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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha


This is not call lack of honesty its called confusion which naina admitted last night she doesn't know that what she feels for karan is love or not yet

Naina was never dishonest she has always expressed her feelings for karan infront of meghna in bits and parts she has akalwaysways said she is happy with karan

Only time she was dishonest was when she hid karan s disease from meghu di

And i think whoever knows naina knows that she is very emotional and when she gets emotional logic takes a back seat

She didn't wanted to hurt her di by refuting about lakshman rekha thing but at the same time she cannot live without getting glimpse of karan you see she did it in her state of confusion and desperation for her hubby dearest

That lakshman rekha was bit OTT on meghna s part

Plus that ladder scene was cute 😳

For me, that ladder scene, should've prompted Naina to realize why she wants to circumvent Meghna's lakshman rekha. And if she really believed she found a way to uphold it then why not tell Meghna? She did lie about meeting Karan in the garden. So for me that's being dishonest. I am not saying its a big deal.. I just feel without Naina confiding in Meghna its hard, for me, to expect Meghna to chill out. If anything that would make someone like Meghna even more worried.


Naina may be confused.. but that's sort of the point. If Naina's not sure.. should Kunal really be trying to push Karan to confess? Karan is in a very vulnerable situation. It was easy for Kunal to confess his love and wait for two years... but Karan has a lot more issues than Kunal. He wouldn't take even the slightest rejection well. I feel Kunal should've first gotten Naina to realize her love before going to Karan.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas

For me, that ladder scene, should've prompted Naina to realize why she wants to circumvent Meghna's lakshman rekha. And if she really believed she found a way to uphold it then why not tell Meghna? She did lie about meeting Karan in the garden. So for me that's being dishonest. I am not saying its a big deal.. I just feel without Naina confiding in Meghna its hard, for me, to expect Meghna to chill out. If anything that would make someone like Meghna even more worried.


Naina may be confused.. but that's sort of the point. If Naina's not sure.. should Kunal really be trying to push Karan to confess? Karan is in a very vulnerable situation. It was easy for Kunal to confess his love and wait for two years... but Karan has a lot more issues than Kunal. He wouldn't take even the slightest rejection well. I feel Kunal should've first gotten Naina to realize her love before going to Karan.


Agree with the last part kunal should have approached naina first

But now naina is finally confessed her feelings for karan so now i hope meghu di who has earlier went through same emotions will help her cheeku to realise her love for karan
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas

For me, that ladder scene, should've prompted Naina to realize why she wants to circumvent Meghna's lakshman rekha. And if she really believed she found a way to uphold it then why not tell Meghna? She did lie about meeting Karan in the garden. So for me that's being dishonest. I am not saying its a big deal.. I just feel without Naina confiding in Meghna its hard, for me, to expect Meghna to chill out. If anything that would make someone like Meghna even more worried.


Naina may be confused.. but that's sort of the point. If Naina's not sure.. should Kunal really be trying to push Karan to confess? Karan is in a very vulnerable situation. It was easy for Kunal to confess his love and wait for two years... but Karan has a lot more issues than Kunal. He wouldn't take even the slightest rejection well. I feel Kunal should've first gotten Naina to realize her love before going to Karan.


I think Kunal saw Naina's love for Karan in her eyes. Naina might not have recognized her feelings but Kunal has already experienced love and knows the signs.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sgc68

Meghna so far has reacted the way any older sibling would in similar circumstances. She has been put down, her family humiliated, her sister forced to marry under threat and now she finds that the man has a contagious condition. She wants out for her sister.

But now that she finds that her sister has feelings for Karen, her response is crucial. Will she be able to let go? Will she be able to respect that her sister is an adult now.

Will Karan get better? Psychology can do wonders. Till now there was no motivation for Karan to get better. But Naina doesn't see him as someone with a debilitating condition, she sees him as a normal person. Will this motivate Karan to try to be as normal as he can become?


Awesome and valid points. I don't fault Meghna either. This was very much needed. Naina, is too meek and naive at times. This might help her come out from the shadows.

Karan needs motivation. You realize the value of someone when they are gone and that is exactly what is happening here.

Realization is needed. NaiRan are in love with each other. Now, the question is, is their strong? Can it withstand and overcome Karan's illness to have a normal married life??


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sgc68


I think Kunal saw Naina's love for Karan in her eyes. Naina might not have recognized her feelings but Kunal has already experienced love and knows the signs.


Some feelings are clearly visible to others. That's what seems to happening here. Kunal can see the love but neither NaiRan or Meghna can.

Even Sandhya can see it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't really think Meghna is overacting or that her actions are unjustified. From one perspective, yes coming between a married couple and separating them does seem quite immature and perhaps she should listen more carefully nairan to voice their opinions. But, to be honest, as some of the posts, I think Meghna's character is the most realistic. Think from her perspective; her sister's marriage was literally forced and she's already blaming herself for it. Any sibling, I think would react to a situation in a similar manner, or worse may even give pressure to divorce. Meghna is refusing to see Nairan love becuz of her unconditional love and care towards Naina. I don't agree with her actions personally, but honestly, I'd react in a similar if I were to be in her situation.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shruti00013

I don't really think Meghna is overacting or that her actions are unjustified. From one perspective, yes coming between a married couple and separating them does seem quite immature and perhaps she should listen more carefully nairan to voice their opinions. But, to be honest, as some of the posts, I think Meghna's character is the most realistic. Think from her perspective; her sister's marriage was literally forced and she's already blaming herself for it. Any sibling, I think would react to a situation in a similar manner, or worse may even give pressure to divorce. Meghna is refusing to see Nairan love becuz of her unconditional love and care towards Naina. I don't agree with her actions personally, but honestly, I'd react in a similar if I were to be in her situation.


Absolutely agree with you. But now that it has been pointed out to her that Karan and Naina have fallen in love with each other and she has confronted Naina on it, the next step she takes is what will determine if she is a supportive big sister or is a busybody interfering in someone else's life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly speaking, if I think from reality, or to be more precise, from my POV, what Meghna was doing at the beaning was ok, then her dragging and all was OTT, cause I would never do such thing, and what was worse, when Kunal made her realize NaiRan might be in love, her denial was ok, but she got more hyper and said, or rather wanted that never happens, I would have preferred that she at least give it a thought and if she finds NaiRan is in love she should be rather happy for her sis, I mean that is what I would do, in short I am ok with the fact that they have been cheated and NaiRan don't love eachother, and even Karan want's her to go, so y risk Naina's health and also why let her stay with a man who don't even care for her, but if know they love eachother and she will be happy to be with him, despite of his problems, Meghna should be happy too, I accept that she don't know it and so keeping Naina away, but afraid that she might fall in love, that's what I don't like.
But If I think from the Character's POV, Meghna is impulsive, and from day one we know that, and we all know she don't think before reacting and goes complete crazy when she gets emotional shocks, and so I was totally ok with all the dragging and all, as I was expecting that from her, for me everything Meghna did till now was ok and understandable, except the fact that she was afraid Naina will fall in love, I mean that means being afraid of her happiness and that is not ok for me, but I am glad she understood what Vishal said, and so now Meghna is back to normal, she is out of her panic attack, and now she will have no problem with NaiRan and also understand their love, and so I am still loving Meghna, just that CVs spoiled my mood that that one scene,

here I would give it points to Kunl, who is happy for NaiRan, well I agree it's too early and unrealistic for him to be sure it's love, but he saw Naina's concern for Karan and Karan's changes, and for TV that's enough to determine love😆

so now it will be super fun..Meghna got to her senses but it was too late, Sandy already played her move and now NaiRan desperation coming up..and I am dam excited, lol Sandy did it again, I am just loving that bloody woman, thanks to her NaiRan will realize their feelings...🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: hosnraj

Honestly speaking, if I think from reality, or to be more precise, from my POV, what Meghna was doing at the beaning was ok, then her dragging and all was OTT, cause I would never do such thing, and what was worse, when Kunal made her realize NaiRan might be in love, her denial was ok, but she got more hyper and said, or rather wanted that never happens, I would have preferred that she at least give it a thought and if she finds NaiRan is in love she should be rather happy for her sis, I mean that is what I would do, in short I am ok with the fact that they have been cheated and NaiRan don't love eachother, and even Karan want's her to go, so y risk Naina's health and also why let her stay with a man who don't even care for her, but if know they love eachother and she will be happy to be with him, despite of his problems, Meghna should be happy too, I accept that she don't know it and so keeping Naina away, but afraid that she might fall in love, that's what I don't like.

But If I think from the Character's POV, Meghna is impulsive, and from day one we know that, and we all know she don't think before reacting and goes complete crazy when she gets emotional shocks, and so I was totally ok with all the dragging and all, as I was expecting that from her, for me everything Meghna did till now was ok and understandable, except the fact that she was afraid Naina will fall in love, I mean that means being afraid of her happiness and that is not ok for me, but I am glad she understood what Vishal said, and so now Meghna is back to normal, she is out of her panic attack, and now she will have no problem with NaiRan and also understand their love, and so I am still loving Meghna, just that CVs spoiled my mood that that one scene,

here I would give it points to Kunl, who is happy for NaiRan, well I agree it's too early and unrealistic for him to be sure it's love, but he saw Naina's concern for Karan and Karan's changes, and for TV that's enough to determine love😆

so now it will be super fun..Meghna got to her senses but it was too late, Sandy already played her move and now NaiRan desperation coming up..and I am dam excited, lol Sandy did it again, I am just loving that bloody woman, thanks to her NaiRan will realize their feelings...🤣

I really respect the fact that they didn't show Meghna okay with NaiRan being in love. Its like imagine if you told your family you wanted to marry someone with HIV.. I don't think they would be entirely happy? They'd bring up all the issues you could face in the relationship. That's not because they don't want you to be happy... its because they care about your long term happiness. Sometimes love isn't enough to sustain long term happiness. Ultimately the decision is Naina's... and Meghna made it clear by giving her the idol and telling her to think properly.

That's something I wish Kunal had done. I was a bit disappointed with Kunal. He didn't give it any consideration to what it actually means for Naina to spend her life with Karan. To me again he's putting his brothers life over Naina's life. So I am actually a little miffed with him. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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^Kunal was just unhappy with the fact that Meghna didn't take into account Naina's wishes before springing to action. He never asserted Naina to stay, he simply wanted that Naina took her own call. And about the love part, Karan & Naina are different. Meghna can give her an option cause Naina's string and independent. Karan isn't so, hence he needs to be told and guided. So Kunal did the right thing by directly asking him to accept the fact that he loves her.
Anyways, Naina is the one who'll potentially suffer in the relationship so she's ought to have an option. And Karan has no choice (of opting out) but to love her wholeheartedly 😳

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