knows. I turn into this googly eyed mess that my crushes just cant miss. I keep staring and the moment they look back , eyes locked and all that , i look away instantly. They try to initiate a conversation and make an effort to get to know me , i make an excuse and just run away ..😕

Its sad , the only ones that i have been with are the ones that i dont feel strongly about. My feelings overwhelm me , so i end up avoiding that space altogether. I think there were only one or two instances where i made out with someone i really liked and man oh man i had to stop to catch a break , the heart pounding was out of control , thought i might get a heart attack if i continued. 😅

Unsaid love made my last days in college horrible. When I look back the whole thing is silly but those days it was a terrible feeling.

He was my friend and music was the connection between us. We both loved melodies , ghazels , Sufi songs , he used to call me at night and he keeps his phone near to the music player and we both listened the songs .

We the group of three , used to gather under a almond tree after lunch . One such day in the absence of him , the other girl told me that she loves him and requested me to check whether he is interested. Next day when we met I told him that she is interested in him and he replied that he is interested too. I don't know how I controlled my emotions . He never called me at night after that incident but one day just before the exam over the phone he told me that he is in some backwater resort with the foreign students ,the ambiance makes him miss me and I pretend to not give importance. After the last exam ,before leaving the college , when I met him in front of the library , I confessed my feeling to him , and I said I don't want to keep any connection with him or the girl as it hurts a lot. His reply was surprising, he said , he always know that I like him and he didn't encourage it as the financial difference between our family was huge and he know that I won't go against my parents. I just walked away, I still remember the weather, it was raining, my eyes are filled with tears but I didn't look back , literally and figuratively.

Now it is like a beautiful pain the feeling of being in love , the silly gang of 3, KKHH type love.

Originally posted by: Kamala05

Unsaid love made my last days in college horrible. When I look back the whole thing is silly but those days it was a terrible feeling.

He was my friend and music was the connection between us. We both loved melodies , ghazels , Sufi songs , he used to call me at night and he keeps his phone near to the music player and we both listened the songs .

We the group of three , used to gather under a almond tree after lunch . One such day in the absence of him , the other girl told me that she loves him and requested me to check whether he is interested. Next day when we met I told him that she is interested in him and he replied that he is interested too. I don't know how I controlled my emotions . He never called me at night after that incident but one day just before the exam over the phone he told me that he is in some backwater resort with the foreign students ,the ambiance makes him miss me and I pretend to not give importance. After the last exam ,before leaving the college , when I met him in front of the library , I confessed my feeling to him , and I said I don't want to keep any connection with him or the girl as it hurts a lot. His reply was surprising, he said , he always know that I like him and he didn't encourage it as the financial difference between our family was huge and he know that I won't go against my parents. I just walked away, I still remember the weather, it was raining, my eyes are filled with tears but I didn't look back , literally and figuratively.

Now it is like a beautiful pain the feeling of being in love , the silly gang of 3, KKHH type love.

This is so touching

1st love and unrequited love is something but it devalues over time