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RUBAB

@Rubab_Naqvi

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 9 years ago

#51

Samy last night i was lil busy so was in hurry but i realy wanna say..

Guys if one of you is in any type of trouble are anything disturbing you plzz share with use you are not alone here okk no one is alone we all are here for each other..plzz do share i knw we can't solve all of your problm frm here but we can decrease your sadness and stress make you feel safe and will assure that everything will be alright..very soon

Plzz dont feel alone its just you will have to call us once and we are here to reply you back.. .always my inbox is teady for all of you love you guys feel free to share..

Again thank you sammy for making this much needed post

love you buddy

Edited by ZawraMalik - 9 years ago

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fangirl1012

@fangirl1012

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#52

I am so sorry I didn't see this earlier. However I just want to say that I am here for anyone who wants to talk. My inbox is always open. I have suffered from anxiety and depression and I know from experience that how isolating and frustrating the disease is. Just remember that our mental health is as important as are physical health. We may not be at the point where we want to be in our studies, career or love or martial life but trust me things do get better. Just talk to someone have people around who make you realize how important you are.

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SweetSau

@SweetSau

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

#53

Many if you might not know me as I have been a silent reader! Recently i have started commenting and communicating with you all! This idea is truely a brilliant idea I know how difficult it is to fight depression as I have fought it once and am again trying to fight it!

I have lost all my confidence in life once all because of some girls that I thought as my friends for whom I would do anything but later after using me they just threw me away like a used rag and started spreading things about me and gossiping behind my back thankfully I have brilliant parents and they brought me out of it and helped me show those girls that I'm not dumb as according to them I was dumb and they kept saying this to me making me believe it resulting to low self confidence.

I had just started to heal but the wounds of the past were still very raw that again something similar happened except this time I stopped living and so I was even afraid to converse with people I enclosed myself in the confines of my room only allowing my parents and siblings near me nobody else.

Now I have started healing and am trying to restart my life with the help of my family. So now I guess can converse with you people.

The effect was such that I was even scared to post a story that I had written but I gathered the courage and posted.

So I just want to say one thing that if anybody needs any kind of help I'm always there while battling my battle I'll be happy to hear your feelings too.

Sorry I normally don't talk this much but I felt I could share it here thanks to those who patiently read through this.

This is one brilliant idea! Loved it!

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lavanya

@amlavs

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#54

Thanku sooo much frnd...tats very sweet of u...actually its such a nice and important step u have taken @ correct time...

Luv u for this...

There is no such prob in this world tat v couldn't solve..every prob have a solution...but keeping tat prob in our mind is not good...which results affecting many life's...sharing our prob with our dear ones ll gives us satisfaction and many solutions can be made...

Suicide is such a drastic step...no one should do like tat...am deeply sad to here tat news...

No one in this world shouldn't do like tat...according to me suicide is stupidity (sorry for tat)

God has given us this life...v should thank him to create us as a human..

V should celebrate our life...prob ll come and go...wat ever happen v should have it..

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lavanya

@amlavs

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#55

Dear frnds...

Am lavanya some of u may know me...

Am going through such a very bad phase in my life now...My marriage life is drowning now...but am making my self strong enough to face it...

But I wouldn't never think abt giving up my life...becoz my six months baby needs me...my parents needs me...

As a human I found a reason to live my life..for such stupid people I won't give up...

When ever I feel sad abt my life...I ll think tat they don't deserve me..my self respect is very important for me...

From now on u all r there for me nah...I ll share my feelings with u all...am not alone from now on...u all frndz are the for me...

Luv u all...

Ur frnd

Lavanya...

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anisha

@Anisha-k.

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Love you more Nishi! 🤗

Maybe not the parental aspect, but perhaps the studies bit? Maybe they can help you in lessons that you're having trouble on?

Aww jaana, take it easy. Don't tense yourself too much.

Seriously, get help. If not from friends, then from your school. There has to be some counselors or peer mediators that you can talk to?

Nishi!?

Wow a new nickname...thanks for the new name...lol...i love nick names! 😆

I will try my best...not to stress myself a lot...

And i'll def keep in mind about whatever u said...

Thanks once again for so much support...

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anisha

@Anisha-k.

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#57

@ Gurleen @ Samy @ Naz {Tranquility}

I have one thing to say guys...THANKS A TON!!!

Everything u've said to me...was so helpful...

I just so feel so much better than before...

The way u'll explained everything to me...i'll def remember them...

I never thought i'll share such a thing...to u guys...

But the way u'll supported me is a lot to me...

THANK U SO MUCH FOR EVERY ADVICE!!!

🤗

@ Naz

Thank u so much di...i'm so happy to have a sis like u...

Awww as for the PM i'll def do that if i'm not feeling ok...

Thanks again for so much love n support...

And the thing u said about being in school most of u're time...

That's what i also do...my friends are so happy with their parents...

And i just feel so sad...when they say ''their parents are not so strict to them''...

But it's ok...

THANK U SO MUCH EVERYONE!!!❤️

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reeeh

@reeeh

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#58

@Lavanya & Filmysamy-

Lots of kisses to the pretty baby girls... I so love baby girls... ❤️ they are angels... you can spend ur whole life khushi khushi, by seeing them grow up... you will get addicted to their laughters... trust me, ur daughter will never let you feel down... they ARE the bestest gift you can ever have from God... and you both have already got it...

I have learned something from my life - whatever or whoever bothers you, learn to ignore that/them... you will be the happiest person... you have hell lots of ways that you can follow these days that can help you to ignore ANY bloody stuff/person... no one can stop you from your happiness...

On top of that, If you have a pair ears to listen you, then there you go...

My prayers, God bless...

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lavanya

@amlavs

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: reeeh
@Lavanya & Filmysamy-
Lots of kisses to the pretty baby girls... I so love baby girls... ❤️ they are angels... you can spend ur whole life khushi khushi, by seeing them grow up... you will get addicted to their laughters... trust me, ur daughter will never let you feel down... they ARE the bestest gift you can ever have from God... and you both have already got it...

I have learned something from my life - whatever or whoever bothers you, learn to ignore that/them... you will be the happiest person... you have hell lots of ways that you can follow these days that can help you to ignore ANY bloody stuff/person... no one can stop you from your happiness...

On top of that, If you have a pair ears to listen you, then there you go...

My prayers, God bless...

Thku sooo much frnd...

S am and ll be the happiest person...baby girls are gods angels...

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Ragini

@.Ragini.

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#60

Lavanya di i'm so glad u considered sharing this with us. I know it takes a lot of courage to speak up.

The positive thing about going through a bad phase is that no matter how bad it is, it'll pass.

Di, value those who value you. If people don't then its their loss and not yours. Also you are more stronger than you could possibly imagine. You have that strength in you, all it takes is a little searching

And your baby is going to be your anchor. She'll magically tramsform all your sorrows into joy.

And if you ever feel like you need to talk, we are all here. Just a click away.