Ragini's actions justifiable? - Page 4

Lets hope like anything guys that there is some sort of reason behind Ragini's reaction and going against Sadhana like this.Remember how Ranvir was but in the end everything turned out to be good and for his brother.May be they'll think of a story line like that!

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

I started watching bidaai only from january so i cudnt see much of "olden golden" of ragini but i did catch up to some of her old golden self & i loved her tht time...so if ur asking which one i prefer...obviously it wud be the olden golden ragini.

BUT BUT BUT, at the same time i wudnt say what she is doing right now is wrong, i wouldn't say that at all. Actually in my opinion, her action and reaction is very very much justified. I wouldn't have said that if my sister & i werent having a mini conversation about it the other day when i "mistakenly" watched bidaai😆 My sis supports ragini all the way and she thinks what sadhna did was absolutely wrong and whatever is sadhna going through is also right. So i asked "Are you serious? Why do u think tht?" and all she replied was " You wouldn't understand until you get married." Then i realized that if i was in sadhna's place and if i had done something like this, my sister would also react like ragini and probably give me a tight slap and never ever forgive me. I guess after marriage your husband becomes the closest to your heart. And ragini lost her husband for 1 year, lost her child, her sister who helped her unite with her love of her life suddenly had to do something that broke their relationship...anybody would get mentally frustrated with all these coming at the same time. So i think ragini's action and reaction is justifying. It's just that she is totally not in the condition to be able to make a decision a "not frustrated" person can. And just like everybody said, the old ragini didnt have this situation, if she did, she would act the same way! Neither is she weak, she can't think of "how to be strong" procedures or tips when she's just going through so so much! She needs a counsellor, a guidance to do that. I wished somebody who's around her wouldn't just let her be alone like that and would give her mental support instead of crying themselves when they know that it's ragini who's suffering the most!

Right now the person's action that i think is not justifiable at all is alekh's...not ragini.

P.S- sadhna loved a guy named sakett????when was tht?😲

Originally posted by: farislove

Sadia, very well said 👏

@Bold black: About Saket, it's not Sadhna who liked him, it was Ragini, but he liked Sadhna, Ragini misunderstood and thought that he likes her.........

It was the first person who supposed to marry Ragini, but he rejected her at the same day they came to ask for her hand, he came and his intention was to marry Sadhna, but when he got to know that they misunderstood it, so he cleared it, Sadhna went to meet him to make him understand that Ragini loves him, Sadhna lied to Ragini that she is going somewher, but she went to meet him to make him understand, Ragini saw this and misunderstood Sadhna, but later on she got to know the truth..........

This was at the very begin of Bidaai..........

oh thnx ...thts wat i was wondering...i knew that but i got confused when i read sadhna loved sakett in this thread lol😆

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

oh thnx ...thts wat i was wondering...i knew that but i got confused when i read sadhna loved sakett in this thread lol😆

Originally posted by: taral83

we cant say that Ragni is not a strong person......the situation she is in right now has made her very depressed........that doesn't make her a weak person.........I am sure when she comes to her senses she will make the right choices....but for now her brain is a big black cloud............and she can not think beyond what has happen to her happy married life. I have said in another post that she never talked to Ranvir and Sadhna and then made her judgement......she is basically going by emotions.......Everyone in the family won't let Sadhna and Ragni have a moment alone in peace.....so that understanding in a tough situation was never made.......nor did she go to jail to see Ranvir...........If it was any normal person.......to have a loving husband...happy married life...a caring family and the blessing of a baby on the way..........and in a blink of a eye....gone....that is very hard to cope with......(even though its only one year :P )....We can not blame her for her reaction nor can we ignore it.........it situations that will be healed with time........She has been hearing nothing but negative stuff about Sadna from mamiji and Vasu "she doesn't love you ...she doesn't care for u......she took away your life" So right now....that is what is running in Ragni mind when she sees Sadhna....does it make it right?....If Ragni was in the right state of mind.......and she offended Sadhna like that.....yes it is wrong.........but because she is so depressed and not thinking properly...I can't totally blame her.......I had said in another post that she needs to put her self back together and take matters in her own hands......until then she will be self centered and depressed............there is only so much a person can handle no matter how strong they are............

We always had and still have comparisons between Sadhana and Ragini and how Sadhana always stayed strong in adverse conditions.I sincerely wanted to see that in Ragini.Remember when she realized that Ranvir is not going to marry her jiji she was devastated and shocked and was a zinda lash(for much lesser period of course)but then realized by her self or inner self that she has to respect that relation no matter what.I wanted to see Ragini like that and that was what I was hoping when RS mentioned a stronger Ragini.What do you think he meant when he said that?Cos I am completely clueless lol.May be we had too many hopes just by reading that word strong!

Rigini is not at all in her sense, she lost to recognize what's good what's bad... But I am pretty sure she is gonna come back and realize that she has made a mistake... But, I hope Rajan sahi should read viewers mind too.. It's high time to get over this crap track..

and only more thing, sadhna never loved Sakett..

It was a triangle.. Ragini loved saket, saket loved Sadhna, sadha never loved him.. she just wanted to get him married under the pressure from nani...

Gosh I hate this Vasu..

the way she was telling sadhana that this family loved u so much, when Alekh got normal, I said thanks to u blah blah blah..

Khadoos lady, U should be grateful to saadi for whole life..

For sadi only CM's real got exposed, alekh got normal..

and now u keep blaming her..

Hahaha,Vasu said that as if she is doing some ehsaan on Sadhana by saying thanks lol.

if crying and weeping makes u a weaker person...........well at the moment Sadhna is crying her eyeballs out............because she has no where to go....she has been kicked out from her house......and lost the respect from her so called family....a husband who has turned out to be the biggest pms drama queen ever..............Sadhna isn't doing much of a good job standing up for her rights....she is just weeping and asking to talk to her "jiji" and "please mumiji please listen to me"......so as far as I understand......if crying makes a person weak then both are weak at the moment..........this is their intial behavior.....we have to give it time in order to make any judgements on one's character........i think they are all in a state of shock that is blocking all rational thinking.......which includes Ragni, Sadhna, and the drama queen!

Originally posted by: taral83

if crying andweeping makes u a weaker person...........well at the moment Sadhna is crying her eyeballs out............because she has no where to go....she has been kicked out from her house......and lost the respect from her so called family....a husband who has turned out to be the biggest pms drama queen ever..............Sadhna isn't doing much of a good job standing up for her rights....she is just weeping and asking to talk to her "jiji" and "please mumiji please listen to me"......so as far as I understand......if crying makes a person weak then both are weak at the moment..........this is their intial behavior.....we have to give it time in order to make any judgements on one's character........i think they are all in a state of shock that is blocking all rational thinking.......which includes Ragni, Sadhna, and the drama queen!

You know thats the thing,she will come out strong even through this.But the DT's never gave a chance to Ragini.I wish Ragini gets a chance like that once.That's what we have been wanting to see and it looks like its never going to happen.Of course I will be happy to take my words back(more than happy in fact)if we get to see that!I can bet quite easily that at the end of this track its Ragini(again)who will be asking for forgiveness.It sure doesn't look good.Ys she is doing all this cos of shock and hurt and pain and anger but at the end of this track I want to see both the sisters on equal foot.No one is right or wrong on this matter.Just move on...thinking that phase of your life as some bad dream and agree on disagreeing.But it wouldn't happen of course!