WTH kind of behavior was that?? - Page 5

Originally posted by: poornima_15

@kavsy ... Im cent percent sure about the thrashing she is gonna get from suman ... Because suman is in very much embarrassment and anger ... She is definitely going to get an earful from her and maybe sanjh will also understand the mistake she did ... But i doubt the great vandana will come to resue and do her brain washing that will lead her to confront maya and her miscarriage...

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

All had bhaang, except Arjun...He said he's promised Maaya, n hence he won't have bhaang...He had PLAIN THANDAI

But Maaya's plan was already made. She had already admitted to her ganeshji that she was going to separate Arjun n Saanjh now. She obviously spiked the thandai n forced Saanjh n Arjun to have it, despite Saanjh refusing. Maaya had brought 4 glasses, n Saanjh n Arjun had 2 each. - NO ONE ELSE HAD THIS SPIKED THANDAI.

THE THANDAI WAS OBVIOUSLY SPIKED SO HEAVILY THAT ARJUN N SAANJH LOST COMPLETE CONTROL OF THEMSELVES...& it resulted in that most embarrassing dance.

Yes, Saanjh was guilty of insisting that she wanted to put colour on Arjun first...Very insensitive of her, knowing that her childhood friend was now married n a father to be...& So was Arjun, ESP when he knows about Maya's troubled past n her insecurities...But that is all that Arjun & Saanjh were guilty of...

Rest was all a MAAYAjaal...

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Rebecca baby tumne yaha bhi manik ki baat karke jee khush kar ditta

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Agree with beginning bit,

N strongly disagree with @bold

Emotional wounds inflicted by Ashwin have made Maaya what she is today...She no longer knows how to differentiate between right n wrong...

But that cannot justify her manipulative measures...N these r only the smaller crimes...Let the story unfold, n we shall see the really ill part of her...

Maya isn't evil...She's ill...She needs medical help asap...

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

I second Khushi's post on this but I'd like to add some points. All that I said is my own view/opinion/perspective, some of the points are implied, some based on suggestive scenes and some that I found blatantly obvious.

Shruthi, I chose your thread to put forth my views because I trust that even if you'd disagree, you wouldn't jump on me for what I said, misconstrue my statements/views or derive a 'hidden agenda' of sorts from it. As far as your own views are concerned, I hope you do know that I have always respected them irrespective of whether we happened to agree or not. 😳 Needed to say this out loud because I really do not wish to cause any commotion here.

Originally posted by: Nietzy

And NO just like Maya's past cannot be used to justify all her wrong doings, alcohol CANNOT be used to justify Ar-Sa behavior the last 2 days...You don't become another person if you're drunk, you just lose your inhibitions and say and do things that you've always wanted to do and say anyway but cannot when you are fully in your senses.

D above part is on point... some ppl r just not getting it.

I only hope the CVs show Sa-Ar realize how inappropriate their behavior and relation is and apologize to Maya and that they don't just sweep this under the rug as a "drunken mistake" and blame everything on Maya's "manipulation". Let's see how they chose to handle this.

I hope makers read dis.

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Of course I won't jump down your throat for having a different opinion 😆...It's a fictional show that is meant to be interpreted in different ways based on how you perceive a certain situation. We can both perceive a situation in the same way one day and interpret another situation differently another day. That's what discussion forums are for na 😃 to discuss your interpretations of the story and characters. So please feel free to put forth your views...I would love to read/discuss them even if we might differ on certain aspects. That's the fun of it.

Ok now coming to today's episode. I agree Maya manipulated the situation to suit her purpose. I am not overlooking any of her manipulations or justifying them as being correct. What I am trying to say is that Ar-Sa cannot be held unaccountable for their behavior just because Maya tricked them into having Bhaang . If they just exhibited general foolish "being high" behavior I would have said ok they are just acting stupid because they are high. This was'nt that.

This is not an isolated one time behavior under the influence of bhaang..They have been building up to this behavior, the bar scene, the hollika scene all happened without Maya being involved. So with / without Maya's interference Ar-Sa have been slowly crossing the line of acceptable behavior. Suman has seen that before and has already advised Saanjh to stay away from Arjun-Maya.

Instead of Maya had someone else forced them to drink bhaang would'nt they have exhibited the same behavior??? Would we then be able to blame it on Maya's manipulation? Maya's actions WERE WRONG but so were AR-Sa actions.

So to sum it up:

1. Maya giving them bhaang without their knowledge - Wrong

2. Arjun ignoring Maya when Saanjh is around - Wrong

3. Maya being insecure of the Ar-Sa closeness - Not Wrong

4. The way Maya decides to go about breaking their friendship - Wrong

5. Saanjh behaving like she still has all the right on Arjun - Wrong

6. Ar-Sa close almost sensual at times dance - Very Very wrong

7. Maya telling Suman to control Saanjh - Wrong intention but right action