Geet - Now I Cannot Relate To - Page 3

Originally posted by: kuls11

First she forgive Dev he rapist for Maan why not than she tried to forgive than Maan for Maan.

A guy like Maan who did so much doesn't deserve forgiveness....for one statement on self respect..because if he was her strong pillar.....and Dev and Darji were none....so they can get away with crime sin like Rape.or murder attempt...........So in that sense we are preaching a new theory that you should not do anything selflessly for others........and than other will expect you to be perfect like GOD when you are human being at end of day...............and .same other will not forgive small mistake from you as its not expected from GOD and will forgive sin from other as they were from human being...MAAN seriously did big mistake by loving you selflessly unconditionally''.

And whats about her post MC depression syndrome post MC depression syndrome.....which work situationaly......she is normal all around even DEV and Dadaji............and his MC syndrome work only agsint MAAN...........New depression symtom .........you forgive one and give attitude to other..........in depression I heard and saw first time...........

If not this for her fake pseudo self respect is ....she is letting MSK self respect tarnished to death......Everyone is insulting him questioning his principles nor she stood for Maan once nor she stopped anyone to stop their crap............First check your principles before questioning other...........A wife abuser .........a murder who killed you almost questioning THE MAAN SINGH KHURANA PRINCIPLES............who's principle ...made you realize your self respect at first place in HP ...who fought for your self respect ( during rasika or restaurant manager time ) more than you...........But WHAT kept you quiet mum when everyone was insulting him questioning him........downgrading his self respect.............IS your ego or pseudo self respect is bigger than his existence or his support in your life........than being wife you allowed your relatives to insult your own husband..................in this way and still you managed to not utter one word for him ..........Why you were quiet and not utter single world to show your faith in his principles.......you dont believe in his principles for which he fought with Brij ti save your life twice and for which he broke all ties with Dev for you.....who taught you at first place how to stand for your self respect and right......Seriously you dont belive in his principles...

IF yes than only GOD knows what principles you follow......you allow everyone on this earth to insult him......be it wife abuser or murder...........you forgive every criminal so easily and what they did to you and ....................Forget what Maan did for you and against those whom you chose to forgive without punishment to attain ultimate Nirvana.........HOPE you achieved that........and these infinite insults are quite boost to your self respect...

.So in future we should expect more and more insult of your stupid husband who loved you selflessly

Special Mention to creative's

Creative's you have made Geet character a shear torture her tears look fake....her concern for MAAN look fake.........her self respect look fake.................only her arrogance .......attitude.......... ego look real......

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Hope against hope ..is the situation...until she reflects of her own role in the misunderstanding, until she feels that she owed him an explanation, regrets her decision that has brought this day on them....until this done ..she has no hope nor the show

Originally posted by: kuls11

Nandu she was in MC....depression........but the day she forgave DEV........in night she all bubbly chirpy................so from that day she was not in depression...............she was before that................for forgiving Maan..........IN present scenario.............in amritsar if you ask me she is in depression..................than she has no depression symptoms............I have seen depression patient all myself in real life.......she dont have single depression symptom right now...as Kay said......right now she is not in depression.............

Originally posted by: kuls11

Nandu she was in MC....depression........but the day she forgave DEV........in night she all bubbly chirpy................so from that day she was not in depression...............she was before that................for forgiving Maan..........IN present scenario.............in amritsar if you ask me she is in depression..................than she has no depression symptoms............I have seen depression patient all myself in real life.......she dont have single depression symptom right now...as Kay said......right now she is not in depression.............

Originally posted by: Shweta13

Agree with you on that, forget about the self respect though the things started from it but today I felt , it didnt even portay her love for her man. It was completely her anger and false ego which was expressed.

Originally posted by: Shweta13

Geet I felt connected to was the woman who had not given up Dev when he had after a night of pleasure had left her at airport drugged, crying, scared,unprotected, in trauma..unconscious.

Yet she refused to give up on the sacred bond of matrimony, on her husband of one night.

She fought with herself , with her family that she cannot let go of her marriage, she wanted to hear Dev's reason to have abandoned her, to tell him she cared for him.

She did all she could to keep her marriage.

But I cannot relate to the woman who walked out of her true marriage.
Walked away from the man who protected her, her tears have always scorched his soul, her happiness he holds above everything else, her self respect above his own pride.

She walked out of her marriage, leaving her love , her man & her home for few rude words alone.

Yes the one we love & trust their words hurt us the most but don't their pain affect us first too.

But still has not felt his pain, his fear that caused his emotional outburst.

Instead of feeling his pain, confronting him with her own hurt she walked away from him for forever. And now who refuses to feel for his pain of going through all this humiliation. No I cannot relate to this woman.

Originally posted by: Bul3

beautiful post Nandita..I totally agree..I am no more attached to the show emotionally or I am no more watching it for its substance!..the only reason I am watching it is because of Maan,GC-DD and their chemistry..it is no more the show which I was proud of watching..its now just a show which I watch for just"pure entertainment"..its no more a show where I would think about episodes or characters for hours..its just a show where I dont stress about what is shown is right or wrong!..I am still addicted to the show but the reasons are totally different!..

Originally posted by: hkhb17

Hi I've been a silent reader of this forum. But today, I have to comment. What everyone has said is so true. I think CV is making a mockery of the magic of GHSP. And I do agree, right now she does not have a single symptom to suggest she is depressed.

I truly cannot relate to her at the moment as I cannot understand how she can still have that sindoor on and mangalsutra and yet watch and listen to everyone ill-treat her husband. She knows Maan has a temper and yet despite all that humiliation, he is controlling it only because he loves her. What more can she want? Everytime she is in difficulty, he is a rock. And now he made a mistake, he said a few rude words when he actually wasnt aware of the truth and instead of talking to him and clearing it out, she packs and leave. He has now come to her and repeatedly ask for forgiveness for he is truly upset with what he has done. Instead of forgiving him, she stands there and lets the humiliation and condemnation of her husband continue.... What a wife?! and yet she had the courage to forgive Dev for their future!!!

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

geet handa and maan khurana....these r the two characters that got us hooked to the show....never before seen love saga....literally "cant live widout each other" sort of love story kept us loyally attached to the show...

geet handa...the woman of today...a mere 18 year old girl cheated by dev in the worst way possible....even before she tasted the bliss of marriage and love....her fake hubby slept with her and next day abandoned her to fend for herself...
her own family stood against her....even tried to kill her....


a woman of today does not only live for herself and her family...she lives for the society....she lives to set example as a woman of substance to other downtrodden women....and geet had the potential to do that....she fought against all odds to strive for justice...to protect her baby out of wedlock....

today....her excuse is that she wants to leave behind her past...she wants to free maan of his hatred for dev....
y so...maan's hatred is justified...y shud he stop hating a criminal who spoiled his wife's life...maan who has always abided by his principles of justice....y shud he forgive dev....

and as a woman of today how come she strives to find peace in her life by letting dev go free....for a today's woman peace shud come from punishing her perpetrator and not by forgiving him..