WTH kind of behavior was that??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What was that EVEN???
My heart went out to Maya today ...Her scene in front of God was heartbreaking to say the least 💔

I've always said that you only see her true self in front of God. The rest of the time she has a mask on. The vulnerable innocent Maya begging God to give her happiness and to not take away the one thing she wants just makes you want to reach out and hug her. Also, she confirmed that her efforts were genuine with Vandana initially so we can put that discussion to rest. And she mentioned how separating Ayan from Arjun was never her plan so I guess the confusion about her purposely trying to separate Ayaan can be laid to rest as well. Ayaan was just unintentional collateral damage.

Keeping everything she has done and may have done aside for the moment NO WOMAN deserves to be treated the way Arjun treated her today. The utter humiliation and pain that a woman would go through if she has to witness her husband ignore her for his female bff and almost sexually dance with her with absolutely no regard for his wife's feelings whatsoever is just so heart braking to think about. That's what Maya went through today and I loved the fact that the CVs chose to highlight how wrong Arj-Saanjh were in their behavior by showing the other guests comment about it and Suman apologise for it to Maya. The inappropriate bahviour needed to be called out and they did.

What the freaking heck has gotten into Arjun?? So apparently now he can't see anyone else when his "Dusky" is around? He does'nt even seek out Maya during the whole song sequence, like not even once did he even attempt to dance with Maya or to even look at her. What sort of behavior is this??? Are we supposed to feel bad for this guy in the future if Maya makes him pay for this?? I hope they show that he does'nt really love Maya and married her for money because if they are going to say that he does love Maya and this was just momentary lapse of judgement because he was drunk then I'll be like BS 🤢...No guy "In love" with his wife will ever behave the way he did. Nope not buying that excuse at all.

ANd Saanjh...can I give her one tight slap please??? What has gotten into this normally sensible girl lately?? She always had a moral compass, knew her boundaries, corrected Arjun when he crossed his...so then why has her moral conscious disappeared ? Why are her boundaries suddenly so blurry?? Why does she STILL FEEL that SHE has the right to be put the first holi colour on Arjun instead of HIS WIFE?? So she still thinks she holds a more important position in his life even though he now has a wife and is about to be a father??? 😕 Super unhealthy thought process that is...

And NO just like Maya's past cannot be used to justify all her wrong doings, alcohol CANNOT be used to justify Ar-Sa behavior the last 2 days...You don't become another person if you're drunk, you just lose your inhibitions and say and do things that you've always wanted to do and say anyway but cannot when you are fully in your senses.

Honestly I felt nothing wrong in Maya's behavior and actions TODAY...Ok she offered them more bhaang, it was their choice to accept and drink it or not and they did so then it absolves her of any responsibility for the way they behaved. Maya may not have had Saanjh's best interest at heart when she said those thinks to Suman but what she said was absolutely TRUE. If not her then someone else would have surely said the same thing. Suman's reaction and decision to take Saanjh away from there was absolutely bang on, that is exactly what a caring mother would do. She accepted her daughter's mistake and dragged her away from there instead of shouting at Arjun and blaming him for Saanjh's bhaviour (wish Vandana was here to learn a thing or two from Suman).

Now if Saanjh is going to hold THIS against Maya and blame HER for separating Ar-Sa then I don't know what to say. Of all of Maya's manipulations this is the one time I agree with her. Ar-Sa are responsible for whatever is going befall their "friendship".

I only hope the CVs show Sa-Ar realize how inappropriate their behavior and relation is and apologize to Maya and that they don't just sweep this under the rug as a "drunken mistake" and blame everything on Maya's "manipulation". Let's see how they chose to handle this.

PS: Had to rant after today's episode. 😛...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yesterday we were discussing this.. the justification of Maya's actions.. she will stoop low, go immoral but there will always be a justification.. the opening scene like you mentioned.. peek into Maya's conscience.. she has one.. and it feels guilty for the wrongs she does.. for hurting people she doesn't intend to hurt ( Ayaan ) and even for hurting people she has to.. The dialogue that really moved me was when she said ''All I ever wanted was Arjun''.. It really set the stage for what followed.. so much so that viewers would have forgiven her for a bigger crime next day.. what she did was anything but crime or even scheming for that matter.. Saanjh couldn't bear Arjun's proximity to Maya when he was nothing more than a friend when she hadn't even professed her love.. and here we are expecting a wife to see her husband literally grind with another woman and not react? This has been building up for a while now.. their secret meetings, naming the unborn child WITHOUT even consulting the mother, Arjun's concern for Saanjh while completely ignoring his pregnant wife who burnt her hand saving his friend, their never lasting long embraces ..even Suman was feeling uncomfortable yesterday.. what do we expect Maya to do in this situation? Arjun has completely taken her for granted.. the guy even forgot to put color on his wife on their first holi.. yet she forgives him and the joy she had in her eyes when he obliges her... my heart went out to her today.. I remember Jennifer saying in one of her interviews before the show started.. Maya is not the sweet, innocent girl.. she will get her hands dirty to get what she wants yet viewers will feel for her.. they will love/sympathize with her.. no wonder she has the majority of the audience rooting for her despite of her actions.. however, the precap makes me feel she has faked pregnancy and will stage the miscarriage to poison Arjun's mind against Saanjh.. the real test for Arjun's love will be if he actually distances from Saanjh after this.. In case of Vandy, he just needed an excuse .. but Saanjh? he needs her for his own selfish reasons.. we'l see...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@sweetshruti: Well written post. You have said it all. Glad that you have accepted there is a fault from Saanjh and Arjun and that too to the large extent. If the friendship is not within its limits, it is not worth. Maya did the right thing. If she confronts them openly, it would make matters worse and she knows that very well. At least Arjun does not understand in a straight way. So making him understand the same thing in a crooked way is appropriate. Also glad that you could see the things from Maya's angle and accepted that her efforts were indeed genuine when she wanted to make a new beginning after her marriage.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@sweetshruti during marriage episodes itself I had told Saanjh had not let go of Arjun. The feelings exist. And when he told ILU in that drunken state it got awakened. She felt a desire. Because Arjun was bad mouthing Maya and praising her. Somewhere that little desire ticked in. Her duffer.
@Misty leashes cannot keep Saanjh. She will come back again and again as long as she is a single woman.To be frank I hope Maya pregnancy is fake. Because if it is real then I wont be able to forgive Saanjh for what is going to happen to Maya. Saanjh has to remember she is friend and Maya is Arjun's wife and that is very very clear.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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agree with you...hated today's episode...why are they butchering every character...did n't expect this from saanjh...so just to justify maya's action cvs are buthering each and every character...1st vandana then arjun n now saanjh...i wonder who ll be the next
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: staryypriya

agree with you...hated today's episode...why are they butchering every character...did n't expect this from saanjh...so just to justify maya's action cvs are buthering each and every character...1st vandana then arjun n now saanjh...i wonder who ll be the next


remember VM saying that Saanjh would be the next target...she was absolutely right
see she was the next target of CVs😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thelostgirl



remember VM saying that Saanjh would be the next target...she was absolutely right
see she was the next target of CVs😆


yeah i remember that scene...i wonder who ll be next after saanjh
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: staryypriya


yeah i remember that scene...i wonder who ll be next after saanjh

I guess the peon😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Disgusting to say least,Arjun is a certified jerk bad choice maya but what the hell z wrong with saanjh she seems to be in another world after drunken confession by arjun.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All had bhaang, except Arjun...He said he's promised Maaya, n hence he won't have bhaang...He had PLAIN THANDAI

But Maaya's plan was already made. She had already admitted to her ganeshji that she was going to separate Arjun n Saanjh now. She obviously spiked the thandai n forced Saanjh n Arjun to have it, despite Saanjh refusing. Maaya had brought 4 glasses, n Saanjh n Arjun had 2 each. - NO ONE ELSE HAD THIS SPIKED THANDAI.

THE THANDAI WAS OBVIOUSLY SPIKED SO HEAVILY THAT ARJUN N SAANJH LOST COMPLETE CONTROL OF THEMSELVES...& it resulted in that most embarrassing dance.

Yes, Saanjh was guilty of insisting that she wanted to put colour on Arjun first...Very insensitive of her, knowing that her childhood friend was now married n a father to be...& So was Arjun, ESP when he knows about Maya's troubled past n her insecurities...But that is all that Arjun & Saanjh were guilty of...

Rest was all a MAAYAjaal...

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