Guide to Parenting by Shilpa Sharma MESSAGE pg37 - Page 28

I beseech God for ease!

Sorry for the delay and small step...as they say, 'there are no small steps only small thoughts'. Life is intruding heavily upon my time...regardless I present.

Step thirteen - 'Live' Pause.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Vk0J6-fs9w[/YOUTUBE]

As an adult we learn that pausing life is difficult, however for the sake of our child's sanity we must learn to 'live' pause it. For we may be able to pause and smell the roses along our paths but by becoming those roses we may 'live' pause life and taste all of its wondrous beauty as we sway along life's routed way.

{Lesson number thirteen by Mayank. Life is like an escalator, whether you stand, sit or sleep, it is forever moving forwards.}

Shilpa Aunty understands that although finding time to pause life is improbable, it is far more impossible to rewind or fast forward past burgeoning feelings, as Mayank tries too.

In the scenes previous to this, we witness Mayank fast forward the conclusion of his discussion with CJ; mute Nupur and rewind their relationship back to a point where they were mere acquaintances. Naivety indeed, for as Shilpa Aunty understands, no matter how many times you may rewind life eventually you have to either play forward or eject!

I applaud MJHT for their well rounded characterization of Shilpa Aunty; a parent but also a woman who intertwines classic wisdom with modern charm. When life impinges upon her leisure time, she 'live' pauses the intrusion and saturates her conversation with Nupur in filmy fun! This 'live' pausing can only be accomplished by the joyful at heart; those souls whom beauty itself seeks out for respite!

Impressively MJHT creators depict Shilpa Aunty as Mayu's mom as much as Shilpa Sharma. In maintaining this distinction before her son she imparts the grace for him to reciprocate. For Mayank Sharma is not only Mayu, but Mayank the trustworthy friend, Mayank the gentleman lover and Mr Mayank Sharma the husband.

Majority of parents 'static' pause their child's development in childhood if not new born baby period, unable to accept evolving avatars, they stagnate through cotton wool suffocation. Shilpa Aunty refreshingly welcomes Nupur to share her home and her most beloved object that resides therein.

Much to Mayank's chagrin she talks to her ally openly in the face of his hostility; unable to unpause this 'live' pause he leaves, understanding that in this scene he is a mere man between two women's friendship.

That final effervescent beaming smile of Shilpa Aunty's encompassing the joy of a mother but also a woman.

Quoting you, awwwwww so beautifully put Sabah "She pushes off this merry-go-round at a gentle pace, slowly caressing Mayu's head and that special sass of hers, also known as Smart Alec Sharma Sarcasms, lulling him into a false sense of security before she begins a whirl of tortuous discursiveness."👏 👏 👏

You have described each and every part of this scene so well Sabah. Arjun and Vaishnavi certainly have as always acted way beyond the script and added their own beauty to it, some actors have this charm that it automatically gets transferred to their work and so is the case with these two brilliant actors!👏

I agree, M doesn't understand what Shilpa aunty does, actually I feel Sabah, see again I am using possibly hehe😆, he does understand deep down inside but doesn't want to accept it or think much about it, he is just trying to escape from it and thus getting more trapped in his mind.

I agree with the last bit and I think M is all set and geared for the vertigo ahead, he won't give up so easily would he? But at times I feel accepting our true feelings is one of the courageous things to do which we get to witness ahead.😃

God bless you as always,😳

Senny.

Originally posted by: Divya_kaldivya

Beautifully written Sabah.. but I missed your starting line, I beseech God...
I forgot to add, I would like to say due to tiredness but more likely senility! Thanks for reminder and noticing...edited, my sweet friend with the sweetest most sincere voice!😳
LOve Sabah

As an adult we learn that pausing life is difficult, however for the sake of our child's sanity we must learn to 'live' pause it. For we may be able to pause and smell the roses along our paths but by becoming those roses we may 'live' pause life and taste all of its wondrous beauty as we sway along life's routed way. hii sabah first of all thanx a lot for the pm dear ok now about this part awesooooooooome as usual sweety loved it to the core very well said dear simply loved these lines yaar absolutely right for ones child's sake a mother or a parent must learn to live is difficult this is absolutely right dear as u have written...........

{Lesson number thirteen by Mayank. Life is like an escalator, whether you stand, sit or sleep, it is forever moving forwards.}superb lesson by our mayu i completely agree with him dear zindagi paani ki lehar ki tarah hoti hai, jismein humein behte hi rehna hai, chahe jitne bhi toofaan aaye,lehron mein jitne bhi utar-chadaav aate hain woh bhi humaari hi zindagi ka hissa ban jaate hain love u mayu for this lovely lesson.........

Shilpa Aunty understands that although finding time to pause life is improbable, it is far more impossible to rewind or fast forward past burgeoning feelings, as Mayank tries too. shilpa aunty is absolutely right i completely agree with her, unhone zindagi bahut dekhi hai aur unhe pata hai ki yaadein zindagi ka hissa hai, haan kadvi ho ya meethi yaadein humesha saath rehti hain.......aur koi unhe chahkar bhi mita nahin sakta hai.......

In the scenes previous to this, we witness Mayank fast forward the conclusion of his discussion with CJ; mute Nupur and rewind their relationship back to a point where they were mere acquaintances. Naivety indeed, for as Shilpa Aunty understands, no matter how many times you may rewind life eventually you have to either play forward or eject!shilpa aunty knows that life is not always a bed of roses she is such a mature and an understanding parent i love her......and respect her a lot.......

I applaud MJHT for their well rounded characterization of Shilpa Aunty; a parent but also a woman who intertwines classic wisdom with modern charm. When life impinges upon her leisure time, she 'live' pauses the intrusion and saturates her conversation with Nupur in filmy fun! This 'live' pausing can only be accomplished by the joyful at heart; those souls whom beauty itself seeks out for respite! oh sabah i so loved this last line dear really shilpa aunty is truly a woman of substance rocking woman, doting mom, and an adorable-cute-bubbly saas i must say yaar, nups is so lucky to have her......and mayu is damn lucky man.......

Impressively MJHT creators depict Shilpa Aunty as Mayu's mom as much as Shilpa Sharma. In maintaining this distinction before her son she imparts the grace for him to reciprocate. For Mayank Sharma is not only Mayu, but Mayank the trustworthy friend, Mayank the gentleman lover and Mr Mayank Sharma the husband.absolutely right sweety really that's why i love MJHT so-so much for depicting their characters in so many different shades and attributes.......most memorable characters indeed.......

Majority of parents 'static' pause their child's development in childhood if not new born baby period, unable to accept evolving avatars, they stagnate through cotton wool suffocation. Shilpa Aunty refreshingly welcomes Nupur to share her home and her most beloved object that resides therein.bco'z she is shilpa aunty yaar as i have mentioned before nups and mayu are the luckiest human beings on earth to have her in their life......

Much to Mayank's chagrin she talks to her ally openly in the face of his hostility; unable to unpause this 'live' pause he leaves, understanding that in this scene he is a mere man between two women's friendship. mayu is certainly a mature and an understaning man use pata hai ki jab do aurtein aapas mein baat kar rahin ho toh uska koi kaam nahin hai beech mein........so better leave them alone with each other..........

That final effervescent beaming smile of Shilpa Aunty's encompassing the joy of a mother but also a woman. that's why i love, adore and respect shilpa aunty so much, truly a woman of substance indeed........

hey sabah rocking ud dear loved it yaar..........