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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Sanam_26



What about so many I love you's? The romantic date?
And within 2-3 days flipped?

Even in arrange marriage couple say ILU , and get into physical relation too
That exactly this season is trying to explore that sometimes things look perfect outwardly but you are forcing ur heart and mind

I had a friend who dated guy found it was perfect and decided to get marry , it was after they got engaged she felt things arent what she thought , still she persisted and went ahead it is been 1 year and both filed a divorce because they werent as perfect as they thought

Mind you this was a love marriage too , the families agreed and there was no issue whatsoever but some how things fell apart ,Reason both rushed into within 2 years relationship

So can relate with Mishti prolly she felt it is perfect but it wasnt perfect ,she thought things will remain same as both are similar which is not how it is in life
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: chicksoup


It doesn't look like either Mishti or Veer felt that special feeling in the past. It looks like two nice good looking people met, liked each other, decided to get married and do what all engaged people do for each other. It is sweet. But it doesn't sound like a love story.

Ruhaan enters. Mishti feels something she never felt before, hates it and fights tooth and nail to get it out of her life. She finds it evil.

Everyone has nice things to say about Ruhaan.

Ruhaan understands his feelings, wants to keep away, but thinks his will get resolved. He doesn't want to Pursue her, but enjoys spending time with her. He doesn't know he may not be able to hold his feelings after one point. He feels anyway she is clear about her priorities, he can hang around her, fact is, that tortures him. He is willing to bear that, since he doesnt have a green signal from Mishti. Obviously he thinks she is set and he cannot force her. He enjoys whatever attention she gives him, not asking for anything in return .

Mishti finds her feelings for Ruhaan is not normal , but she is above her feelings so she can tackle it. She was running away so far, now she will take it on. She asked him to wish her to break the ice. She is not going to marry Veer without settling whatever she feels for his friend. Intention is good.


You explain so well this is exactly what I was trying to explain 😳
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: chicksoup


It doesn't look like either Mishti or Veer felt that special feeling in the past. It looks like two nice good looking people met, liked each other, decided to get married and do what all engaged people do for each other. It is sweet. But it doesn't sound like a love story.

Ruhaan enters. Mishti feels something she never felt before, hates it and fights tooth and nail to get it out of her life. She finds it evil.

Everyone has nice things to say about Ruhaan.

Ruhaan understands his feelings, wants to keep away, but thinks his will get resolved. He doesn't want to Pursue her, but enjoys spending time with her. He doesn't know he may not be able to hold his feelings after one point. He feels anyway she is clear about her priorities, he can hang around her, fact is, that tortures him. He is willing to bear that, since he doesnt have a green signal from Mishti. Obviously he thinks she is set and he cannot force her. He enjoys whatever attention she gives him, not asking for anything in return .

Mishti finds her feelings for Ruhaan is not normal , but she is above her feelings so she can tackle it. She was running away so far, now she will take it on. She asked him to wish her to break the ice. She is not going to marry Veer without settling whatever she feels for his friend. Intention is good.



Again why are we assuming that it was not special

I am saying on basis of what has been shown...they went for a love marriage which means they fell in love and after knowing each other
And finding each other compatible they decided to marry
This is what happens in real life and might not seem special but it's quite relatable

My point is that they are a happy married couple and makers haven't given a strong reason for Mishti to fall out of love and in love with another guy

So If She Dumps VEER who Isn't At Fault here For Another Guy then It Is DefInitely Her fault

LIke I Said It Is About Choosing between Less Wrong And More Wrong For Her ...she isn't right in this case neither is Ruhan
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: anshvi


I guess u r confused...this is not an arranged marriage but a love marriage

Here MishVeer are going for a love marriage ...if she was going for an arranged marriage then it would have make some sense

But here Veer was her first boyfriend..so she must have experienced attraction with him too, they must have dated and then decided to marry ...So to say she never knew love would be wrong
If she didn't then they clearly played with Veer's emotions though unintentionally but she did

Also like I said makers haven't given a strong reason for her to fall out of love with Veer and in love with Ruhan


This is what I am trying to tell you. This is an arranged marriage actually. If either of them fell short of their expectations, they wouldnt go ahead with marriage. They are great as friends. They thought love is naturally next. Not so always. They just found a partner acceptable to their parents and their own expectations. It was very mechanical. Only difference is, they arranged it instead of their parents. They wouldn't go ahead if either side raised any objections. They wouldn't face all odds to be in love. Everuthing fell into.place so easily- not necessarily love.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: anshvi


I guess u didn't watch it properly

she did say that Veer is like her , perfect for her AND also said that He is her first boyfriend and will be her last
So if she fell for Veer and commited to him and now has fallen for soemoen else simply coz she never knew her own feeling than she is clearly at fault here and no one else

That is what I said na she mistook the liking and being similar to be enough for marriage while it clearly isnt
Also why do you always feel it has to be fault , heartbreak hurts but ppl get over it
Mistakes are human nature and that is what Mishti will realise life isnt perfect

And before someone say what was mistake in S1 then it was clearly that they were married for years stayed 24/7 with each other and one fine day man flipped

Here clearly itsnt case,Mishti hs hardly known guy for 1 year bec it was frst holi,first birthday so clearly she mistook similarity and being alike as love,like many do
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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: anshvi


Again why are we assuming that it was not special

I am saying on basis of what has been shown...they went for a love marriage which means they fell in love and after knowing each other
And finding each other compatible they decided to marry
This is what happens in real life and might not seem special but it's quite relatable

My point is that they are a happy married couple and makers haven't given a strong reason for Mishti to fall out of love and in love with another guy

The makers gave reason right from start , the fault in what Mishti think and her planning which is a flaw ,that is why she went ahead with Veer when she first met and found him similar to herself
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Posted: 6 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: anshvi


Again why are we assuming that it was not special

I am saying on basis of what has been shown...they went for a love marriage which means they fell in love and after knowing each other
And finding each other compatible they decided to marry
This is what happens in real life and might not seem special but it's quite relatable

My point is that they are a happy married couple and makers haven't given a strong reason for Mishti to fall out of love and in love with another guy


I replied partly to this above.
Nothing has been shown to show they were irrevocably in love.
Might not seem. Special - should it not be special? Love is extremely special. That's why I call it a marriage they arranged.

Even friends are happy with each other. That is enough reason to be married if nothing special comes your way. Then you choose what is relatable .
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: chicksoup


This is what I am trying to tell you. This is an arranged marriage actually. If either of them fell short of their expectations, they wouldnt go ahead with marriage. They are great as friends. They thought love is naturally next. Not so always. They just found a partner acceptable to their parents and their own expectations. It was very mechanical. Only difference is, they arranged it instead of their parents. They wouldn't go ahead if either side raised any objections. They wouldn't face all odds to be in love. Everuthing fell into.place so easily- not necessarily love.


Umm NOPE it's clearly a love marriage and am not saying on basis on any assumption but what has been mentioned by the writers
U r clearly assuming here
Mishti and Veer both loved each other and decided to marry cos they fell in love and also found each other pretty compatible

In real life also hawae nahi udhti..it's not filmy but relatable and simple
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Posted: 6 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: anshvi



Exactly MishVeer is a love marriage
Now if Mishti thinks she never loved him and started loving someone else then clearly she is at fault



I think Mishti loves Veer but isn't in love with him. She chose him because he is safe. She is settling for someone who is perfect like her to avoid a heartbreak. This of course course is just what I think.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: anshvi


Umm NOPE it's clearly a love marriage and am not saying on basis on any assumption but what has been mentioned by the writers
U r clearly assuming here
Mishti and Veer both loved each other and decided to marry cos they fell in love and also found each other pretty compatible

In real life also hawae nahi udhti..it's not filmy but relatable and simple

This is exactly what show is trying to show and everyone trying to explain it to you that what Mishti assumed it was love because she felt Veer was similar was not love ,she thought from her brain and messed it up

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