Difference between J and B - Page 5

Originally posted by: sun29

ash she read a sms in the middle of the night from a private number on her hubby,s phone which was very personal pia and her delusions.....she has a talk with her antarathma remember and says she loves him so much hence was insecure am sorry felt like this....she did not ask him on her birthday he left she did not ask him..but when rano said jai confirmed her suspicion came to the fore ..she directly questioned him and he evaded
and jai walia did not break due to abortion but the news he got from jigs and then pia that bani liked pushky and also from the lawyer in dubai..that broke him completely

Last evening's episode can be described as an all time low in the history of KS. I was in particular left rolling on the ground when Jai was wondering why Bani was not talking to him after 5 years of seperation.I was cursing Munna at his sheer display of absurdness but than being a full fledged Muuna supporter I was wondering, is he to be actually blamed.

Do you really have to ask that question dear?... Hell yes his to blame for everything that he did.

Read at your own risk but I have an explanation for myself to his behavior. The essential difference between Bani and Jai is the trust they display in each other.

You better do, because bashing my baby requires a strong allegation. 😈

Bani has all the right in the world to be angry at Jai . As per her, he framed her, sent her to Jail- mental asylum and then snatched her kids away from her.

Yes she does, no doubt about that what soo ever.

But before blaming him one must not ignore the fact that he too once went through exactly the same situations,where Bani kept his kid away from him, aborted it,and still he accepted her without any explantion as to why she killed his child, her infatuation with Pushky before marriage, why she wanted him back after all the hurt and pain she inflicted on him during divorce fiasco?

Dear I think your mixing two issues here, that cannot go together.

Firstly she didnt kept about the baby's death, he found out the day itself. And furthermore he was personally told by his evil sister that she aborted and without asking the mother of his child's itself whether if it was indeed the truth or faulse accusation he assumed it to be true whatever he was told.

Secondly, you said he accepted her without any explanation. Did he? Or am I missing something her? Sweetie as far as I can remember during the C night she told him face to face about the baby's death though she only told him it was an accident, and he believed her because he knew deep down she wouldnt do that to anyone forget about their baby.

Now this is where you got me cracking, before I answer to you question, I just want to ask you one using the same line against you.

Why didn't Jai tell her about RC ? 🤔 When he knew it was the right thing to do. Perhaps he didnt want to. So now you blame my Bani for not telling him about her past. Sorry I dont mean to be rude but I find this question highly funny. 😆

Now back to the D fiasco, I remeber her telling him she did all of that to just protect his hard earned. Now it was all up to him whether to believe her or not. She didnt force him to, but instead he believed his instinct and accepted her.

I am not asking her to run into his arms screaming ILU Mr. Walia but this guy deserves a chance to explain himself before he is punished for his crime. How ironic it is that Bani wanted Jai to accept him without explanation as to why she did everything but when the same situation has befallen her she is out to take full fledged revenge on Munna for taking her kids away from her. Is the pain of a father any less than a mother because she nurtures and gives birth to a child or is it that Bani has cvompletely failed to understand Jai. What made her believe that his wealth is far more important to him that his marriage and his kid?

Again your mixing two different issues dear. For one she didnt stood in front of him after they came clean to each other about their feelings saying your mad, you dont deserve to be mother to our chldren and you need be send to MA for five years without an explanation. Never did he went to see her afterwards under any circumsatance, to tell her the truth at least.

Now you expect her to say I LOVE YOU Mr WALIA..?

Thanks alot, I enjoyed replying to you but at the same time I'm laughing soo hard you really made my day thanx. 😆

If some one is offeneded, I apologise

Ash, The mobile phone incident and the rest happened after the birthday party incident…Before that Bani did not suspect Jai at all dear…Which is similar to Bani's case…just like Jai did not suspect Bani when she went out with Pushkar, Bani did not suspect Jai when he went out in unusual time and when she asked about it he snapped her remember…

Pri, Yes Jai separated her from her children due to duress… Yes he did not have any other option but he did have the option to not be down right cruel right? If the children were just taken from Bani in a more normal way, it would not have been that wrong…But the way he snatched the kids make a hell lot of different dear… and dear it is very much different with Jai being separated from the child in a sense that the children were not born then…she was only thinking about herself and how much she had to suffer because of the accident…But after the child birth, Bani would be thinking in a mother's view. Yap she planned to take away the child from him but when she was near him, she never stopped him from talking to his child when the child was the womb right? It was Jai himself who said that he might not get an opportunity to see the child but had Jai demanded that he wants to meet the children, she would have accepted. The child was not born at that time and Bani was purely thinking the whole PR issue from a daughter's POV and that makes a difference and she need not snatch a live child from him like he did…

Originally posted by: Je_aime

Ash, The mobile phone incident and the rest happened after the birthday party incident…Before that Bani did not suspect Jai at all dear…Which is similar to Bani's case…just like Jai did not suspect Bani when she went out with Pushkar, Bani did not suspect Jai when he went out in unusual time and when she asked about it he snapped her remember…

Pri, Yes Jai separated her from her children due to duress… Yes he did not have any other option but he did have the option to not be down right cruel right? If the children were just taken from Bani in a more normal way, it would not have been that wrong…But the way he snatched the kids make a hell lot of different dear… and dear it is very much different with Jai being separated from the child in a sense that the children were not born then…she was only thinking about herself and how much she had to suffer because of the accident…But after the child birth, Bani would be thinking in a mother's view. Yap she planned to take away the child from him but when she was near him, she never stopped him from talking to his child when the child was the womb right? It was Jai himself who said that he might not get an opportunity to see the child but had Jai demanded that he wants to meet the children, she would have accepted. The child was not born at that time and Bani was purely thinking the whole PR issue from a daughter's POV and that makes a difference and she need not snatch a live child from him like he did…

Meena,

You gave bani a break by saying once the child was born she would feel differently and and not take the child away. We don't know that. She has time and again said that once she writes over the property to Jai she would go far away and raise her child as her world.

If we can say that bani would have not taken the child away why can't we give JW the same break. The whole MA incident happened in few days. He first had to neutralize Pia's marriage threat which he did. Why are we assuming that he would have let Bani rot. Why don't we also give him the benefit of the doubt that he would have done something.

Originally posted by: m3ghna

Meena,

You gave bani a break by saying once the child was born she would feel differently and and not take the child away. We don't know that. She has time and again said that once she writes over the property to Jai she would go far away and raise her child as her world. Yap dear, she has said that we also dont know if would have done that, do you?😉

If we can say that bani would have not taken the child away why can't we give JW the same break. The whole MA incident happened in few days. He first had to neutralize Pia's marriage threat which he did. Why are we assuming that he would have let Bani rot. Why don't we also give him the benefit of the doubt that he would have done something. Megs, aren't we talking about snatching the children?😕😕😕 I am really not talking about letting Bani rot in the MA hell, that is a totally different issue all together...All i am saying is why had to Jai be so cold when snatching the children? He could have showed some of his emotions in his eyes if he could not talk to her? Is that also so difficult or was Pia monitoring his eyes as well?😕😕