Geet - Now I Cannot Relate To - Page 4

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

MC syndrome..!!!!

I may not hold medical knowledge but being a woman I do know the trauma a mother goes through..rather a couple. But I blame the creatives for not showing it effectively & what shown only made it seem that her trauma was only for Maan to see.
Maan tried his best to hold on to her but she 'cocooned' in her 'self' pity/grief not for once reached out to him, feel his pain.... I still remember his shattering when he said to Geet for 'our Baby's sake' lets go to the Doctor & Geet said I'm fine & 'my Baby is fine'.
When she apologized he understood her having been left all by herself has affected her to hold on to 'self'. He assured her its no more I or U now but We.

Yet when the Baby was gone it was only her grief that she was occupied with. Yes she is mother but does a father love his child any less.....if she was holding the child in her womb...Maan was holding it in his heart, he had no 'self' ties with the Baby but to him it was his, theirs.

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Hey Bulbul...
Thanks a ton dear...I know many have moved away from the show for various reasons now..major being the cause of the show died with Geet forgiving her sinner & walking out of her marriage over few rude words..few words were big enough for her not to want to see the man who is God's blessing to her for forever ... And now Maan's humiliation is intolerable for real fans of the show as is Geet's selfish attitude.

I'm just watching it for Maan...he continues to make me still feel the respect, trust , pride & love in the character...as I said its characters that have me glued..I lost Geet ..I pray not to lose Maan

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

beautifully written nandu....i loved this part that maan held the baby in his heart....true....maan was not the biological father....so, he did not feel any blood ties with the baby...so watever feeling he had was from his heart and by his heart....and as such he is affected as much as geet by the MC....

i guess more than any real father....maan feels more for the baby.....because maan's reason for loving the baby is love itself....love that he has for geet and the bond that he shares with her....

Originally posted by: Sahil0225

Nandita....I agree completely...I have tried to portray this in posts so many times before...but it always seemed that everyone started portraying me as someone who didn't like Geet and only liked Maan....not true....

Par Geet ka kuch ziyada hi hogay hai ab....I mean...as a wife and woman....not acceptable.....in my eyes....she is not in depression anymore....she has been all bubbly and happy after the MC...we saw that when she was making Holi preparations....when she was teasing Lucky....I think she likes everyone feeling pity for her....and Maan doing everything and taking all the abuse for her....she knows he is doing everything for her....and he will....no matter what....that's why he is so loved and respected...because I know for a fact my husband would not go through all this to manovify me....not that I would act like Geet....😆

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

beautifully written nandu....i loved this part that maan held the baby in his heart....true....maan was not the biological father....so, he did not feel any blood ties with the baby...so watever feeling he had was from his heart and by his heart....and as such he is affected as much as geet by the MC....

i guess more than any real father....maan feels more for the baby.....because maan's reason for loving the baby is love itself....love that he has for geet and the bond that he shares with her....

Originally posted by: monikaseth

Great Post Dear ....................She is finish for me ................i cant relate her any more....

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

I'm a MaanEet fan..anybody thinking otherwise is not my concern..its their problem..but yes I relate to Maan so I voice him...being a girl does not mean I have to side a female character even if she is wrong..nor my siding male has anything to do with attraction to opposite gender..its about understanding & being human. I'm an human, an individual much before I am a woman.

So never bother about being tagged by those who themselves are blindfolded by their biasness.

From the beginning..ever since she left HP to her it has been about herself ONLY. First you tend to agree that being lonely made her so..but Maan healed it so only she could move on ..yet she refuses to let go of that 'self' thing ..where is WE in her dictionary..!
Depression.!! well only for Maan to see bas.

Originally posted by: hkhb17

Same here Nandita, I'm only watching it for Maan as right now he is the only decent one and his character continues to be brilliant. He is far from perfect but at least he is not arrogant enough to ask for forgiveness when a mistake has been done. His love for her is limitless and it saddens to see when Geet treats him that way.

Maybe he should put his foot down and say enough is enough. I've been with you every step of the way. Yes I faltered but I'm only human!
Now Dev and Darji's entry just makes this series difficult to watch unless they both start teaching Geet a lesson in reality, true love and the art of forgiveness!