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nikolai_gogol

@nikolai_gogol

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#81

I would like a scene in the near future where Zoya is indimidated by Asad and expecting a physical reaction from him(a shove, slap). Asad is shocked by Zoya's body language and the fact that she expects him to get physical with her and explain it to her that no matter what happens in future he's never gonna repeat what he did.

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whatthewhat

@whatthewhat

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: Laila2009

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Seriously, I didn't know whether to laugh or cry when I saw it...I was like what is wrong with some people!

Why do people find it romantic that one person wants to "own" and exert "rights" over another person? Why is this "haq" business romantic at all?

Man: B***h! You're mine!

Woman: Oh how romaaantic...❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Tell me again you manly man!

Are you kidding?! 😲

And the lyrics to the first song in the video..."mere haath mein tera haath ho" fshould be changed for Asad and Zoya:

Mere haath mein...teri jaan ho...

saari zindagi...mera raj ho...

Edited by narangi314 - 12 years ago

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Fatima

@Fatima_Q

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: Laila2009
The whole apology scene is so reminiscent of the honeymoon period of the cycle of abuse where we see the loving contrition where the man is remorseful, apologetic...and he goes out of his way to be kind, tranquil and loving..and all of sudden every naive young viewer will think - o, it is all right now.

Excellent post Laila...especially the above point.

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RadheKrish1

@RadheKrish1

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#84

Zoya didn't even stand up for herself like she did many times before like when Mr.Khan was at fault for her being kidnapped by Akram and his goons!

Her character was assassinated big time today! 😭 on top of it she said, "she understood him" OMG! Allahmia what's wrong with her? I can't say the same for Asad bc his head was in the wrong place to begin with-I was watching to see the transformation like Darcy but no such luck, it just took a turn for the worst.

This reflects bad on Dilshad too and apparently Asad cares for his mother-think NOT!

Disgusting! Disappointing, Demeaning...

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: maana
I personally would never look back at such a man no matter how hot he may b. A guy who does not respect ladies is definitely not a perfect guy.

I would say a guy who keeps insulting your parents and your upbringing, only becoz you are different is definitely not even a guy in my eyes...
a guy who has the nerve to tell you that you don't even deserve to have a mom is in my eyes a low class idiot, no matter what his state of mind is at that moment...he is just a plain a**h*** and than after one day tells you he didn't mean that 😡...yeah right...I am not even at the point yet of being disrespectful to ladies...

Let us do a role reverse here:
How would Asad have felt if Zoya would have told him, he doesn't deserve to have a mom, esp not a mom like Dilshad
And the next day walk up to him, say sorry and tell him she didn't mean it...would Asad have forgiven her ?????
If he cannot let go of his anger and always wants the last word, I don't think he would have ever forgiven Zoya...

Edited by eshasrk - 12 years ago

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

Excellent post Laila...especially the above point.

Thank you for your kind words. 😊Yep, in the west more people can see it because more and more women are educated about it...tragically we've got too many people not realizing it hence the silly VM and that ridiculous song...can you image how many women slapped in India are told to accept it because a man has haq over you and that it is a romantic thing to have it happen to you...SCARY.

Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: nikolai_gogol
I would like a scene in the near future where Zoya is indimidated by Asad and expecting a physical reaction from him(a shove, slap). Asad is shocked by Zoya's body language and the fact that she expects him to get physical with her and explain it to her that no matter what happens in future he's never gonna repeat what he did.

This would even be helpful...but we're not going to get anything after this...they've brushed the whole thing under the carpet.

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: RadheKrish1
Zoya didn't even stand up for herself like she did many times before like when Mr.Khan was at fault for her being kidnapped by Akram and his goons!

Her character was assassinated big time today! 😭 on top of it she said, "she understood him" OMG! Allahmia what's wrong with her? I can't say the same for Asad bc his head was in the wrong place to begin with-I was watching to see the transformation like Darcy but no such luck, it just took a turn for the worst.

This reflects bad on Dilshad too and apparently Asad cares for his mother-think NOT!

Disgusting! Disappointing, Demeaning...

Excellent point - that's what really irks me - all that standing up was at a time when shows were taking advantage of the Delhi rape case incident and trying to market it for what it was worth. I had hoped something - something - but they just focused on this words that he said to her about not having a mother. That was good but why not the physical abuse?

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RadheKrish1

@RadheKrish1

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: eshasrk

I would say a guy who keeps insulting your parents and your upbringing, only becoz you are different is definitely not even a guy in my eyes...
a guy who has the nerve to tell you that you don't even deserve to have a mom is in my eyes a low class idiot, no matter what his state of mind is at that moment...he is just a plain a**h*** and than after one day tells you he didn't mean that 😡...yeah right...I am not even at the point yet of being disrespectful to ladies...

Let us do a role reverse here:
How would Asad have felt if Zoya would have told him, he doesn't deserve to have a mom, esp not a mom like Dilshad
And the next day walk up to him, say sorry and tell him she didn't mean it...would Asad have forgiven her ?????
If he cannot let go of his anger and always wants the last word, I don't think he would have ever forgiven Zoya...

If roles were reversed and and Zoya told him he didn't deserve a mom, he would have personally jtaken her to Mangalpur and buried her there! yeah what a jerk. Many more words come to mind not suited to mention here but you know what I'm talking about 😉

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Yasmin

@Yazzi

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: narangi314

Why do people find it romantic that one person wants to "own" and exert "rights" over another person? Why is this "haq" business romantic at all?

Man: B***h! You're mine!
Woman: Oh how romaaantic...❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Tell me again you manly man!

Are you kidding?! 😲

And the lyrics to the first song in the video..."mere haath mein tera haath ho" fshould be changed for Asad and Zoya:

Mere haath mein...teri jaan ho...
saari zindagi...mera raj ho...