Difference between J and B

Last evening's episode can be described as an all time low in the history of KS. I was in particular left rolling on the ground when Jai was wondering why Bani was not talking to him after 5 years of seperation.I was cursing Munna at his sheer display of absurdness but than being a full fledged Muuna supporter I was wondering, is he to be actually blamed.

Read at your own risk but I have an explanation for myself to his behavior. The essential difference between Bani and Jai is the trust they display in each other.

Bani has all the right in the world to be angry at Jai . As per her, he framed her, sent her to Jail- mental asylum and then snatched her kids away from her. But before blaming him one must not ignore the fact that he too once went through exactly the same situations,where Bani kept his kid away from him, aborted it,and still he accepted her without any explantion as to why she killed his child, her infatuation with Pushky before marriage, why she wanted him back after all the hurt and pain she inflicted on him during divorce fiasco? I am not asking her to run into his arms screaming ILU Mr. Walia but this guy deserves a chance to explain himself before he is punished for his crime. How ironic it is that Bani wanted Jai to accept him without explanation as to why she did everything but when the same situation has befallen her she is out to take full fledged revenge on Munna for taking her kids away from her. Is the pain of a father any less than a mother because she nurtures and gives birth to a child or is it that Bani has cvompletely failed to understand Jai. What made her believe that his wealth is far more important to him that his marriage and his kid?

If some one is offeneded, I apologise

Pri,

I think this is another case of creatives butchering characters for the story. If Bani gave JW a chance to explain than the story would be over. Similarly when JW was taking the kids away/or putting her in the MA had he explained to Bani than the story of her coming back for vengence would not work. So I think it's a serious case of btuchering for Bani not to consider why would massi and rano betray her and Pia get everything she wants. Any other peson would question the scenario.

Another explanation is that Bani to JW represented his whole world. A 40 year old man finally found happiness and his age also allowed him to understand the innnate honesty and truthfulness of the person. I think his maturity enabled him to see beyond what Bani was saying the alimony fiasco and he trusted her blindly. With bani I think she does not have that maturity and takes things at face value and the things her eyes saw was so heinous that it would be hard for anyone to hold onto faith. Also she never had blind faith in him.

just my 2 cents.

meghna

Yes I think you are right. Although that Adhboot is at fault the most!

If she can forgive that repro after the ONS fiasco (when pia came back with the lost memory) why can't she at least listen to jai.And i fail to understand why is she hell bent on taking revenge from jai????

Why not Pia???? She is also a big partner in crime.
KS creatives show something real for god sake.

priyanka...if there was no 5 yr gap the situation cld very well be compared...if u see immediately after the scene where she is arrested listen to her dialogues..she says i will not utter a single word till the truth is out ..i trust mr.walia very much he has a purpose behind this..ie after she saw him in the burkha....then next she is declared mad by all, jai walia publicly announces her as crazy turns his face away from her ,sends his heavily pregnant wife to jail,pia confirms that she and jai are going to get married she sees that, her kids are brutually snatched from her just after their birth and she is left to rot in the mental asylum

u have to be god to hold on to any trust on mankind and god himself after this
jai walia during the alimony fiasco broke completely when jigs and then pia confirmed that bani liked pushkar..the abortion of the child did not shake
him that much as the latter news,he was angry very and went off to dubai,,sfter a showdown with masssi
in dubai the lawyers statement that pushkar came to hurry up the divorce made him lose all his senses and when pia said bani did not love u that guy died at that moment.
how are the situation different pia has been shoved down her throat as pushkar his... and she has witnessed an ongoing marriage...5 yrs later the same man grinning comes and asks u why do u not talk to me 😕
and pri the important point is for 5 yrs she has been brainwwashed,instigated,manipulated into believing that jai walia destroyed her in a very emotional state of mind by the man who supposedly saved her gave her a life ..today we have a ddg/bani who is confused not coldhearted yesterdays episode proved she did care for him her eyes said it all..but at present her anger is in the forefront....
is it possible for bani to have any trust on anyone leave alone jai walia 😕

Priyanka,

I have to go with Megs Version 2 for the difference. But at the same let's also not belittle the pain and suffering Bani has gone thru.

JW did undergo the same pain but did have St. Billo (I can see u snarling) for some support, not to mention his pretty saali 😉.
JW underwent Banigiri for only 2-3 months, Bani has undergone spiritual and emotional hell for 5 years.
Besides when J-B were apart there was only Jigs to instigate JW against Bani and they were hardly ever together, while Bani has had Adbhoot instigate her 24*7*365.

Rgds,

Pri

sun, what u said is right... same thing pri also said... that bani has every right to be angry on jai... yes... but didn't he warn about pia before... what she shouted in front of every one that pia got her sisters to support her... where is the sisters now? is it because she gave word to her mom that she will take care of her sister that she decided to take revenge only on jai? well...

i will tell u the difference between jai and bani in single line...

that is..

jai's love is unconditional thought it took so long for him to admit that he loves her actually...

bani's love was always conditional... if she wants she will throw any attitudes on him... in the name of her family, or in the name of her own love... both are same at the end result..

he trust her, still i believe he will trust her this 5 yrs nothing happened between AD and her... but she couldn't trus... because that way the story developed.. they showed the evidence to show jai is wrong at times.. and never bothered to clear him... so how she will... added to her conditional love this is the real knife which worked..

Rose,

Well said. And that's why if JW ever suspects her or questions Bani about her relationship with AD, I will disown both Munna and KS, but if the reverse happens (Bani questions JW on Pia) I would not hurt badly at it.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: majumdar

Rose,

Well said. And that's why if JW ever suspects her or questions Bani about her relationship with AD, I will disown both Munna and KS, but if the reverse happens (Bani questions JW on Pia) I would not hurt badly at it.

Rgds,

Pri

And why so ?
why the partiality?

you are absloutley right.
I agree with meghna also Jai has always blind faith on bani but bani had never blind faith on him.