Ragini's actions justifiable? - Page 3

At least she woke up after I gently nudged her lol.Good,good

^I like it,I like it!😆

I am missing old Aalekh,too!😭
(Sorry for going off topic😆)

@kezia- Sorry, I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying with regards to being in that situation. What I was trying to say (but not doing a very good job!) was that we can't know how the "old" Ragini would've reacted to recent events because the "old" Ragini was never in that situation where she had lost a child and her husband was in jail. I was not making a personal remark but apologies if you took it like that.

In the past when Ragini had faced such adversary she had others to help her overcome them e.g. Ranvir helped to clear Vinit's name when police were after him, Sadhana helped with the parivaars financial crisis by seeking employment and so on. I'm not belittling the problems Ragini has faced because she has been through a lot with the likes of Saket, Puneet and even Ranvir but, Sadhana was always there to help, no matter what. With that in mind therefore and from Ragini's point of view, she believed her sister, her main support would help her with the current situation. But because Sadhana told the truth in court, Ragini feels betrayed.

I completely agree with you. Swearing under oath on the Holy Book is no joke. What Sadhana did was morally and humanly right and very commendable. I think right now though, Ragini is not in the right state of mind to decide what is right and wrong. She is still very much hurting and because of that, is not able to think rationally and understand her sister's predicament.

Yes, Sadhana didn't know about Alekh and Ranvir's well-being after the crash and hence was extremely tensed. But what Ragini is going through at the moment is also reality. Her child is no more and Ranvir is still imprisoned.

I'm really sorry if my earlier post offended you. That was not my intention. I just wanted to express things from Ragini's point of view. I am also a Sadhana fan and think it is unfair how things have worked out.

RESERVED.

I have a lot to say about this, lol. 😊

But I will say that I really miss the old Ragini. 😭

I like the old Ragini much more, the creatives destroyed her character, but what is Ragini through now is situational, but I can't imagin all this hate in Ragini towards Sadhna, big different between old and the current Ragini, I miss the sharmeli Ragini, thought her sadness is reasonable, but in somehow I feel still that Ragini's eyes is searching for Sadhna...........

we cant say that Ragni is not a strong person......the situation she is in right now has made her very depressed........that doesn't make her a weak person.........I am sure when she comes to her senses she will make the right choices....but for now her brain is a big black cloud............and she can not think beyond what has happen to her happy married life. I have said in another post that she never talked to Ranvir and Sadhna and then made her judgement......she is basically going by emotions.......Everyone in the family won't let Sadhna and Ragni have a moment alone in peace.....so that understanding in a tough situation was never made.......nor did she go to jail to see Ranvir...........If it was any normal person.......to have a loving husband...happy married life...a caring family and the blessing of a baby on the way..........and in a blink of a eye....gone....that is very hard to cope with......(even though its only one year :P )....We can not blame her for her reaction nor can we ignore it.........it situations that will be healed with time........She has been hearing nothing but negative stuff about Sadna from mamiji and Vasu "she doesn't love you ...she doesn't care for u......she took away your life" So right now....that is what is running in Ragni mind when she sees Sadhna....does it make it right?....If Ragni was in the right state of mind.......and she offended Sadhna like that.....yes it is wrong.........but because she is so depressed and not thinking properly...I can't totally blame her.......I had said in another post that she needs to put her self back together and take matters in her own hands......until then she will be self centered and depressed............there is only so much a person can handle no matter how strong they are............

My last hope-I wish Ragini wouldn't say 'Tumhari wajah se mein mera baccha kho diya'!!!She can rant,rave and do anything she wants but blaming Sadhana for loss of her child would be very sad indeed!

I started watching bidaai only from january so i cudnt see much of "olden golden" of ragini but i did catch up to some of her old golden self & i loved her tht time...so if ur asking which one i prefer...obviously it wud be the olden golden ragini.

BUT BUT BUT, at the same time i wudnt say what she is doing right now is wrong, i wouldn't say that at all. Actually in my opinion, her action and reaction is very very much justified. I wouldn't have said that if my sister & i werent having a mini conversation about it the other day when i "mistakenly" watched bidaai😆 My sis supports ragini all the way and she thinks what sadhna did was absolutely wrong and whatever is sadhna going through is also right. So i asked "Are you serious? Why do u think tht?" and all she replied was " You wouldn't understand until you get married." Then i realized that if i was in sadhna's place and if i had done something like this, my sister would also react like ragini and probably give me a tight slap and never ever forgive me. I guess after marriage your husband becomes the closest to your heart. And ragini lost her husband for 1 year, lost her child, her sister who helped her unite with her love of her life suddenly had to do something that broke their relationship...anybody would get mentally frustrated with all these coming at the same time. So i think ragini's action and reaction is justifying. It's just that she is totally not in the condition to be able to make a decision a "not frustrated" person can. And just like everybody said, the old ragini didnt have this situation, if she did, she would act the same way! Neither is she weak, she can't think of "how to be strong" procedures or tips when she's just going through so so much! She needs a counsellor, a guidance to do that. I wished somebody who's around her wouldn't just let her be alone like that and would give her mental support instead of crying themselves when they know that it's ragini who's suffering the most!

Right now the person's action that i think is not justifiable at all is alekh's...not ragini.

P.S- sadhna loved a guy named sakett????when was tht?😲

-Saalekh- Right now the person's action that i think is not justifiable at all is alekh's...not ragini.

Originally posted by: taral83

-Saalekh- Right now the person's action that i think is not justifiable at all is alekh's...not ragini.

EXACTALLYYYY...bravo!!! 👏 and that is someone we can blame!!!! 🤢 ALEKH!!!😡 ......he out of all people should have stood up for Sadhna....what he is doing is 100% wrong and very disgusting......

Basically both ragini and sadhna need a guidance to guide them and give them mental support...but all people are doing is crying themselves, worrying about themselves, and throwing ppl out...as if thts going to fiz their problem🥱 Mental support from somebody can atleast help them...if alekh cant help sadi atleast he could try to help ragini...but all he does is apologize and promises things that he knows he can never fulfill.

Not only alekh, another example is kaushi...can't she just stop crying and blaming sadi and rather go to ragini and give her strong mental support? You must have heard "a mother is the best guidance"...but where is kaushi's guidance and support? going against sadhna wouldn't show she's supporting ragini! i m sorry but till now what i realized is that kaushi is not a good mother at all. When ragini was being called "ugly" since her childhood, all kaushi did was give poor ragini the fairness and whitening creams. Oh c'mon she was just making the things more worse for ragini, she was hurting ragini's self-esteem, not supporting her! And now she's doing the same thing. Wished kaushi's character was more real and more of what a real mother is. Bidaai has become such show that i can't just realte to any single character anymore cuz they r not real :(