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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks Maya. Not kids. I have one daughter who is 12 years now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manishwari2014

Thanks Maya. Not kids. I have one daughter who is 12 years now.


Oops Sorry Bhuvana.

I guess you have your hands full with your daughter stepping into teenage world.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manishwari2014

Maya, just awesome. We all have the same thoughts. Yes. I love ishra but I am slightly partial towards Ishita. The reason being my daughter was born after 9 years of marriage after medical treatment. I have seen 2,3 adoptions in my close relative circle. I am still unable to accept surrogacy and the insensitive way it is shown in yhm. That's why I stopped watching for nearly 4 months and started watching post leap only. To keep Shagun always in Ishra's life, they made her surrogate mother. Otherwise, who will accept cheater ex-wife as the surrogate? Yes, Ishita 's eggs are used but I too feel Adi and Ruhi are Ishita 's children. I understood Adi's behaviour during sauten saga. He was manipulated by Ashok and Shagun. So many people in the forum wanted him to even die. But I felt only pity for his condition. But, Pihu was brought up in a family atmosphere. She was shown as a lovable, sweet kid who loved all her family Members and never shown attached only to Shagun. But for the sake of Shagun, they didn't even leave a small kid. Now, it is Mani's turn. I really feel for him. I can't imagine how he will feel when he understands Shagun's betrayal. What an immoral woman she is? No words. Even after hearing all the words Raman hurled on Ishita before and even after the leap, I just can't hate him. I feel his pain too. I really want Ishra confrontation but it is too late now. Cvs failed to show his point of view on many occasions. Instead we are shown Shagun's povs. In short, they spoiled a beautiful and a very different story for their love for a particular person. Maya, never written so much after my college days I think and whether I made some sense. Sorry if I had spoiled your beautiful thread by my rant.

Hi bhuvana
Congratulations on your bundle of joy..a joyous moment in every couples life...may it be their first child or 2nd child..you cannot describe the feeling...
@ bold...it's too late for confrontation now...i feel his pain too...RKb was the reason I started watching yhm.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yes i remember...i expected raman will give this much respect to ishita by keeping her name in official birth certificate at least but alas i am left with disappointment.
shagun gave birth to pihu, she raised her from birth, she is there as her mother in every official documents including the birth certificate...apart from family member everyone knows pihu is shagun and raman''s daughter...pihu is not aware of anything regarding ishita...so how can it still be considered as ishita's daughter?...there is nothing left for ishita to claim pihu as her daughter...she is now left with no option to be precise.
i am now wondering on what basis he was keeping pihu away from shagun?...didn't it strike him that officially shagun is pihu's mom and not ishita?...didn't it strike him when shagun told she will sign the form for pihu?😲
yes ishita should have shared shagun threat of custody with him but then how can he forget who is the official mom in birth certificate?🤪...he said quite few times that shagun only gave birth but ishita is pihu's mother but not for once realised that he doesn't have any official document which proves this...anything for drama i guess.

I'm disappointed too...I'm surprised that it never occurred to him even after Shagun hinting..she will sign. He even banned Shagun from meeting Pihu at school...atleast then it should've occurred to him...well they showed shagu smart and solving method math...but made a CEO..dumb...as you said anything for drama/ shagun

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasundar


Oops Sorry Bhuvana.

I guess you have your hands full with your daughter stepping into teenage world.

Yes Maya. She is soft spoken and well mannered but sometimes throws tantrums. It becomes little tough as my husband travels a lot and I have to manage her alone.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi,
This post is not only for Ishita supporters every one is welcome to post their view here no one will be disrespected in this thread.

I have noticed few people taking a dig at my post in different thread. If at all you have to say anything about my post come and say directly to me in this thread and I will answer your concern or via pm if your are uncomfortable in voicing out in the open forum.

I will either agree to your view if it is correct or will disagree your view if I have solid proof that is not correct or I will say we agree to disagree if my view and your view doesn't match. I won't degrade your POV

I personally don't take lightly when someone takes a dig at me behind my back.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manishwari2014

Yes Maya. She is soft spoken and well mannered but sometimes throws tantrums. It becomes little tough as my husband travels a lot and I have to manage her alone.


Bhuvana,

Hang in there as I have heard many people who have adult kids now say that it is just a phase during teenage days and it will pass too.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I also feel the same yar.. seems ishitha is like a use n throw object in this serial. First subbu...then Raman. She is needed for him for Ruhi...as long as Ruhi is there. When Ruhi is nt there, she is same baunch ishitha for him. She wanted to die. She would have been in peace if died. But no! This so called friend stopped her wt guilt++ offer. Already for ruhi's loss, n then his injury... Ok, Raman also got torchured for his words these years..again, after she is back, he require Ishita again for Ruhi n only for Ruhi!!! Why didn't he take pyari shagun's help n get back Ruhi?? Ooh always asli ma aslima bolthe rahate haina??
what grudge he held for dead Ishita?!! And why is that when she is died because of his words? He should hate himself..fine pihu is ishita's last symbol left. If the whole family love Ishu a lot Why they wiped all her memories n atleast a single barsi did thy do? No!! People will born n die in every family.. that doesn't mean that Children in that family will live sad sad!!! On all legal docs, only biological parents name only SHOULD be written! This is what law says. Surrogate mother doesn't hold any right over baby... But Raman doesn't have any interest in maintaining proper legal docs as much as he has to roam behind Shagun.. sometimes adi ke liye.. sometimes ishita's bachha ke liye...what kind of a businessman he is!!
Don't know why he always take Ishita as granted! I extremely hate it.. whenever u need something, he will need ishita, whenever he lost something, make her responsible..blame her to the core..
He wanted to give her the biggest happiness in her life, all he managed to give is biggest misery in the world...
When all the doors are closed, when no one is there around... Say she is world's best ma.. shout infront of whole world that she s a baunch n she absolutely deserves that!!! And even make that happen...and don't have a little bit of guilty for that ..





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on Maya. They have destroyed Raman again for Shagun. Mani was a good friend until he married Shagun, but he disappointed me outside the police station when he questioned Ishita and said Aaliya is his daughter. So I didn't care much when he married Shagun, it is easy to preach and judge someone, but when he faced the same situation, he quickly turned and backstabbed his friend and insulted her.
Raman, I have no words, I did not watch the segments, but looks like he wiped out the existence of Ishita in his life and did not want any reminders. Before the leap, never doubted he loved her..but thought it was helplessness when it came to Ishita vs kids (even though I thought he took Ishita for granted always). I didn't think he respected her for who she is (infertile and all that). Shagun always had his ear when it came to Adi and Ruhi, when they were with her, he listened to her always inspite of knowing the person she is..always was suceptible for her emotional manipulations. Ishita with no self worth and no dignity is more of a turn off than Raman's callousness.

If she is happy with the emotional abuse and that is the way she wants her life to be, than she doesn't have anything to complain about. She is pathetically grateful that someone married her and gave her a family, inspite of her handicap. This show instead of forging a new path and giving a new hope to all woman with this medical condition is pushing them into abyss. I am regretting as to why I started watching this show to begin with. All her talk of woman empowerment, dignity is all hogwash..

As long as Raman/Ishita bend over backwards and show for the kids they can hurt their respective partner, Shagun will always manipulate using the kids. If tomorrow, Shagun uses Pihu to get Raman do something against his will in the process huritng Ishita, he will do it. He will try to avoid Ishita since he cannot face her, Ishita will understand and smile to make it easier for him. This has been the norm whenever Shagun had the kids with her. Raman for all his talk, birth mother carries lot of weight..Ishita is a caretaker..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swa6

I also feel the same yar.. seems ishitha is like a use n throw object in this serial. First subbu...then Raman. She is needed for him for Ruhi...as long as Ruhi is there. When Ruhi is nt there, she is same baunch ishitha for him. She wanted to die. She would have been in peace if died. But no! This so called friend stopped her wt guilt++ offer. Already for ruhi's loss, n then his injury... Ok, Raman also got torchured for his words these years..again, after she is back, he require Ishita again for Ruhi n only for Ruhi!!! Why didn't he take pyari shagun's help n get back Ruhi?? Ooh always asli ma aslima bolthe rahate haina??

what grudge he held for dead Ishita?!! And why is that when she is died because of his words? He should hate himself..fine pihu is ishita's last symbol left. If the whole family love Ishu a lot Why they wiped all her memories n atleast a single barsi did thy do? No!! People will born n die in every family.. that doesn't mean that Children in that family will live sad sad!!! On all legal docs, only biological parents name only SHOULD be written! This is what law says. Surrogate mother doesn't hold any right over baby... But Raman doesn't have any interest in maintaining proper legal docs as much as he has to roam behind Shagun.. sometimes adi ke liye.. sometimes ishita's bachha ke liye...what kind of a businessman he is!!
Don't know why he always take Ishita as granted! I extremely hate it.. whenever u need something, he will need ishita, whenever he lost something, make her responsible..blame her to the core..
He wanted to give her the biggest happiness in her life, all he managed to give is biggest misery in the world...
When all the doors are closed, when no one is there around... Say she is world's best ma.. shout infront of whole world that she s a baunch n she absolutely deserves that!!! And even make that happen...and don't have a little bit of guilty for that ..






Hi Swa,

Yeah the makers of the show are showing Ishita as a use and throw piece just because she cannot bear children. I so wish they have censor board for TV so that they don't show this much abuse of a person.

This show is no longer a IshRaRu show where 3 broken souls came together and healed each other. This show now solely focuses on Shagun so that is why we see so much inconsistent in Raman/Ishita character.

I hate the fact that Raman threw all the abusive words on the exchange day but I can over look the fact thinking it as his impulsive nature if they had shown post-leap story as to how Raman brings Pihu closer to Ishita but they butchered him further by making him repeat all those allegations and they butchered Ishita further making her accept that she went on her own leaving the kids behind so that they can turn Shagun into Ishita and Ishita into Shagun.

@ Bold is the crux of the story now for the sake of Shagun




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