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Initially Bani never suspected when he went out in the night and stuff but she only suspected him after he himself hesitated to promise and the following issues
***Meena, why he cant go out in the night, when she can snoop around the entire Mumbai with her sisters hubby?

Meena u said that Bani went to Dubai only to clear misunerstanding and tell the truth and she didnt expect him to accept her back, then what was all those dialogues that she wants to spend her rest of her life with him and she wants him to give one more chance for the relationship? Do u speak all this without expectations? 😕

Ash,

If I remember correctly Jai was not there when Bani was in her Zombie state post miscarriage. Jai was not in town and when he returned back Bani was in her senses after Anu's delivery, right?

Priyanka,

I fully agree with you and now put yourself in Jai's shoes and say whther you would have suspected your wife or not when she went out snooping in the middle of the nite or uninformed with men who backstabbed your husband and instead of mending differnce were busy creatingrifts and opportunity of their own love life. He did not inspite of all the evidences pointing against her unlike her. Yap, a normal husband have all reasons to suspect but with a person like Bani and especially with a person like Jai who understood and respects Bani, I wonder if one will suspect…Jai is definitely commendable for keeping his trust in tact but dear similarly, Bani did not suspect Jai when he went out in the middle of the night and for other issues, it was only after Jai himself hesitated to promise Bani that made her suspect him… do you see the similarities?!?

Just like Bani , Jai is not asking for her forgivesness but just a chance to clear the misunderstanding which Bani even did not deemed necessary to do before uniting with Jai in Dubai, and he accepted her just the way she was, on her word that she did all this to save him. Will she do the same if Jai tells her so? What values are you talking about? The morals that are applicable just on Jai and on one else, her sister/herself or her parents. He cheats and she finds it difficult to face his family but what about the illegitimate child her sister draes to carry around openly cheating on her and Pushky and everyone else. Why she never thought it difficult to face her family foir her sister,s crime? Bani cannot be blamed for her sister's immoral behaviour…What I said is Bani was always a person who respected the boundaries of different relationship and Jai knew that…He knows that Bani would never cross the line of friendship with Pushkar…I know Jai is also asking for a chance, but the circumstances that Bani was in and circumstances Jai is in is totally different… I do agree that Bani wanted to separate her unborn child from Jai but don't you think it makes a major different when the child is not born yet and when the child is alive? I am not saying that it would be easy for Jai but it would definitely more difficult for Bani to be separated from her children. For Bani, she had to go through 5 years of hell dear…there is a major difference…and also I believe had Jai not been guilty of ONS (at that time), he would have questioned Bani for sure…He would have accepted her for sure because he just wanted her back in his life but he would have definitely demanded her for explanation unlike what actually in KS…😊

Cheers,
Meena

Ash,

If I remember correctly Jai was not there when Bani was in her Zombie state post miscarriage. Jai was not in town and when he returned back Bani was in her senses after Anu's delivery, right?
***Yes dear, and the same day he moves to Dubai too!

Bani did not suspect Jai when he went out in the middle of the night and for other issues, it was only after Jai himself hesitated to promise Bani that made her suspect him… do you see the similarities?!?
***Meena what we are trying to explain u is, his trust didnt shake till the abortion stage, which was a peak stage u can call it as! But somewhere he had doubts that she cant do it, if it wasnt the case, he wouldnt hv accepted her back without a word, but as far as Bani's trust is concerned, it started trembling from a minor stage, she rcvd calls from stranger (imagine she believed that stranger calls or started doubting her husband for these reasons) and saw a mobile bill, rcvd a girls call and saw him going out in the night, he is a business tycoon and can have several reasons to go out in the night and why a man cannot meet a girl? And I dont think JW suspected Bani when she was moving with Pushkar at odd hours! Did he? And what similarities are here?

he would have questioned Bani for sure…He would have accepted her for sure because he just wanted her back in his life but he would have definitely demanded her for explanation unlike what actually in KS…
*** Dear, aren't we talking about KS scenario here?

Meena,

JW ended up separating Bani from her kids, a horrible crime no doubt but a crime he committed under duress, a crime he had no intention to commit. Maybe he could not have prevented in any case, had he refused to succumb to Pia's blackmail, she would have released the VCD and Bani was behind bars for 21 years.

But what about Bani? She would have done the same to JW in the PR case. Deprive him of his child. Why? Because accidentally he had killed her Mom. A crime she could have pardoned but did not. Of course u may argue that a far more formidable character had put a gun on her head- St. KDbhoot.

Rgds,

Pri

Meena,

I love your Bani support 😆 . What boundaries are we talking about?Bani has never been the one to respect boundaries in any relationship. She makes decison on behalf of others and takes away the right to their lives. What made her hide Anu's pregnancy? Waht made her believe that JW was incapable of saving his own property from Ranveer and Jigs and thatbhis wealth is more important than his child or his marriage? Who allowed her to hide Sahil's truth from Rano, as Sahil's wife she had every right to know about her husband kartoots? Where did her friendship disappeared when Pia disclosed her pregnanacy to her, to Pushkar? He stood by her, at every situation, stood at her beck and call but she just ignored his existence when he needed her to support him, instaed she was busy finding out the father of Pia's child overlooking Pia's fault in entire event? Why she never questioned Tarun as to why he keeps on instoigationg her gaainst Jai inspite of her attempts to make her relationship with Jai work? Why should she not be blamed for what ever Pia and Rano did? She practically raised them as her daughters, she spoilt them and she made decisions on their behalf? Why she did not informed Jai about PP'a affair,the list starts here and runs endless

If Jai gave her reasons to suspect, she was not far behind too. Why is it assumed that a married person(M/F) cannot have their personal space and somethings that they do not want to share with their spouse. Well atleast Bani did the same and Jai never questioned her. His faith is far more strong than Bani otherwise what makes him think that Bani will understand his dilemma and that there must have been a solid reason for his behavior. Well may be he has been unable to understand his better half eventually

ash she read a sms in the middle of the night from a private number on her hubby,s phone which was very personal pia and her delusions.....she has a talk with her antarathma remember and says she loves him so much hence was insecure am sorry felt like this....she did not ask him on her birthday he left she did not ask him..but when rano said jai confirmed her suspicion came to the fore ..she directly questioned him and he evaded
and jai walia did not break due to abortion but the news he got from jigs and then pia that bani liked pushky and also from the lawyer in dubai..that broke him completely