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Bani has all the right in the world to be angry at Jai . As per her, he framed her, sent her to Jail- mental asylum and then snatched her kids away from her. But before blaming him one must not ignore the fact that he too once went through exactly the same situations,where Bani kept his kid away from him, aborted it,and still he accepted her without any explantion as to why she killed his child, her infatuation with Pushky before marriage, why she wanted him back after all the hurt and pain she inflicted on him during divorce fiasco
***This is what I said in one of the threads Priyanka, the pain cannot be compared with the duration, the pain what JW went thru was also the same during Divorce fiasco and he didnt question her and from Bani, I know she has become stone, but didnt expect this reaction 😕 ! I thought she would not like AD's behaviour by hitting JW by car? Is she the same Bani we all like, whom we want to be with our Munna? I hv no problems, if she takes revenge, or If SHE does harm him personally, but seeing him hurt lying on the road like that didnt move her (especially the person who hit him was that Ajeeb ADBHOOT!!)! And Yes, she only CLAIMS to love him the most! I know u hate the person the most whom u love more, but when u see the same person in pain, whatever the reason for yr hatred be, u definitely tend to be hurt when u see that person in pain 😕 ! This is what I thought was the strength of love and hate was! But yesterday everything went down the drain!

Pri, Megs, Rose , Sun.

I am not belittling Bani's pain.And yes The story will go no where if Bani against her nature ever listened to Munna. My grudge is not her anger . I want her to be angry and yes I know that she trusted him but I fail to understand why most of the forum is against Jai? Was his pain any less than Bani during divorce situtaion? He surely enjoyed atleast the company of his childen which Bani could not.

If not Jai, how can she not trust her Massi who at the time of ONS revealation stood by her and not her son? May be I am not making any sense. I am not against Bani in any case let me clarify that but it really fails me that even Jai went through the same pain everyone, so why hate him now. He did his best to save his wife at that time.

(And why there is no AD on the banner but all the characters that do not even exist anymore.)

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Bani has all the right in the world to be angry at Jai . As per her, he framed her, sent her to Jail- mental asylum and then snatched her kids away from her. But before blaming him one must not ignore the fact that he too once went through exactly the same situations,where Bani kept his kid away from him, aborted it,and still he accepted her without any explantion as to why she killed his child, her infatuation with Pushky before marriage, why she wanted him back after all the hurt and pain she inflicted on him during divorce fiasco
***This is what I said in one of the threads Priyanka, the pain cannot be compared with the duration, the pain what JW went thru was also the same during Divorce fiasco and he didnt question her and from Bani, I know she has become stone, but didnt expect this reaction 😕 ! I thought she would not like AD's behaviour by hitting JW by car? Is she the same Bani we all like, whom we want to be with our Munna? I hv no problems, if she takes revenge, or If SHE does harm him personally, but seeing him hurt lying on the road like that didnt move her (especially the person who hit him was that Ajeeb ADBHOOT!!)! And Yes, she only CLAIMS to love him the most! I know u hate the person the most whom u love more, but when u see the same person in pain, whatever the reason for yr hatred be, u definitely tend to be hurt when u see that person in pain 😕 ! This is what I thought was the strength of love and hate was! But yesterday everything went down the drain!

Love you . This is what I said. My question is will Bani accept him if he apologises now and tells her that he did all this to save her without detailed explanation just like he accepted her excuse in Dubai. No.

And why so ?
why the partiality?

***That's because JW has shown to believe his wife in the worst situations too, but Bani has never believed him to that extent!

Love you . This is what I said. My question is will Bani accept him if he apologises now and tells her that he did all this to save her without detailed explanation just like he accepted her excuse in Dubai. No.
***IF she accepts him or not would be decided after all her pravachans are out to Mr. Walia! She will blame him that he didnt tell her the truth, he was the reason for her to be away from her kids and after all the blames, she might decide to run to his arms! Yes, the difference is very huge between them!

rose i have mentioned in another post that bringing pia back as a sense of responsibility was a grave mistake for which bani paid heavily in the last 5 yrs estranged from her family and into a clone factory where emotions are as fake as the humans and she thinks she has found solace in them well she is in for another shock
there is a difference between jai walia and bani rose it is jai's unshakeable faith in bani and bani's ability to forgive ...and this innate quality in each other is what brought them together...but when bani saw jai's trust in her breaking she broke completely...and when jai saw bani unable to forgive him he broke....
rose bani's modus operandi was very questionable but not her love for jai ....bani was bound by a sense of duty towards her family how dos that make her love conditional......yes she more than often failed where pia was concerned ..and has been reprimanded for that time and again....she went ahead and put her life and the childs in danger to save the amn who had supposedly murdered her parents...right no one asked her to ..right that was stupid...but for her it was the only way to save him.....it wld have been better if she had waited for help to arrive and save him....
yea she is very selfish bcoz it tore her to be away from him but she ran back to him bcoz she needed him...not anymore a duty bound daughter.....jai was selfish coz he wanted bani back in his life ,hence did not question her or tell her and was guilt ridden....
and why shld bani not question abt pia when jai walia has himself uttered the infamous dialogues mera baccha mera baccha..she has seen them getting married after the leap she has seen them hugging ....so how is it wrong if her trust breaks
rose on oct 3rd pia instigated,manipulated and broke jai with her words finally she had to spike his drink to assault his body..jai walia after the night stand immediately realized his mistakes
bani for the past 5 yrs has been instigated,manipulated against only jai walia and her heart and mind has been spiked with a charade called durga das gupta to assault her soul by aparajit deb,when this durga stand gets over she is once again going to be shattered for the grave mistake she committed...for all her flaws she really does not deserve this .....used by one and all to serve their purpose....i am suprised she still has in her to trust anyone after everything

Originally posted by: aashyagh

And why so ?
why the partiality?

***That's because JW has shown to believe his wife in the worst situations too, but Bani has never believed him to that extent!

but why does past have to come in between here ?
Bani is bound to have less faith on JW after all he has done to her -ONS, MA .. etc ..

But there can be no reason why JW will have less faith on her!

but why does past have to come in between here ?
Bani is bound to have less faith on JW after all he has done to her -ONS, MA .. etc ..

But there can be no reason why JW will have less faith on her!


***Sukhi, if u watch the old episodes of KS u will understand!
The reasons JW trusted her inspite of all the below reasons:
1) He had photos of Pushkar and Bani in the same room (very close), but still in the public he declared that she cannot be wrong!
2) Inspite of Bani declaring she wants divorce with alimony for her kids future, he knew that there was some other reason, he refused to believe that she is doing it for herself and kid!
3) Inspite of seeing proofs of her miscarriage as abortion (the doctor told him that she aborted the baby, as she didnt want the kid), he accepted her back and believed when she said it was an accident!

But Bani said that he believes him the most and she starting doubting on him the day she saw some other girl calling for him and when she saw that girl was Pia, she was relaxed, it was not the belief what she had on her hubby, it was the trust what she on her sister!

Originally posted by: mahimn

Pri, Megs, Rose , Sun.

I am not belittling Bani's pain.And yes The story will go no where if Bani against her nature ever listened to Munna. My grudge is not her anger . I want her to be angry and yes I know that she trusted him but I fail to understand why most of the forum is against Jai? Was his pain any less than Bani during divorce situtaion? He surely enjoyed atleast the company of his childen which Bani could not.

If not Jai, how can she not trust her Massi who at the time of ONS revealation stood by her and not her son? May be I am not making any sense. I am not against Bani in any case let me clarify that but it really fails me that even Jai went through the same pain everyone, so why hate him now. He did his best to save his wife at that time.

(And why there is no AD on the banner but all the characters that do not even exist anymore.)

pri jai walia is not at fault here dear but the situation has been created as such that jai walia is the master mind and jai himself does not know that hence he is unable to understand why bani is not listening to him at least....

he went through hell pri during the pr fiasco......but there is no comparison expect for may be the pain as pri put it it was 2-3 months and he was being instgated by a person whom he never trusted in the first place but for bani pas t5 yrs she is in exile..with someone who day in and out instigates her instead of healing her wounds..and a wound that has been raw for 5 long years becomes difficult to heal....

i for one do not blame jai nor will i blame bani for the course of action she takes ..i only dread the outcome in which the one to lose again will be bani herself ......and my question is does she deserve it...😕

Originally posted by: aashyagh

but why does past have to come in between here ?
Bani is bound to have less faith on JW after all he has done to her -ONS, MA .. etc ..

But there can be no reason why JW will have less faith on her!


***Sukhi, if u watch the old episodes of KS u will understand!
The reasons JW trusted her inspite of all the below reasons:
1) He had photos of Pushkar and Bani in the same room (very close), but still in the public he declared that she cannot be wrong!
2) Inspite of Bani declaring she wants divorce with alimony for her kids future, he knew that there was some other reason, he refused to believe that she is doing it for herself and kid!
3) Inspite of seeing proofs of her miscarriage as abortion (the doctor told him that she aborted the baby, as she didnt want the kid), he accepted her back and believed when she said it was an accident!

But Bani said that he believes him the most and she starting doubting on him the day she saw some other girl calling for him and when she saw that girl was Pia, she was relaxed, it was not the belief what she had on her hubby, it was the trust what she on her sister!

u r absloutely right

One dixit never doubted another dixit😡