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Originally posted by: khatimeethi

That is what I said na she mistook the liking and being similar to be enough for marriage while it clearly isnt

Also why do you always feel it has to be fault , heartbreak hurts but ppl get over it

Mistakes are human nature and that is what Mishti will realise life isnt perfect

And before someone say what was mistake in S1 then it was clearly that they were married for years stayed 24/7 with each other and one fine day man flipped

Here clearly itsnt case,Mishti hs hardly known guy for 1 year bec it was frst holi,first birthday so clearly she mistook similarity and being alike as love,like many do

if mishty is not in love with veer and there is no emotional bond between both to un dono ne engagement ek doorse se Kaise Karliya baat shaadi tuk Kaise paunch gayi if mishty and veer really don't share any emotional bond


is mishty engage because of family choice? just because mishty family want mishty to marry veer that is why she is marrying veer

but I don't think mishty is marrying veer because of family. because until ruhaan come . mishty is very much happy with veer

and it is impossible to remain happy always with that person whom u don't love

mishty was very much happy with veer so it doesn't not look force love neither sacrifice for family


there is mutual love between veer and mishty


and in today world koi bhi couple ek doorse se shaadi ke life instantly Haan nahi kehte ki aaj mile doorse din shaadi ki Haan ho gayi

I am sure jubilee veer and mishty mileage hoge pehli baar to dono ek doorse se shaadi karne se pehle ek doorse se mahinon tuk baat cheet ki hogi. jub dono ko laga hoga ki un dono mein emotional bond hai tub dono ne ek doorse se shaadi ke liye Haan ki hogi

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

This is exactly what show is trying to show and everyone trying to explain it to you that what Mishti assumed it was love because she felt Veer was similar was not love ,she thought from her brain and messed it up

Originally posted by: anshvi

Commitment is commitment be it in any relation

If A partner is trying everything in her power to keep the other happy and isn't at fault then the other partner ditching him for someone else is wrong !

Also Mishti doesn't know Veer for too long but longer than Ruhan for sure

Also like I said there isn't any concrete reason for her to fall out of love and in love with Ruhan

Here for whatver reason whether it is thst she was unsure of her feelings or she didn't know what she felt or any other reason but her ditching Veer without any fault of his makes her wrong

That is why exactly matters of heart are complicated isnt it ? If one partner isnt ready and doesnt want to isnt heartnreak better than life time misery

Originally posted by: anshvi

See my point is attraction is the first step o agree but here the problem is that Mishti is committed so drifting towards someone simply on the basis of attraction doesn't seem right!

Feeling out of love and falling for someone can't be based solely on the basis of attraction

If we look at it then Mishti might have felt attraction for Veer as well then would have started to get to know each other then they must have dated before committing to each other

So what has changed now ? What exactly was lacking ? This is where the problem comes ! As per CVs Mishti was super happy with Veer and was looking forward to Get married to him until Ruhan entered the frame

The thing is Mishti is not controlling her growing feelings but also giving in to them

Ruhan knew what he felt for Mishti...agree he couldn't control it but he could leave as well as per me ...but he saw a sleeping Mishti and decided to stay back ! Here he acted coz he felt !

Mishti also went to Ruhan and asked her to wish him! She is not maintaining a distance which is in her hands

So, they are slowly not only losing control of their feelings but also acting on them and this will create a mess

Originally posted by: anshvi

And who's fault is it then ?

This is what I have been saying ! Mishti is at fault here

Cos Veer loves her and she will ditch him for another guy without his fault

she will put him through heartbreak that her mom went through..which she never wanted to experience .if tomorrow Veer fell

For another Girl despite in a relation with Mishti then he would have been at fault as well

It's quite simpe

lLeaving a partner without any fault of his and ruining a happy relation can neve be justifed

And things in life are not black and white

Originally posted by: haalim_

May be their relationship was based on care and appreciation only. CVs haven't given us their back story yet. I've seen girls melting seeing care more easily than they melt for love. Personally, I value care and appreciation more than love but I'm not criticising mishti because I respect her POV too.

As long as they are not starting a relationship, them interacting or helping each other doesn't make them wrong.

Exactly as long as they fight dont cross red lines of sleeping with each other while keeping other partner unaware and pretend as if nothing happened and realise mistake theirs isnt similar case

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

That is why exactly matters of heart are complicated isnt it ? If one partner isnt ready and doesnt want to isnt heartnreak better than life time misery

Wasnt Dil toh pagal hai same or Saathiya as someone pointed out raised same question

In life inadverttly you hurt someone that is why it is journey and not black and white

Originally posted by: anshvi

That is why I said it is between choosing less wrong and more wrong for Mishti..she will be wrong in both cases

Dil Toh hai pagal Hai can't Be CCompared Cox There MADHURI never Loved AKSHAY And Agreed To Marry HIm Coz His family Had Helped Her Fam And He Was Her Friend..It Wasn't A Love Marriage Per say But AN Alliance Of MajBoori

Also Many MovIes Also Glorify Ema Doesn't Mean They Are RigHt

But Madhuri agreed and Akshay character loved her so

And I feel love cannot be undone. If Mishti was in love with Veer she would not have been affected by Ruhaan.