My point is often the romantic relationships start with physical attraction only and other things like trust and understanding develop with time. It's not like all the people in a relationship start bonding emotionally at their very first meeting.And regarding the commitments, as long as mishti is engaged to Veer, either Ruhaan approaching her or her starting a relationship with Ruhaan is wrong according to me as well.And regarding their feelings towards each other, their actions will define their characters not their feelings. Because I believe u can control ur actions not ur feelings.