Blast From The Past! Thread #3 EP 52 Pg 147 - Page 67

Originally posted by: indi52

i just answered a very interesting question on another thread: when did khushi start getting a soft corner for asr, was it when she saw asr hugging la, or much earlier.

after answering and looking at all the caps, i wanted to post it here.

it's thanks to doctor and risha, siaa and all you guys here, this whole period is fresh and clear in the head, still thrilling, still driving me nuts.

will do a short one on 45 later tonight. the reply got me right up to that episode.

here goes:

that lavanya moment. but yes, that hit her hard. it's one thing to keep all your feelings buried (mainly because you don't understand them at all), and go about doing what you believe is right. in this case, bringing him and lavanya back together again was that, in her opinion. but it is another to watch your man (yes, your heart has started marking him) put his arms around another woman in front of your eyes. tears will well up and escape the well guarded fantasy of don't care.

having built this awareness and emotion so fascinatingly, how could the makers go haywire after kidnap is way beyond me.

extremely long answer. apologies.

Link to 44 at page 82 under 43 as 42,43,and 44 are on the same page

@INDI

arshi,

agreed.

no question redemption of shyam. the man is dirty. nothing can change that. it's a nature thing.

and no need for any redemption of the pure one with the hard exterior. realisation that's all. and may his gussa always be there. his nature, clean and fair, his ability to love and give without limit, his respect for to each his own delightful.

give me a yelling clean man any day over a sweet "wise" honey tongue black heart man.

hi everybody,
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Originally posted by: charlotte74

Great post Indi!

I have been thinking the exact same thing watching the episodes from the red saree scene.

Khushi's feeling started way before but ...

I think she never wanted to acknowledge her feelings even to herself because she could never understand how she could feel that way toward a man who was being rude to her.

This continued for a long time as Arnav's behaviour ran hot and cold and then hot again.

But I have felt that Khushi's feeling could have become clear during the 3 months MU phase post hate marriage.

I have always wished that

1) Arnav had told her why he married her in about a month and a half maybe around Heer Ranjha

2) Khushi discovers Arnav's parents' suicide and gets a semblance of understanding as to why he won't believe her and is determined to proved her innocence

3) In the process she realizes she is doing all this because she loves him and tells him but before he can react he gets kidnapped

Then Arnav's I love you and Khushi's mission to save him would have been more believable.

Somehow the 'Hum bhi aapse I love you dammit' after such a long time didn't cut it. But I guess they wanted to go the old fashioned way and have the man say it first.

Anyway bridge under the water I guess

thanks, charlotte.

in bold there, that was at the heart of the whole thing, wasn't it? why was she feeling such things for a man who was constantly nasty to to her. firstly a small town girl with no exposure to men and all the complexities of love, secondly, uff he was mean. and yet those feelings. how gorgeous, that she still felt things. someone in ipk really understood love and its inexplicable element. how in the end it is like faith in the eternal. you love because you love. not because your ideas of what can or cannot be loved are met. beautiful. both accepted the other finally, as they were. though i do wish khushi had not said she wasn't his patni that night. but that was when story had taken a toss and creatives had lost their way, so no comments. thank g though, they showed the two making love and submitting to their feelings before the totally unnecessary remarriage.

Originally posted by: indi52

cynthia, ami,
i see your 45 and 46 are in. will read after i jot my thoughts down 😳. was thinking, much as i loved their scenes when they were resolved and together in the love of theirs, the beauty of these unresolved days, and even later, during the tension over contract, post forced marriage hate love, all of that was just too sublime. real life almost didn't touch it, yet it was so real so plausible. great instinct for love and its ways in the writers and in the performers, also directors.

Hi! it has been way too long since I have been able to sit down, read and speak to you girls. I like vacation much better than real life! haha. My husband came home and made a surprise visit to us for the week so it is now going to be even more difficult to spend time here, so my plans for reading and commenting will have to be prolonged until later.
I love this thread and all the views(some similar, some different, some more in depth) of everyone.
IPK has been a show that has changed my life. The intensity of these star crossed lovers has brought me back to the belief that love conquers all! I was born and raised in the USA, into an Italian American family and it took an Indian serial for my faith and belief in an intense soul mate type love to be renewed. (I feel I have found my Laad Govenor for we have been together over 35 years). I have watched many serials in my life but none has touched me as intensely as IPK and these two actors characters. Unbelievable! I know it is the characters of Arnav and Kushi and not the actors themselves, that are responsible for this intense attraction to IPK. Barun and Sanaya are incredible actors for it is their portrayal of these characters that has attracted me. (The two of them in real life, are still just young adults, silly and learning to mature).I just love these earlier tracks for the intensity of budding love or attraction is so powerful. I see now that he was hit hard much more than Kushi at first. I believe her naivety was why she didn't understand why he was always on her mind. I recently saw the episode when Kushi sells her bangles and decorates his office with the plants she bought with that money to get Lavanya and him back together. He goes to Lavanya 's apt. to take her back to his house and when he hugs Lavanya, she feels hurt. I believe this is the actual moment when she realizes that she feels for him. It was so awesome. So I think that his attraction to her was the catalyst to deny these emotions there by treating her badly. He realized first and she was much slower in recognition.
I look forward to when I can just sit back and read what everyone has written as i sojourn through this journey with you all!