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There was no ONS. Pia had drugged him while he was completely drunk so that she could get him into bed. Even when bani had divorced him, aborted his child (according to the docters) and was in love with another man (according to her sister) with whom their were incriminating pictures of bani in a hotel room being tucked into bed and evidence of going around town at all odd hours of the day and night pia needed to drug him to get him to be with her. He does not remember anything that happened. With the pictures in hand and in open court while she was divorcing him he said that he had full faith in bani not to do anything to break the boundaries of marrige.

Priyanka,

Firstly, I think the whole comparison has one major flaw😉 – Bani never expected JW to forgive and accept her, she just wanted to go to Dubai and confess all the truth and get back to him if possible…if Jai did not accept her she would not have said anything, she would have returned home without uttering a word. It was JW himself who accepted her But seems like it is JW who actually expected Bani to run into his arms as soon as she saw him… …besides, if JW was not guilty of ONS (at that point in time), would be have accepted Bani without questioning? The guy was very much in shock over his own behaviour for him to question Bani at that time…Had he not had ONS (at that time), the whole situation would have been different, I think so…

About giving a chance…she has gone through a lot to even think fairly…One really cant expect a person to think through properly and fairly when she was let down badly and suffered so much…Like Sun pointed, even after seeing Jai as a burkha guy and all his testimony in court, Bani still believed that Jai might have some reason for him to do so...

Sukhi, you are very right…Jai never had any reasons to suspect Bani nor not to trust her…

Ash,

The reasons JW trusted her inspite of all the below reasons:

1) He had photos of Pushkar and Bani in the same room (very close), but still in the public he declared that she cannot be wrong! Jai knows Pushkar and Bani's friendship very well. He knows bani's character very well…Not ONLY Jai but anyone who knows Bani will never suspect her just because of some photos cos she is a person of hight morals and a person who respects the boundaries of every relationship…

2) Inspite of Bani declaring she wants divorce with alimony for her kids future, he knew that there was some other reason, he refused to believe that she is doing it for herself and kid! Again…Not ONLY Jai but anyone who knows Bani will understand that Bani is not a money minded person and since Bani was focusing on getting alimony, no one would have believed Bani…

3) Inspite of seeing proofs of her miscarriage as abortion (the doctor told him that she aborted the baby, as she didnt want the kid), he accepted her back and believed when she said it was an accident! Dear, didn't JW believe that Bani aborted the child and he did not even want to see Bani's face when she was brought to WM in a zombie state? Please dear, he did not believe Bani in abortion issue, in fact until Massi told about it he still believed Bani has abortion…so much trust na? I do understand that no one informed him but since you told that Jai had enormous trust in Bani, all I am saying is Jai did not really have enough trust in Bani just like Bani did not have enough trust in Jai…They both need to trust each other even more…

My 2 cents😊

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But Bani said that he believes him the most and she starting doubting on him the day she saw some other girl calling for him and when she saw that girl was Pia, she was relaxed, it was not the belief what she had on her hubby, it was the trust what she on her sister!

ash bani did not believe another girl calling him but asked the truth from jai himself who nearly accepted of having an affair,she again asked him to swear on her he refused at night when he went to get meds for pia she asked where he went all she received was scolding..on her birthday when he was supposed to go for meeting she found a hotel bill and an earing out of the blue he gifts her dress she does not wear,he is paying for a phone bill from which some girl sends personal message in the middle of the night ,he recieves call hiding from her,her sister said he was having ema and he never refuted.....yes bani shld have blind trust in him

she did not believe pia but rather the relationship that pia and jai were supposedly sharing brother in law sister in law yes it was her fault that she forgot pia was her hubby's ex fiancee.....and shld have acted as such

and when she found out pia was carrying another man's child ..she reacted the same way right😉

and ash just to balance the weighing scale jai walia went to the same pia to confirm whether bani liked pushky or not,he took the same pia with him to dubai,he was on a tour with the same pia before dubai,after all she did to him and he practically put on bangles for the same pia in front of bani ....and gave the same pia a job in his office

bcoz he forgave her so why is difficult for bani to do the same before oct 3rd

Sanjani,
I never said that she deserved to be punished in this manner.

(But wonder why is she worried about her kids now when she did not gave a second thought to their safety while sleuthing around solving Walia mystries during both of her pregnancies.)

I agree with Ash and what she implies here is that Bani suspected Jai even when himself was about to confess till the time she found out that the other woman is none other than her sister., This clearly indicates that she can never trusted Jai but her sister who literally backstabbed her at every occassion with closed eyes. Jai trusted her at every given occassion be it with Pushkar or snooping arounbd with TS in wee hours of morning. Ahe went against her gut instincts and hid everuything from Jai. What Jai did was to save himself from loosing Bani and what he feared came true but what Bani always did harmed everyone in more than one way. He never questioned her when anyone in his position would have suspected her of adultery or somethong else. When Bani found out about Pia's illegitiamate pregnancy she did not reacted as a normal person will. All she could think of was to get her child the status of legitimacy in the society at any cost and she knew that the child Pia was carrying was of a married man.There also it was my sister first case

Sanjani,
I never said that she deserved to be punished in this manner.

(But wonder why is she worried about her kids now when she did not gave a second thought to their safety while sleuthing around solving Walia mystries during both of her pregnancies.)

pri ,it is sajani.....and to be honest dear the creatives during the entire pregnancy track once did not show bani bonding with her unborn child the way jai did...jai's goodness as a father and his desire for the child was put forth and they completely forgot to show the maternal side of bani at all...yes her sleuthing was very irritating and i have already posted that her modus operandi was highly questionable but not her intentions.....

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Sanjani,
I never said that she deserved to be punished in this manner.

(But wonder why is she worried about her kids now when she did not gave a second thought to their safety while sleuthing around solving Walia mystries during both of her pregnancies.)

I agree with Ash and what she implies here is that Bani suspected Jai even when himself was about to confess till the time she found out that the other woman is none other than her sister., This clearly indicates that she can never trusted Jai but her sister who literally backstabbed her at every occassion with closed eyes. Jai trusted her at every given occassion be it with Pushkar or snooping arounbd with TS in wee hours of morning. Ahe went against her gut instincts and hid everuything from Jai. What Jai did was to save himself from loosing Bani and what he feared came true but what Bani always did harmed everyone in more than one way. He never questioned her when anyone in his position would have suspected her of adultery or somethong else. When Bani found out about Pia's illegitiamate pregnancy she did not reacted as a normal person will. All she could think of was to get her child the status of legitimacy in the society at any cost and she knew that the child Pia was carrying was of a married man.There also it was my sister first case

Priyanka,

Initially Bani never suspected when he went out in the night and stuff but she only suspected him after he himself hesitated to promise and the following issues. She later realised she might be wrong when she saw the tape between her sister and JW…Dear, if she had only trusted her sister and not JW, Bani would have continued with her suspicion…don't you think so? She had no reason to stop suspecting Jai right? When she saw the tape between her sister and JW, it never occurred to her that JW and Pia would do sth like that... She trusted Jai too much and she never imagined JW would have ONS with Pia even though Pia was his ex-flame…

dear, it is really not that easy and one must give enough credit to Bani…can you imagine – if you husband give you all the reasons to suspect him, like going out at night, bringing jewellery etc etc and then he was in a room with his ex-flame who happens to be your sister…what do you do? As much as you trust your sister, won't you suspect your husband to have bad intention because your sister happens to be his ex-flame? Please dear, think about all the circumstances surrounding her suspicion instead of just saying that it was because of her sister that she did not suspect Jai afterwards.

Meena,

(Please dear, he did not believe Bani in abortion issue,)

I think once the unedited CD is out, we may find out that he never bought the abortion story.

Sun,

(only dread the outcome in which the one to lose again will be bani herself ......)

Exactly. JW will quitely accept the punishment in the belief that this will make HIS Bani happy and as an atonement for his own misdeeds. But Bani after all her suffering will be left with the knowledge of having terribly wronged a man who for all his flaws loved her genuinely.

Rgds,

Pri

Je- aime,

I fully agree with you and now put yourself in Jai's shoes and say whther you would have suspected your wife or not when she went out snooping in the middle of the nite or uninformed with men who backstabbed your husband and instead of mending differnce were busy creatingrifts and opportunity of their own love life. He did not inspite of all the evidences pointing against her unlike her.

Just like Bani , Jai is not asking for her forgivesness but just a chance to clear the misunderstanding which Bani even did not deemed necessary to do before uniting with Jai in Dubai, and he accepted her just the way she was, on her word that she did all this to save him. Will she do the same if Jai tells her so? What values are you talking about? The morals that are applicable just on Jai and on one else, her sister/herself or her parents. He cheats and she finds it difficult to face his family but what about the illegitimate child her sister draes to carry around openly cheating on her and Pushky and everyone else. Why she never thought it difficult to face her family foir her sister,s crime?

[Sun,

(only dread the outcome in which the one to lose again will be bani herself ......)

Exactly. JW will quitely accept the punishment in the belief that this will make HIS Bani happy and as an atonement for his own misdeeds. But Bani after all her suffering will be left with the knowledge of having terribly wronged a man who for all his flaws loved her genuinely.

Rgds,

Pri

yes pri this is what is going to happen ,and it will once again destroy her

Dear, didn't JW believe that Bani aborted the child and he did not even want to see Bani's face when she was brought to WM in a zombie state? Please dear, he did not believe Bani in abortion issue, in fact until Massi told about it he still believed Bani has abortion…so much trust na? I do understand that no one informed him but since you told that Jai had enormous trust in Bani, all I am saying is Jai did not really have enough trust in Bani just like Bani did not have enough trust in Jai…They both need to trust each other even more…
***Meena, I know that, but what I meant was, when she came back and declared that it wasnt an accident, he believed it, even though he had proofs that it wasnt an accident, he didnt need any proofs for him to believe when she told him! He just believed her words! I hope, am clear! And where as Bani is concerned, she always said that I trust u more than anything and when it came to a mobile phone only, her trust was shaking, she didnt believe until unless she didnt see Pia in the video, so doesnt it prove that her trust was more on her sister than her hubby?
And as far as other answers against JW is concerned, I want to ask u onething, then didnt Bani know what JW is? So does it mean that JW understood Bani well and his trust on her was 100% and the same cant be said about Bani?