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Posted: 5 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Soanz.19


Ok. I don't wish to have this conversation with you further because clearly I'm talking to a wall😅. Aur justify karte raho pyaar ke naam pe physical abuse🤪

Have a good day!!

It's a completely different world view ,isn't it and while it is appalling to read some of the posts here you know there is no arguing with this mindset.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dahibhalle

It's a completely different world view ,isn't it and while it is appalling to read some of the posts here you know there is no arguing with this mindset.

Riding on the high horse, are we?

There is no condoning the slap, but don't you think there exists a mindset on this very Forum that has been justifying something more somber and grave like blackmail and two counts of attempted murder?

So why call out on this mindset only?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: bashful_moon

Riding on the high horse, are we?

There is no condoning the slap, but don't you think there exists a mindset on this very Forum that has been justifying something more somber and grave like blackmail and two counts of attempted murder?

So why call out on this mindset only?

Repeating what I have written before, fictional characters can do whatever they want as long as the audience watching them is ok with it ,the one's who are not ok with it have the option of not watching.

My problem arises with posts being ok with slapping in real life.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

It's a completely different world view ,isn't it and while it is appalling to read some of the posts here you know there is no arguing with this mindset.

Let's keep hitting each other and the kids as well... because hey, we love each other

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Posted: 5 years ago
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This doesn't look right at all!

We may all love on screen characters but how can we go to such an extent that we even start justigfying wrong action in real world.

Blakmailing as wrong as slapping in real life for whatever reasons. I wonder how many of us have loved being slapped? Slap is one of the most insulting action.

Critisize fictional characters as much as you want, love them as much as you wish but don't take it to a level where you end up writing a long list to justify slapping in real world.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dahibhalle

Repeating what I have written before, fictional characters can do whatever they want as long as the audience watching them is ok with it ,the one's who are not ok with it have the option of not watching.

My problem arises with posts being ok with slapping in real life.

That is problematic for sure. But equally problematic is the justification of parental love and child's welfare corroborated by real life instances behind the blackmail. There are plenty of such justifications still afloat in the very Forum.

Thank God I'm still to come across the justification of attempted murder corroborated with real life.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: bashful_moon

That is problematic for sure. But equally problematic is the justification of parental love and child's welfare corroborated by real life instances behind the blackmail. There are plenty of such justifications still afloat in the very Forum.

Thank God I'm still to come across the justification of attempted murder corroborated with real life.

This is just classic whataboutism😆

My posts are not of a Bajaj supporter trolling Anurag fans -if this thread was just about fictional characters Mol and Moh,I wouldn't have bothered.

Domestic violence is an issue I am rather passionate about and I just want everyone reading to be very clear that there is NO justification for a husband slapping his wife or vice- versa at least in civilised societies.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

Hey, I am sorry to interfere. If its okay I would like to ask and add something.

That is problematic for sure. But equally problematic is the justification of parental love and child's welfare corroborated by real life instances behind the blackmail. There are plenty of such justifications still afloat in the very Forum. Were these justifications made to validate blackmailing in Real Life or just restricted to the show and its character?

Thank God I'm still to come across the justification of attempted murder corroborated with real life. Rarely we'd find justification for murder or attempt to murder because the act has been established as a crime that too a grave one.

Sadly instead of restricting justification for slapping to the fiction, this post of is kind of an effort in validating it real life and thats the only problematic part for me.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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A big NOOOO to the slap from me. No amount of justification can make a wrong right. And no one can decide whether the one on the receiving end deserves it or not. It was uncalled for.

Moloy could have lashed at her for questioning the girls character when mohini never exhibited that amount of contempt even for komo. His ultimatum could have hit the nail but this slap has enraged her more to the point of no return. Now moh is threatened that pre is omnipresent in the minds of BB men and she is all set to destroy the girls peace of mind.

The trigger point for moloy's slap was his guilt for not supporting pre and to atone to it he too is taking extreme measures. But in all this mess Pre and her unborn baby is the collatral damage. All are having one track mind when it comes to pre but no one questions the vile mushroom who popped out of nowhere claiming to be wife. For all they know, she could be a criminal on the run or a terrorist. What am i even thinking?. Logic in the show is a NO SHOW.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Soanz.19


Ok. I don't wish to have this conversation with you further because clearly I'm talking to a wall😅. Aur justify karte raho pyaar ke naam pe physical abuse🤪

Have a good day!!

Even I don't wish to drag this conversation on fictional characters. People, including me believe what we want to believe. It's upto us to sort out what's right and what's wrong wisefully. And we should practice mindfulness every single moment of our lives while living in this complicated world. I have said what I have to say and I won't repent for it ever since I haven't justified violence in the name of love.

By the way, it's pleasure to get to know you. All the best.

“Na hi verena verani

sammantidha kudachanam

averena cha sammanti

esa dhammo sanantano

Meaning: Hatred can never be appeased by Hatred. It can only be appeased by loving-kindness( Avairaya or Maithriya ). This is an ancient law!

Gautama Buddha's words, verse 5 of Dhammapada. "

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