WTH kind of behavior was that?? - Page 7

The kind of so called "Friendship" that Arjun Saanjh share is called "Cheap Friendship"

Originally posted by: poornima_15

as far as I remember and what i have seen the dupatta scene was after the bhang effect ... And before the bhang they both were lost in their world ignoring maya...

Yes suman was embarrassed because she being married can relate to Maya's insecurities and that's why she told sanjh to not to be the third wheel ...

@shruthi - That duppata scene was after bhaang effect..Bhaangh or no bhangh saanjh nd arjun both crossed their limits..From saanjh I never expected this type of behaviour especially after the marriage coz after the marriage she behaved sensibly..Before the bhaangh also they went overboard..They both lost in their own world forgetting Maya..She has no right to apply d color to arjun stating it's their old tradition. Arjun also wrong to apply her..

ok checked it. Duppatta was after bhang. But even before that she cling to Arjun when those employees come.

Bhang or no bhang but Saanjh is an extremely chipku girl who doesn't understand the limits of friendship and Arjun is a flirt and a freeloader. Period!

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

If I were to rate all of Maya's manipulations, this one would probably be one of the lesser harmful ones because IMO Ar-Sa had a bigger responsibility in what happened today as compared to Maya. They did most of Maya's work for her by behaving the way they did. And lets not forget they were already behaving inappropriately before they had the bhaang. The whole childhood holi tradition, the cheek pulling and hugging, the face touching everything happened before they were high. Suman was already looking embarrassed by their behavior even before Maya gave them the bhaang. So then it was not just the bhaang or Maya at fault here but Ar-Sa.

I still stand by my view that Ar-Sa are much more at fault here and therefore Maya's actions though wrong can be somewhat forgiven when you look at what lead up to them.

I guess we differ in our opinions here.😃

Sanj and Arjun's PDA in front of Maya was very inappropriate. Sanj has to let go of sanj arjun holi traditions and let Maya Arjun build new ones as a couple. it was very wrong of Sanj to apply colrs on Arjun first. Same with Arjun, it was his responsibility to stop Sanj and tell her to wait till he applies color to Maya. Any wife would feel insulted and rejected by how they both ignore Maya's existence. At the same time the way Maya dealt with it is really really really wrong. If maya was normal she would directly confront both Arjun and Sanj. If Arjun loves Maya he has to respect how Maya feels and Sanj would definitely realize her mistakes and she has to respect the fact that Arun and maya are married now and she needs to not cross her boundaries. But Maya manipulates, give them spiked drink to use Suman to stop Sanj. Maya's ability to predict how people would react to her manipulations is awesome. Sanj and Ajun did exactly what she wanted them to do and same with Suman. It is like Maya directed the whole scene and Sanj, Arjun and Suman enacted their specific roles. I don't blame Sanj Arjun for their actions after drinking the bhang, that was Maya's doing but everything they did till that point was their mistake.

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Of course I won't jump down your throat for having a different opinion 😆...It's a fictional show that is meant to be interpreted in different ways based on how you perceive a certain situation. We can both perceive a situation in the same way one day and interpret another situation differently another day. That's what discussion forums are for na 😃 to discuss your interpretations of the story and characters. So please feel free to put forth your views...I would love to read/discuss them even if we might differ on certain aspects. That's the fun of it.

Ok now coming to today's episode. I agree Maya manipulated the situation to suit her purpose. I am not overlooking any of her manipulations or justifying them as being correct. What I am trying to say is that Ar-Sa cannot be held unaccountable for their behavior just because Maya tricked them into having Bhaang . If they just exhibited general foolish "being high" behavior I would have said ok they are just acting stupid because they are high. This was'nt that.

This is not an isolated one time behavior under the influence of bhaang..They have been building up to this behavior, the bar scene, the hollika scene all happened without Maya being involved. So with / without Maya's interference Ar-Sa have been slowly crossing the line of acceptable behavior. Suman has seen that before and has already advised Saanjh to stay away from Arjun-Maya.

Instead of Maya had someone else forced them to drink bhaang would'nt they have exhibited the same behavior??? Would we then be able to blame it on Maya's manipulation? Maya's actions WERE WRONG but so were AR-Sa actions.

So to sum it up:

1. Maya giving them bhaang without their knowledge - Wrong

2. Arjun ignoring Maya when Saanjh is around - Wrong

3. Maya being insecure of the Ar-Sa closeness - Not Wrong

4. The way Maya decides to go about breaking their friendship - Wrong

5. Saanjh behaving like she still has all the right on Arjun - Wrong

6. Ar-Sa close almost sensual at times dance - Very Very wrong

7. Maya telling Suman to control Saanjh - Wrong intention but right action

Given the severity of Maya's past actions IMO what she did today was not exactly morally or ethically wrong. Just giving someone bhaang is not the crime of the century considering what Maya herself has done before. That's why I think today Maya's actions were forgivable to an extent given the even bigger mistakes committed by Arjun (in particular) and Saanjh in the last few days.

Saanjh needs to learn how to control her hormones. even before the bhaang she was getting way to close with Arjun. not even letting maya and Arjun have some alone time.