Something Serious - but Important *Small Note* - Page 7

@Jerry - its honestly heartbreaking to see that people have to resort to suicide. No one can ever understand the predicament and that is why its very important for us to highlight the issues that majority of people are just battling it out all alone.

Depression is always seen as a taboo- its not a mental disorder. People need to wakeup and stop sidelining people who have suffered it. Telling them they need medication! Medication doesn't prove that you are crazy. It helps you keep calm and before they resort to medication, there is therapy involved.

I can't keep on emphasizing on the fact of how important it is to reach out. Reach out to anyone you feel comfortable. And stop hiding yourself.

@Dumps @Perwinkle @Nikkk @Zawra @Ragini @ Anisha @iluvtwinj @Reeh- U guys are the best

My point exactly - Guys we are awesome forum section: where you have such awesome individuals you can reach out to. I am honestly so happy to see how guys came out. Thank you J

@Fangirl1012 @Sayli (Sweet Sau) Thank you for sharing your side. See all of you have crossed the first step. We often forget whats important because we all are busy in the rat race. Before anything see how you are.

Life is never perfect- what we see on television is just a way to escape. Its good to take time out and that's why its called entertainment.

But what's important is how you are as a person. Appreciate the little things that are around you. Pass a smile to a stranger, reach out to a person or relative. Small things matter and we often forget that.

Never forget that you are v important. They always say Be the change you want to see in the world'. Before trying to change people opinion, change yourself and remember this You Cannot please everyone in this world.

@SweetSau- it take courage to what you shared and like I said you cant please everyone. I am sure you will be able to move past it. Remember that people who don't value you as an individual are not worth dwelling upon. I am so happy to hear your parents are supportive and are helping you through this. God Bless you and keep smiling.

You crossed the first hurdle see. It wasn't that difficult.

@Lavanya - I can only imagine the pain that you are going through no one can ever understand it until you have witnessed it for yourself.

I can only tell you! You are a very strong person - to share your experience makes you not only strong but also shows how much courage we have as individuals.

Our children are our strength - your baby needs you the most. I can tell you it will only get better. My lil one is the female version of Denis the Menace - I love every part of it! And you will enjoy it too.. wait till they start crawling, walking and getting into your dresser. You are in for a treat.

Its sad that when we invest ourselves in a marriage and people don't value it. But one thing I learned from mine was that we should never ever blame ourselves. Sometimes it just a way to make us stronger individuals

The initial stages are tough but you will pull through this. And ofcourse we are always here for you.

Originally posted by: .Ragini.

Lavanya di i'm so glad u considered sharing this with us. I know it takes a lot of courage to speak up.

The positive thing about going through a bad phase is that no matter how bad it is, it'll pass.

Di, value those who value you. If people don't then its their loss and not yours. Also you are more stronger than you could possibly imagine. You have that strength in you, all it takes is a little searching

And your baby is going to be your anchor. She'll magically tramsform all your sorrows into joy.

And if you ever feel like you need to talk, we are all here. Just a click away.

Originally posted by: Filmi_Samy

@Lavanya - I can only imagine the pain that you are going through no one can ever understand it until you have witnessed it for yourself.

I can only tell you! You are a very strong person - to share your experience makes you not only strong but also shows how much courage we have as individuals.

Our children are our strength - your baby needs you the most. I can tell you it will only get better. My lil one is the female version of Denis the Menace - I love every part of it! And you will enjoy it too.. wait till they start crawling, walking and getting into your dresser. You are in for a treat.

Its sad that when we invest ourselves in a marriage and people don't value it. But one thing I learned from mine was that we should never ever blame ourselves. Sometimes it just a way to make us stronger individuals

The initial stages are tough but you will pull through this. And ofcourse we are always here for you.

Originally posted by: iluvtwinj

Thnxx for sharing it with us lavanya di

I can very well gaurantee that ur baby is gonna make ur misery filled life heaven

Life is filled with either happiness or sorrow , but we have to make the best out of things

Not everbody has a happy married life

Life is all abt meeting and partings

We meet to part n we part to meet

U will surely have the best things in life

Wish u all the best for ur bright future

Share ur thoughts n feelings with us

Originally posted by: amlavs

Thku dear...seriously am fed up of sacrifices...I only know how much I fought with some idiotic people to give birth to my baby...

Now am done...am trying to move on but it is taking time...beciz my wounds are deeper...

S its very much sad to see many people are making mrge a joke..they only needs sincerity from our self's but v shouldn't expect tat from them beciz they are men...

V women should give importance to their parents and have to be like slaves but they won't give a shit abt our parents.. Cheap mentality I must say...

But now I find peace in my daughter... She is my everything...

And thku sooo much for giving me more positive wibes and more courage to fight...plz keep on doing...will reach u when I need...

Originally posted by: Filmi_Samy

Can I say this. I am so so proud of you and yes will always be here for you. I came from a broken marriage to and I understand the damage it does to your personality and the person who u believe you were. It took me two years to get where I am now.

Dont get me started on the nonsense I heard when I gave birth to my girl - and the whole thing about the gender. Its pathetic. In today's time to - women are considered to give in no matter what the husband does - as if he is a gods gift and we were a burden. Its took me almost 6 years to come out of it because now it wasnt the question about myself it was about my daughter. People question me why i took so long but the circumstances were such that i couldnt do anything.

Trust me when I say this Daughters are mother's best friend. When those little arms cross over your neck you know that there is one person who loves you unconditionally.

Its a very tedious process to get out of it.. I flatter to still - i have my days where I break down. But what matters is how you pick yourself up and start somewhere without worrying about the world. there is more to the world then people who keep on pulling yourself down.

sorry do I sound to bitter.. but lots of luv! and more strength to you and lil one 😊

Originally posted by: Tranquility123

I'd also like to mention that Gurleen, you are one of the strongest women I've come across. It's a sad fact that a lot of females don't open up about harassment and assaults due to insecurity, fear etc. But I'm so glad that you did open up and you havent let the incident define you. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, I cant even begin to imagine your horror but know that you are a true role model to everyone on the forum. I don't really know what else to say other than you make me proud to be a female. My best wishes with you always x