Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha
Well would like to add one point gone are tge days when meghna was the reason of naina being in the marriage in naina s own words "jab sr hogayi tab se yeh shaadi uski shaadi thi" and naina didn't told meghna because she knew about her di s reaction she knew that meghna will not listen to anyone or understand anything she will even not consider the fact that now naina is happy with karan and he means a lot to her naina is not in this marriage because of meghna so yes meghna should over this "my guilt my fault" mode and look things from naina s perspective she is happy with karan
Love or no love but one thig that naina is very sure from thr beginning that she is happy with karan
And that is what matters about love thing nairan can handle it by themselves
But Naina wasn't happy in the beginning and even then she didn't reveal it. So how can you trust Naina when she is saying she is "happy" now? Naina specifically told Meghna.. that she didn't reveal it because she didn't want it to affect Meghnal's relationship. I honestly wish she hadn't said that because after that I can't see how Meghna is going to get over the guilt.
Maybe Naina is not lying to Meghna now about being happy but she could be deluding herself in order to keep the peace just to find a way to survive? As an extreme example, there are cases of stockholm syndrome where kidnapped victims fall in love with their captor and they actually resist attempts at rescue. I am not saying that is happening here. But my point is just because someone is saying something in a pressured scenario doesn't mean its accurate or healthy. But when you remove them from the situation they may realize they were getting caught up in something that didn't make a lot of sense or for the wrong reasons. Karan's a really nice guy.. Naina may feel a lot of guilt for feeling like she wasn't happy.
The way Naina asked God for her to decide.. I don't think Naina had truly made up her mind about what she wanted to do about the marriage. I think initially she wanted that relationship as refection of her mother's swabhiman. She didn't reveal Karan's hostile attitude because she didn't want it to affect the peace. So even when she found about his illness, disturbing the peace was never an option. I don't think she thought too much about it and just plunged in to see how she could help him. They got close during all that but I don't think she considered what their long term future was. But I think now she has to. Continuing in a limbo relationship like that is not healthy for either of them.
Leaving NaiRan to figure out the love thing doesn't make a lot of sense to me... because you don't need to be married to enjoy a friend's company. If NaiRan got divorced, they could still spend time together. But she would also have the chance at a normal life. If she's not in love with Karan, then its actually a win-win.
Edited by malikakas - 8 years ago
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