Ragini's actions justifiable? - Page 5

I think that at the moment Ragini's action justifiable.She is doing because of her husband and baby.Once Shadna also slap Ranvir(jiji's husband) because of her husband.

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

My sis supports ragini all the way and she thinks what sadhna did was absolutely wrong and whatever is sadhna going through is also right. So i asked "Are you serious? Why do u think tht?" and all she replied was " You wouldn't understand until you get married." Then i realized that if i was in sadhna's place and if i had done something like this, my sister would also react like ragini and probably give me a tight slap and never ever forgive me. I guess after marriage your husband becomes the closest to your heart.

I agree and disagree with your post. After Marriage, your husband is your closest and most important relationship - yes, but that does not mean other relationships cease to exist. One should be balanced in their relationships. Getting married does not mean no one else matters to you anymore and you stop looking beyond your spouse. Each relationship has its own value in life and one has to strike a balance as much as possible. That is why Vinu's behavior irks everyone cause he is blinded by Malti's love and cannot see beyond her.

In this case since the day Ranvir was jailed, Ragini has been living in a world of dreams, even before he was sentenced jail. I mean I agree she needs him the most when she is pregnant, but life is not all goody goody always, so you have to face the situation with courage. In a long long time I haven't seen Ragini strong. When dadibua used to poison her mind against Saadhna, she would just listen quietly to her, until Ranvir corrected her. Why couldn't she just getup and say I can't hear a word against my sister, I love her a lot or just like Saadhna make an excuse and leave. She was elder but when elders forget their duties and take the wrong path, is it a wise thing to just sit and listen to their crap?

The miscarriage was entirely her fault. Being away from your husband does not mean you loose senses. I met a lady the other day, whose husband was in army and had to go to Iraq when she was 2 months pregnant. Her husband came after a year to greet a healthy little boy. I was just wondering how life must have been for her those months of pregnancy, she didn't even know if she would ever see her husband or not, but she was one strong lady I have to say.

Also, I agree when people say CT's have damaged her character a lot, but what I don't understand is when people say don't blame Raagini, blame CTs. When we blame Raagini, are we not blaming CTs as they have created this fictional character called Raagini, otherwise Raagini is not a actual person who exists. 😕

Ragini has been reduced to a miserable woman whose only job is to cry and yell... Its really too bad.

Cheers,
dc

Former Ragini probably.

guys....... before judging Ragini i think we have to know a few things.....

1. When Sadhana went ahead and said the truth we all support... but the Major suffering for this is suffered by Ragini... and i think no one will disagree on this right.... who can be quit if your husband is in Pain and you have lost your child at the same time.....

2. Well..... some of us had justified Sadhana's behavior during the accident.... when she spoke a bit rudely to Ragini.... and when she Slapped Ranveer without even seeing his wounds....some of us justified this act of her's..... was Sadhana not just thinking about her husdband at that time.........

when we did support Sadhana act at that time.... why are we blaming Ragini now........

well.. one more thing is these creatives are such losers..... they always show Sadhana stronger and gain peoples sympathy for her.... but Ragini....why is she always shown sooooo week........i hate these creatives...

now tell me guys... is Ragini worng now

Originally posted by: helloall

I agree and disagree with your post. After Marriage, your husband is your closest and most important relationship - yes, but that does not mean other relationships cease to exist. One should be balanced in their relationships. Getting married does not mean no one else matters to you anymore and you stop looking beyond your spouse. Each relationship has its own value in life and one has to strike a balance as much as possible. That is why Vinu's behavior irks everyone cause he is blinded by Malti's love and cannot see beyond her.

In this case since the day Ranvir was jailed, Ragini has been living in a world of dreams, even before he was sentenced jail. I mean I agree she needs him the most when she is pregnant, but life is not all goody goody always, so you have to face the situation with courage. In a long long time I haven't seen Ragini strong. When dadibua used to poison her mind against Saadhna, she would just listen quietly to her, until Ranvir corrected her. Why couldn't she just getup and say I can't hear a word against my sister, I love her a lot or just like Saadhna make an excuse and leave. She was elder but when elders forget their duties and take the wrong path, is it a wise thing to just sit and listen to their crap?

The miscarriage was entirely her fault. Being away from your husband does not mean you loose senses. I met a lady the other day, whose husband was in army and had to go to Iraq when she was 2 months pregnant. Her husband came after a year to greet a healthy little boy. I was just wondering how life must have been for her those months of pregnancy, she didn't even know if she would ever see her husband or not, but she was one strong lady I have to say.

Also, I agree when people say CT's have damaged her character a lot, but what I don't understand is when people say don't blame Raagini, blame CTs. When we blame Raagini, are we not blaming CTs as they have created this fictional character called Raagini, otherwise Raagini is not a actual person who exists. 😕

wow i love your comment

well fuly true old ragi was gold i want my old naughty smiling ragini not this one

Originally posted by: Sh_ka_su

guys....... before judging Ragini i think we have to know a few things.....

1. When Sadhana went ahead and said the truth we all support... but the Major suffering for this is suffered by Ragini... and i think no one will disagree on this right.... who can be quit if your husband is in Pain and you have lost your child at the same time.....

2. Well..... some of us had justified Sadhana's behavior during the accident.... when she spoke a bit rudely to Ragini.... and when she Slapped Ranveer without even seeing his wounds....some of us justified this act of her's..... was Sadhana not just thinking about her husdband at that time.........

when we did support Sadhana act at that time.... why are we blaming Ragini now........

well.. one more thing is these creatives are such losers..... they always show Sadhana stronger and gain peoples sympathy for her.... but Ragini....why is she always shown sooooo week........i hate these creatives...

now tell me guys... is Ragini worng now

1. Sadhna slapped her brother in law because he did not listen to her, it was a reflex action. Later immediately when she came back to her senses she apologized. And then faced a turmoil at home as we know. Sadhna's slap to Ranvir was understandable as Ranvir defied everyone, gave the steering to a mentally challenged person. If not having an accident themselves, it could be some innocent person infront of their car to die! That would be unforgivable.

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky

1. Sadhna slapped her brother in law because he did not listen to her, it was a reflex action. Later immediately when she came back to her senses she apologized. And then faced a turmoil at home as we know. Sadhna's slap to Ranvir was understandable as Ranvir defied everyone, gave the steering to a mentally challenged person. If not having an accident themselves, it could be some innocent person infront of their car to die! That would be unforgivable.

2. All Sadhna did was say the truth. Ranvir and Mamaji are proud. Ragini got the same teachings from Mamaji about truth. Ragini could easily have fought for Ranvir (like Malti), and also understood Sadhna's turmoil as Ragini knows Sadhna the best in home. I can understand her pain, but as a lead she shuld've shown higher signs of actions.

3. Ragini is about to blame Sadhna for her miscarriage on January the 1st. That is really sick! Sorry guyz, its just my POV ... but that is really lame. It was Ragini's fault. And a very meaningless one.

4. Ragini is now herself to blame. What did she do till now but act hysteric? Nothing at all! She could do alot! She could atleast try! She could try and handle the house of Ranvir, the child of Ranvir ... in Ranvir's absense, she could hold on to whatever is his!
Women of India are known to be strong enough to fight for their husband and their loved ones. To be rational. Infact mature and good women of any country do this. India has many bright examples all along the way in history.

5. Now probably Sadhna will take actions after getting out of the home, and do something for Ranvir. Ragini being in a corner and weep ... or just shower more animosity on Sadhna.

I am surprised that Ragini will aid Mummy ji in kicking her orphan sister out! Does she not realise that Mamiji will also be against Sadhna? Where will Sadhna go?? Sadhna is a girl! A female.... and Indian streets lay much challenges!! Does she not care one bit??

All this for telling the truth? So self centered!!! Sorry guyz... I cannot justify her.

(sorry for first posting it somewhere else 😳...should've been here )

hey very well done said👏

Originally posted by: dharaa

kez without any doubt the former Ragini, the Ragini whom we saw for past two years is better.
That Ragini is lost somewhere, that was the Ragini, whom we could all relate to, she was an idol, she was an inspiration for most of us...and the DT's have destroyed her like anything...and more than anything, i feel pity for Parul, being such a fab actress she is getting such a ghisa-pita role to play.

agree wid u yarrr.......dat RAGI hs lost smwhere.....she hsnt gt dat much importance except 4 d anmol-anamika track......ranvir did gt his share.........but poor ragini is jus statue who stands in d rajvansh house..doin nthng but nodding her head...dis is a cmplete injustice 2 parul.........RS hs two beautiful gems alongwid saalekh.........he's jus wastin d potential of RAGVIR..........its d high time he shud use their potential 2 d fullest.......