Have u ever ?

Have u ever loved someone but coudnt tell him/her n then u lost that person to someone else forever ?

So when I was in my school I liked someone but I could never tell him because he was a really good friend of mine n I didn't want to lose him. Then we parted ways after school . It was then I joined FB and we obviously became fb friends 😆 we kept talking online and met just once for our get together but usme bhi we didn't talk much

Then I went to clg ,he went some where else , and then one day he told that he had always liked me since our school days n he even used to do all those stupid stuff n fight with me just to get my attention 🤣 but by the time he confessed I had already moved on 😳 not with someone else but just with my life . He is still one of my closest buddies with whom I talk till wee hours . He infact stop talking to me for a whole year after I declined him but now we are back as friends again 😊

Has something similar ever happened with anyone of u? 🤔

Originally posted by: fitoori_kudi

Have u ever loved someone but coudnt tell him/her n then u lost that person to someone else forever ?

That happened to me and it took long but I got over it ❤️

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

That happened to me and it took long but I got over it ❤️

1st love is always hard to forget 😔

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

That happened to me and it took long but I got over it ❤️

Happens with everyone I guess😆

My one was a little more extreme/complicated. But it ended with him getting married and having kids while I closed my doors to relationships and focused on my career. So sometimes not pursuing a relationship with a friend is better. Heartbreak and deceit are harder to get over than not telling someone how you feel.

Originally posted by: Cookies..

My one was a little more extreme/complicated. But it ended with him getting married and having kids while I closed my doors to relationships and focused on my career. So sometimes not pursuing a relationship with a friend is better. Heartbreak and deceit are harder to get over than not telling someone how you feel.

❤️ I just hope that u are satisfied n content with your life

I have a friend who is in exact same situation just like the guy in your story and I truly wish that he gets that girl. What shall he do? Any tips that you would have expected to say yes to him. It might be actually very helpful for him

Boring Long read alert

Its an unsaid incomplete story. I know I'll never be able to even speak to him, too much of bad blood but....💔.

In my school days this most popular (notorious) boy dated my closest friend. He then very conveniently dumped her n she went all sad. I came into the picture when I shared a class with him. As my very old habit I formed an opinion about him n hated him with all my guts. Basically it then became a live match everyday about our fights where I've physically attacked him twice 🙈. Now I understand that he didn't retaliate ever. I was half his size n thought myself to be this WWE boxer who he should be scared of 😂. He in turn embarrassed me in front of teachers 🙄#cruelguy.

Cut to few months later when he apologized to me we slowly started speaking sane towards each other n became true buddies. It has been one of my most precious friendship.

People close to me thought it was something more. Definitely there was something more, I hope we got to explore. They insulted him in front of my friends, confiscated my phone and before I could communicate with him so called friends carried the words along with extra garnishing. Things blew off out of proportion. I never got to clarify things to him.

We coincidentally met again but I being the egoistic human never accepted things or tried to talk to him. He being his egoistic self didn't either.

Its been long long years, there's not a single day that I haven't thought of this human or this incident. What pinched the most was the broken friendship, not the new boyfriend. He has moved on and I don't know but I'm still struck somewhere on an afternoon those years ago. I've done stupid things to get back at him today I realise they weren't required.

He once told me he on our early days used to taunt me, n fight with me because my eyes become bigger when I'm angry n I'm like a tomato when fought with, all red in anger. 😆

It's not really a love story but a Friendship story. I'm a little sad today and remembered him a lot. Thank you for this topic on this day 💞

Originally posted by: fitoori_kudi

❤️ I just hope that u are satisfied n content with your life

I'm content❤️ I live on my own terms and there is no better feeling.

Originally posted by: TMKOC_MY

I have a friend who is in exact same situation just like the guy in your story and I truly wish that he gets that girl. What shall he do? Any tips that you would have expected to say yes to him. It might be actually very helpful for him

I feel he first need to know if the girl is really interested in him or not

If she is even a bit interested then I think the should tell her how he feels 😊