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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now cvs jus cant go on wid "arjun luvs maya".. defo not!
if he really luvd her, he wudnt hav done dis! he neva once tokd abt maya. was fully in2 "dusky dusky" evn wen maya was huggin him..!! I guess eithr he married her fr money, or was jus attracted 2 her, but now got bored wid her, as he has already "done it" wid her 😡😡

In a show i watched (Kaisi yeh yaariaan) I rembr, how d male lead CONSTANTLY finds a reason 2 stick 2 d female lead no matr wot. Evn durin fyts. & wen hez drunk, he goes ovrboard in stickin2 her. Whreva she is, u can find him der. Dats how u behave wen u r really in luv wid a girl esp wen its d case of "newly married/ newly in luv" thing, cuz u find dat urge to b wid d odr person all d time.

Bt here, all i can see, is arjun avoidin maya like a plague! 🤢

& no wrds fr saanjh. i thot she had self respect.. bt alas, i was wrng. she shud b ashamed... poor suman. as a mom, she'd hav felt DISGUSTING seein her daughter get intimate wid a married man in public!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not justifying or excusing Maya for all her actions till date but just as far as what she did today after their dance, i.e what she told Suman was not really wrong IMO. Like I said in my post Maya obviously did not say all that because she was concerned for Saanjh and her whole "I understand Ar-Sa relation" was fake but what she told about their closeness not being taken well by society is actually true.

And Suman already thought Saanjh and Arjun were wrong, so it's not like Maya manipulated her into thinking that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

I totally understand that people shouldn't behave in a particular way and not all people behave that way. But some people easily lose it when they drink little while some people have practice and they don't lose it. Some people end up doing things they regret for life. But at the end of the way they were not in senses and dint do it deliberately and certainly not to be blamed. Maya isn't wrong because of they misbehaved. Maya isn't responsible for their behaviour. Maya is responsible for the drama she staged. How she twists and turns situations to her benefit and ends up looking like a victim which she isn't. Sometimes i wonder whether did she really triggered ashwin to behave like an animal so that jhanvi and ashwin separate. She never wanted to share her mother s love with ashwin.


Agree with beginning bit,

N strongly disagree with @bold

Emotional wounds inflicted by Ashwin have made Maaya what she is today...She no longer knows how to differentiate between right n wrong...

But that cannot justify her manipulative measures...N these r only the smaller crimes...Let the story unfold, n we shall see the really ill part of her...

Maya isn't evil...She's ill...She needs medical help asap...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@poornima everything could have been avoided if Saanjh had simply told Maya she would try to speak to Arjun about going and meeting Vandana and is Maya ok with it. Instead of messaging Arjun to meet her at night and not tell Maya, if she had taken the sensible route of talking to Maya, Maya might have felt more assured. She was warming upto Dusky. As she says to God. Duffer-Dusky friendship irked her, but she didnt wanted to end the friendship. What prompted her was those 2 lies. Either Arjun would have told truth to Maya or Saanjh should have taken Maya route to speak to Arjun. They both behaved as if Maya didnt exist. Then after Maya saved her. Did dusky tell a thank you to her. Maya's hands were burned. They were lost in each other. What Maya did with thandai was after all this funda from both of them. Why only thandai is seen, not the actions that led to it. I have never defended Maya's methods, even without Thandai she could have felt sad and told Suman. Because duffer took dusky's duppatta. you do it between friends. I dont know, maybe I am a bit old fashioned, taking duppatta of a female friend and dancing is allowed for a married man while his wife is standing. Even Suman felt uncomfortable.
If you say Maya's actions are wrong, also point out each action of Duffer and Dusky that led to this. Maya has to be corrected or punished for her actions. But can dusky and duffer go scott free as if they didnt do anything or their crime is small.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today.. Maya was nowhere at fault..
Arjun and Saanjh today crossed their limits..

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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@poornima everything could have been avoided if Saanjh had simply told Maya she would try to speak to Arjun about going and meeting Vandana and is Maya ok with it. Instead of messaging Arjun to meet her at night and not tell Maya, if she had taken the sensible route of talking to Maya, Maya might have felt more assured. She was warming upto Dusky. As she says to God. Duffer-Dusky friendship irked her, but she didnt wanted to end the friendship. What prompted her was those 2 lies. Either Arjun would have told truth to Maya or Saanjh should have taken Maya route to speak to Arjun. They both behaved as if Maya didnt exist. Then after Maya saved her. Did dusky tell a thank you to her. Maya's hands were burned. They were lost in each other. What Maya did with thandai was after all this funda from both of them. Why only thandai is seen, not the actions that led to it. I have never defended Maya's methods, even without Thandai she could have felt sad and told Suman. Because duffer took dusky's duppatta. you do it between friends. I dont know, maybe I am a bit old fashioned, taking duppatta of a female friend and dancing is allowed for a married man while his wife is standing. Even Suman felt uncomfortable.

If you say Maya's actions are wrong, also point out each action of Duffer and Dusky that led to this. Maya has to be corrected or punished for her actions. But can dusky and duffer go scott free as if they didnt do anything or their crime is small.


+1

My words.. this week Arjun and Saanjh behaved as if Maya didn't exist only..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetshruti


I am not justifying or excusing Maya for all her actions till date but just as far as what she did today after their dance, i.e what she told Suman was not really wrong IMO. Like I said in my post Maya obviously did not say all that because she was concerned for Saanjh and her whole "I understand Ar-Sa relation" was fake but what she told about their closeness not being taken well by society is actually true.

And Suman already thought Saanjh and Arjun were wrong, so it's not like Maya manipulated her into thinking that.


That's the whole point...She spiked the drinks coz she wanted Arjun n Saanjh to be close in the dance after losing control of themselves. She gave them bhang in the guise of plain thandai ... she wanted society to think that they were wrong...

She had told her Ganeshji before the party that she was going to separate Ar -Sa...N she's doing precisely that...😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ofcourse I will... if it is revealed that Maya put something else (that no one else had) in their drink that made:
1. Arjun forget that Maya existed and forget that he was married
2. Saanjh forget all moral boundaries
3. Ar-Sa want to dance with such inappropriate physical proximity
Then YES I will say Ar-Sa cannot be blamed for their behavior,

But IF NOT..if all they had was bhaang like it was shown in the episode then NO they cannot be absolved of all responsibility.

Don't get me wrong..I don't condone Maya's manipulations and actions. She was wrong in wanting to break their friendship instead of confronting Arjun about his behavior. And if she has faked the pregnancy (which I think she has) then that's an even bigger unforgivable mistake.

But just because Maya is wrong does not mean Ar-Sa are just innocent pawns and have no control over their actions and words na?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I again say.. this has been building up for quite some time.. it's not suddenly that Maya decided to spike their drinks and ''knew'' that they will throw themselves on each other.. Saanjh has not been practicing discretion when dealing with Arjun..when she is fully aware of the complex equation involving the three of them, wouldn't it have been wiser on her part to call Maya and discuss how they both together can make Arjun realize that he should mend ways with his family? Where Arjun and his family is involved, Maya has every right, more than Saanjh to be involved.. why was she kept out? why call Arjun to a hotel and discuss all that? Then Arjun and Saanjh decide what name should Arjun and Maya's baby have..like really? and they have the name carved in a gold pendant.. no consultation with Maya.. nothing.. I was surprised she did took no offence to that? Final nail in the coffin was the fire incident.. this is why I will not analyze the holi episode in isolation and blame Maya for staging it.. this was due.. secondly, Arjun is a guy who has an appetite for alcohol..not like he got intoxicated for the first time.. even if he was, a few glasses of bhaang can not make you a completely different person, so much so that you forget that you have a wife??? !!! And Saanjh is not completely innocent here.. even if I consider her behavior after she got high on bhaang as unitnentional, everything before it was plain wrong

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