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Originally posted by: chicksoup

I don't think they ever said Pari doesn't believe in commitment. She just wanted to stay away from love in any form.

Emotional connect to Ruhaan - she had him helping out with the bike breakdown and her deal, boosting her confidence.

Mishti feels a connection with Ruhaan which cannot be called physical. It is not like she recalls his touch or the kisses. They are more of scary things for her. She has seen the good side of the guy, dealing with her siblings and still wants to push him away, not even wanting him as a friend. It is not physical attraction, I don't understand why people say that. It is just that both feel an invisible bond or connect. The ghabraahat is so much a part of every romantic relationship , where you would wait in anticipation , excitement. That's how a love story goes in real life. They are not jumping at each other to hug or kiss or do any physical act. It is a feeling that is sinking in slowly.

Pari is feeling what Mishti and Ruhaan are feeling for each other, at a milder level. That's why it is an infatuation.

Veer is a good guy. A girl like Mishti is romantic deep down. He can satisfy her physical needs, but emotionally they are not on the same page. It is unfortunate, but it doesn't always work out. If Mishti succeeds in cutting down her emotional side, and be practical, she is not being true to herself. She needs to explore it and understand it before she rejects that side to her.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

That's a good comparison.. 👍🏼

Obviously , if they didn't show her married to Veer yet, they are telling a different story from Season One . This is what I feel.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

For me chalte chalte movie is going on in silsila 2😆Mishti is rani and ruhaan is shahrukh and veer is sameer (jas arora).

Originally posted by: poiu123

And Sameer was nice guy too. But SRK ke samne mujhe nahi dikha 😆

Originally posted by: haalim_

People saying Mishaan have physical attraction, come on no romantic relationship is devoid of physical attraction. Infact, it is very important in a romantic relationship to feel physically attracted. Just saying!

Originally posted by: anshvi

They Cleary mentioned that Pari is commitment phobic

I don't see any emotional connect ehrn it comes to MishAan...if u notice all they remember ehrn they think of each other is either dare kiss or the nail marks or accidental romance

Mishti clearly didn't fall for his goodness and same goes for Ruhan

It started off with physical attraction...more than the good side makers have focused on the attraction and sparks .

Also no it is not going slowly but super rushed precisely why at least I find it all the more based on attraction

One day she is planning romantic date for her fiance and in the next couple of days feels uncomfortable ehrn he hugs her and wants Ruhan to wish her birthday.

It clearly is a case of attraction for me rather than true love

For Pari in fact I can understand since she isn't in a relation plus there have been scenes to explain why she feels what she feels for Ruhan...he gave her the confidence, modelling scene where he called her the perfect woman etc.

But for Mishti who was in a happy relation it seems quite out of the blue

If Mishti ever felt that she was unsure of her feelings then she shouldn't have committed to Veer

Not only did she dated him, professed her love for him, got engaged to him but also decided to marry him and she clearly was elated to be with him

Now all of a sudden another guy enters and she falls for him...maybe writers wanted to project something else here but clearly they failed as Mishti seems quite wrong here...st least to me

Originally posted by: haalim_

And I love u for this. This is exactly what I feel.

Originally posted by: anshvi

A relation should be much more than that...u r right physical attraction is an important PART..A relation should be based on trust, understanding, care , love AND physical attraction.

A relation should not be based solely on the basis of attraction coz it's not going to survive in the long run

Also here the problem is Mishti is not single but in a happy commited relation so there should be a very strong reason for her to fall out of love with Veer and in love with Ruhan and attraction can't be the sole or the main reason

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Pari says she wants to stay away from everything about love - she says it quite often actually... She believes love is the spark she has not seen with Arnav. I feel the spark is very much there, she is just blind to it because she doesn't believe in it. She feels some spark with Ruhaan and thinks that is love. What if Ruhaan had a girlfriend ? She wouldn't feel the same spark? Of course she would . But it would die down, because it is just a crush.

Mishti feels the spark with a greater intensity , because Ruhaan exudes that aura too. There is an unspoken deep connection she is trying to deny.

Ruhaan remembers the kiss and nailmarks with amusement and curiosity, because he wants to believe she feels what he feels too.

Mishti remembers the same with fear because she didn't want those to occur. They were accidents she never wanted. She is not remembering those moments with a good feeling.

Now she is going to be totally clueless and at a loss because she is going to enter unsafe waters she would never enter. She will blame herself and Ruhaan, I feel. Let us see how it goes.