Meghna is interfering in Naina's life

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Get-Lost
The only reason that I gave Meghna some benefit of doubt was because she was the only person who could actually make some drastic changes in Naina and Karan's life which she did by separating them. No issues till that point; separation was a need of the moment and a requirement of the story.
However, when people like Kunal and Vishal try to reason with her, she rebuffs them. At times you have to listen to others, even if what they are saying is against your views; Meghna lacks this. In reality we may come across people who share similar traits like Meghna's- opinionated and assertive. And maybe that's why her character seems realistic but do we actually appreciate these traits in real too?

But whose to say that Meghna's view isn't the correct one over Kunal and Vishal? They could be wrong too. The problem with perspectives everyone is right in their own way. If Meghna's not listening to Kunal's reasoning, he is not listening to hers either. But I actually fault Kunal for that a lot more because how he contributed to the mess in the first place. He screwed up big time. Now its time for him to actually think about Naina's life. He should've been talking to her and asking her what she really wants from her relationship with Karan instead of making assumptions.

I think the biggest issue in the storyline is that Naina is unsure. As long as Naina is unsure then any alternative is a viable possibility.

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sgc68

@sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

I understand her not listening to Kunal - there is a possibility of conflict of interest. But Vishal is their own. His priority would be Naina. Now that he says that Naina is not in grave danger, Meghna should give space to Naina and allow her to meet her own decision.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: sgc68
I understand her not listening to Kunal - there is a possibility of conflict of interest. But Vishal is their own. His priority would be Naina. Now that he says that Naina is not in grave danger, Meghna should give space to Naina and allow her to meet her own decision.

Yeah but Vishal also hid Karan's secret. So Meghna can't truly sure about Vishal being able to do what's right for Naina's best interests if it means creating a fuss. I think Vishal is probably a lot like Naina in that he is conflict averse. He tries to smooth over conflicts instead of actually dealing with the issue head on. I personally question why Vishal didn't at least tell Sharda. Naina being forced into a marriage with a man who may never be able to give her a normal marital life is a big thing.

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Hossain Raj

@hosnraj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: malikakas

But whose to say that Meghna's view isn't the correct one over Kunal and Vishal? They could be wrong too. The problem with perspectives everyone is right in their own way. If Meghna's not listening to Kunal's reasoning, he is not listening to hers either. But I actually fault Kunal for that a lot more because how he contributed to the mess in the first place. He screwed up big time. Now its time for him to actually think about Naina's life. He should've been talking to her and asking her what she really wants from her relationship with Karan instead of making assumptions.

I think the biggest issue in the storyline is that Naina is unsure. As long as Naina is unsure then any alternative is a viable possibility.

@Red, Yup this very much valid, that everyone has there own POV and that's y I keep saying from Meghna's POV she is correct and her actions are justified, but from some of our POV that might look bad, like for me her dragging Naina and also the over protectiveness like forbidding Naina from entering Karan's room looked bad and illogical actually, cause if it's air born Naina could be affected anywhere na, and if Meghna get's infected that could also infect Naina na, so for me it could have been either isolate Karan form everyone, or Send Naina away from the house, cause anything in between still keeps the risk of Naina getting infected...and that's y I didn't like it, but still I found logic as Meghna is impulsive and didn't think before her actions, and so I still love Meghna.. As for Kunal and Vishal being wrong, yes that is very much possible if we think from inside the show, but as viewers, we already know they are right, and so from viewers pov Meghna is being wrong, but I am glad CVs fixed it and Meghna finally understood..😳

@Bold yup that's the most important thing..Naina need's to be sure...

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Hossain Raj

@hosnraj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: sgc68
I understand her not listening to Kunal - there is a possibility of conflict of interest. But Vishal is their own. His priority would be Naina. Now that he says that Naina is not in grave danger, Meghna should give space to Naina and allow her to meet her own decision.

Meghna already did, she asked Naina to think properly but the decision is hers..😳 I am so glad CVs sorted things out and I am still loving Meghna😳

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Hossain Raj

@hosnraj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: malikakas

Yeah but Vishal also hid Karan's secret. So Meghna can't truly sure about Vishal being able to do what's right for Naina's best interests if it means creating a fuss. I think Vishal is probably a lot like Naina in that he is conflict averse. He tries to smooth over conflicts instead of actually dealing with the issue head on. I personally question why Vishal didn't at least tell Sharda. Naina being forced into a marriage with a man who may never be able to give her a normal marital life is a big thing.

honestly Meghna was being a little too impulsive, and overprotective, glad she listen to Vishal,😳 otherwise I would have been angry on her, cause she was ok with NaiRan before learning Karan's allergy was airborne, she even confirmed from Vishal, that means she trust's him enough, now when Vishal saying Karan's allergy is not airborne, makes things back to square 1 so still if she tried to forcefull keep Naina away that would be wrong, glad she let Naina decide what she wants, and advised her to think carefully..😳 ... and as for tv @ bold don't really matter😆, in almost every show we get forced marriage and couples falling in love bla bla..and no one really focus on the normal maternal life thing😛 haha they only focus on improper life in sasural🤣 which Swabhimaan is doing very well only difference is we got evil sasur and half saas...that to chance of being full saas for Meghna🤣

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Sid

@Get-Lost

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: malikakas

But whose to say that Meghna's view isn't the correct one over Kunal and Vishal? They could be wrong too. The problem with perspectives everyone is right in their own way. If Meghna's not listening to Kunal's reasoning, he is not listening to hers either. But I actually fault Kunal for that a lot more because how he contributed to the mess in the first place. He screwed up big time. Now its time for him to actually think about Naina's life. He should've been talking to her and asking her what she really wants from her relationship with Karan instead of making assumptions.

I think the biggest issue in the storyline is that Naina is unsure. As long as Naina is unsure then any alternative is a viable possibility.

@bold

I disagree. If Naina was the unsure one then she wouldn't have invested time and effort into this marriage. She had a chance to back-off from this marriage twice- once when Karan asked her to do so and second when Meghna took her away. Its only after Karan asked her leave(according to spoilers), she left the house. What she is unsure about is whether she loves Karan or not, and should she stay in a loveless marriage- its debatable but not the topic of the discussion at the moment.

You are right, just like five fingers are not equal, two people might not have same opinions. Kunal and Vishal could be wrong but they seem logical at the moment. Rather, last two episodes indicated that its Meghna who needs some sort of assurances from Kunal, Vishal and Sandy over the decision that she took solely.

Anyways, its a fiction show, and they keep some things deliberately in grey areas so that audience invests their time over it. Meghna's character is in the grey area and right now they are playing it safe. Her 'mission' of wreaking the Chauhan house is lost somewhere, its the CVs who are at fault here not Meghna and that is being translated into dropping ratings.

Cheers!

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Hossain Raj

@hosnraj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

yup CVs are really playing safe now..😆

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sgc68

@sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: malikakas

Yeah but Vishal also hid Karan's secret. So Meghna can't truly sure about Vishal being able to do what's right for Naina's best interests if it means creating a fuss. I think Vishal is probably a lot like Naina in that he is conflict averse. He tries to smooth over conflicts instead of actually dealing with the issue head on. I personally question why Vishal didn't at least tell Sharda. Naina being forced into a marriage with a man who may never be able to give her a normal marital life is a big thing.

I am glad that Vishal was professional and maintained patient confidentiality. The only person who should have shared this information with Sharda is Naina. I also feel that Vishal thinks Karan's condition is curable and therefore is working with Naina on this.

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Well would like to add one point gone are tge days when meghna was the reason of naina being in the marriage in naina s own words "jab sr hogayi tab se yeh shaadi uski shaadi thi" and naina didn't told meghna because she knew about her di s reaction she knew that meghna will not listen to anyone or understand anything she will even not consider the fact that now naina is happy with karan and he means a lot to her naina is not in this marriage because of meghna so yes meghna should over this "my guilt my fault" mode and look things from naina s perspective she is happy with karan

Love or no love but one thig that naina is very sure from thr beginning that she is happy with karan

And that is what matters about love thing nairan can handle it by themselves

Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago