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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .-Amethyst-.

^Kunal was just unhappy with the fact that Meghna didn't take into account Naina's wishes before springing to action. He never asserted Naina to stay, he simply wanted that Naina took her own call. And about the love part, Karan & Naina are different. Meghna can give her an option cause Naina's string and independent. Karan isn't so, hence he needs to be told and guided. So Kunal did the right thing by directly asking him to accept the fact that he loves her.

Anyways, Naina is the one who'll potentially suffer in the relationship so she's ought to have an option. And Karan has no choice (of opting out) but to love her wholeheartedly 😳


But the problem is neither did Kunal. Naina herself doesn't know what she wants and Kunal never gave her an option either. He just went straight to convince Karan. But by going to Karan he is putting indirect pressure on Naina to stay. If Karan approaches Naina, she may agree but it may not be a true choice. She may just not want to look like a bad person for leaving.

The problem with Naina is that she doesn't really want to hurt anyone but that way we (including Meghna) can never be sure of the motivation for her decision. Yesterday with her asking God to decide FOR her, means that she's not that independent minded. And if she's not sure.. then the other alternative should be put in front of her. After all its about her whole life. Kunal should've discussed what Naina wants first.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22
In a way, yeah. I think eventually Naina will get her choice for she's been asked to go away. And this time when she'll return, it'll be entirely her call.
It's natural man, Kunal will subconsciously think first for his house and then for Naina. We can't complain there, it's human behaviour. Still, I feel he's done more than enough for her as a Jiju.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Naina is a sweet and seemingly meek person. Such persons should never be underestimated. They have an inner strength which they draw upon when necessary. Naina will make a decision that is right for her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .-Amethyst-.

In a way, yeah. I think eventually Naina will get her choice for she's been asked to go away. And this time when she'll return, it'll be entirely her call.

It's natural man, Kunal will subconsciously think first for his house and then for Naina. We can't complain there, it's human behaviour. Still, I feel he's done more than enough for her as a Jiju.


I honestly don't think Kunal has done anything as a jiju, yet. I think he does though in the upcoming track where he gets her a place to stay and gives her money and stuff.


Yeah I think tis natural for Kunal to think more for his house. That's why I was relatively okay with Kunal agreeing for the marriage. But now that he's realized how much damage his ignorance has caused... I feel he should've been a bit more measured.

I think I am a bit bothered by the fact that Kunal is making it out to seem as if he thinks of Naina equally as his own when he is actually not but then trying to make Meghna out to be the wrong one. Because then Meghna isn't really wrong to be thinking of Naina's quality of life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sgc68

Naina is a sweet and seemingly meek person. Such persons should never be underestimated. They have an inner strength which they draw upon when necessary. Naina will make a decision that is right for her.

I think until Naina makes a decision from that place of strength not this wishy washiness that she is demonstrating, Meghna is right to steer her. Meghna knows that Naina is very susceptible to the feelings of others. She can easily get caught up in something that isn't healthy for her as a person. I think the burden is on Naina to prove that this is something that actually wants and not because its the path of least resistance.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas

I think until Naina makes a decision from that place of strength not this wishy washiness that she is demonstrating, Meghna is right to steer her. Meghna knows that Naina is very susceptible to the feelings of others. She can easily get caught up in something that isn't healthy for her as a person. I think the burden is on Naina to prove that this is something that actually wants and not because its the path of least resistance.


Bang on!
Now Karan too needs to prove that he deserves a Topper biwi. You can't take her for granted, she's not a use and throw thing. I like how Naina is angry with him 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas

I really respect the fact that they didn't show Meghna okay with NaiRan being in love. Its like imagine if you told your family you wanted to marry someone with HIV.. I don't think they would be entirely happy? They'd bring up all the issues you could face in the relationship. That's not because they don't want you to be happy... its because they care about your long term happiness. Sometimes love isn't enough to sustain long term happiness. Ultimately the decision is Naina's... and Meghna made it clear by giving her the idol and telling her to think properly.

That's something I wish Kunal had done. I was a bit disappointed with Kunal. He didn't give it any consideration to what it actually means for Naina to spend her life with Karan. To me again he's putting his brothers life over Naina's life. So I am actually a little miffed with him. 😆


That is my point only, lol My family won't let me marry someone and bring up the issues, if I had to marry for some reason, or casually, but If I say I love an HIV patient they will happily accept her. and for me love everything and I believing in today not future, cause what is guarantee that I won't die tomorrow only, but that's my pov, and my families pov, others might have different thinking and I just don't like that. it's my personal choice, I said na I was ok with Meghna doing all that, but when I saw her afraid of NaiRan falling in love I got scared as I thought she might try to separate them by piloting and games, and that I just can't digest and for me if a person does that no matter how much good intention he or she has, I won't accept it. but Glad CVs fixed things up and Meghna finally gave Naina the choice, I loved how she asked her to think carefully but the final choice will be her's...😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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lol NaiRan will unite, it's already written it dosen't matter what Naina thinks, so Kunal just took the shortcut..🤣 he knows NaiRan loves eachother, as I said for TV those small convo's Kunal had with Naina and Karan was enough to determine it's love😉, and so he went straight to Karan to tell hi he is in love, cause it is written that he is in love so how can he not be😆, and it is also written Naina will stay with Karan so how can she not, 🤣..as simple as that, this discussion is going too deep and moral, and realistic...but everything is already written so there is no choice for Karan or Naina or Meghna to think or do otherwise, so Kunal being the smart one just making things easy, lol maybe he read everyone's script...🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The only reason that I gave Meghna some benefit of doubt was because she was the only person who could actually make some drastic changes in Naina and Karan's life which she did by separating them. No issues till that point; separation was a need of the moment and a requirement of the story.
However, when people like Kunal and Vishal try to reason with her, she rebuffs them. At times you have to listen to others, even if what they are saying is against your views; Meghna lacks this. In reality we may come across people who share similar traits like Meghna's- opinionated and assertive. And maybe that's why her character seems realistic but do we actually appreciate these traits in real too?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Get-Lost

The only reason that I gave Meghna some benefit of doubt was because she was the only person who could actually make some drastic changes in Naina and Karan's life which she did by separating them. No issues till that point; separation was a need of the moment and a requirement of the story.

However, when people like Kunal and Vishal try to reason with her, she rebuffs them. At times you have to listen to others, even if what they are saying is against your views; Meghna lacks this. In reality we may come across people who share similar traits like Meghna's- opinionated and assertive. And maybe that's why her character seems realistic but do we actually appreciate these traits in real too?


agreed...😳

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