#Hallelujah
#THANKGOD #SomeoneHadToSayIt
Finally someone sees the light.
First things first I AM ALSO A TEENAGER, and I DO NOT see the argument that teenagers do not understand the gravity of their actions or their consequences (that is, the impact these actions will have on others.)
It had just become rather difficult to hear people tell ME what I am like (that is teenagers do not understand the severity of their actions, etc.). And then being told that I'm in the minority for having the basic understanding of right and wrong does not exactly help.
but then again, I respect everyone's right to an opinion, though I do reserve my right to question it.
Ok after this, my sympathy for Shravan has just gone up just a bit MORE. This is because I'm putting myself in his situation (and I highly recommend that you all do too, before judging his character in the idealistic manner many seem to do), if something like that happened to me, and the one person who I trusted to be my "best-friend" would've reacted THAT way, after 1.) I look clearly depressed, dishevled. and in need of a friend, 2.) I repeatedly tell her that it's something important, and 3.) I f**kING EVEN TELL HER SOMETHING LIKE THAT HAPPENED, ESPECIALLY AFTER SHE KNOWS ABOUT THE WAY THINGS HAVE BEEN IN MY HOUSEHOLD, I probably would've taken it MUCH worser than Shravan did.
I'm sorry but I just CAN'T hold it against Shravan for being this pissed at her, and the fact that he DID try to ignore her makes me want to give him a standing ovation. Agar main hoti, toh straight from the get-go I would've demanded some answers as soon as this person tried speaking to me and jatao-ing their place as my "friend" (best-friend toh DOOR ki baat hoti). And then when she said "itni bhi badi baat nahi thi" and then the "bhagoda" confrontation that re-opened his wounds...I never have and never will support the way he did it, but man do I UNDERSTAND WHY.
And the way she spoke of his personal matters in public, something along the lines of "I don't care if your mom and dad had a fight again!" How would you feel, honestly, if you were in his place, having just found out this awful news about your mom, being humiliated by your "friend" and now being humiliated in public with everyone ALSO knowing the daily happenings of his family behind closed doors!? I'm sorry but mujhse toh dekha bhi nahi jaa raha tha, can't imagine how he actually lived through that experience.
Seriously how is this bachpana (might make another ENTIRE post on this topic), how can you just label this is as teenage bewakoofi and move on? HOW? I AM young Suman and young Shravan's age right now, maybe that's why I see this much clearer than a lot of people. Because this isn't about bewakoofi and what not, this is about simple right and wrong, something I was taught in freakin KINDERGARDEN. Having said that, I love today's Suman, and like Pushkar said, she isn't the same person anymore, I want to know more about what lead to that transformation. It doesn't mean I support easily forgiving her past mistakes, but I do support the idea of Shravan looking into her transformation and now that his bhadaas is out. As for when they mend their friendship, I believe that's Shravan's call to make, whenever he feels like he's seen and heard enough to move on from his past hurt (which is significant enough for me to let him be the character that calls the shots in this department).
Alright thanks Zozo for this lovely post 🤗
Peace,
Kriti ❤️
Edit: With regards to the law and bullying, I replied to a post with a similar theme on page 3 (towards the bottom). But long story short, in most countries teenagers AND children are held accountable for these actions, the law does see them as being able tell right from wrong and to be able to understand the implications of their actions.
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